While you probably didn’t expect to find yourself planning a wedding for the second time, getting another chance at love is incredibly special. It’s a new chapter and a fresh start to happiness. And not only that, second weddings are unique in the sense that you’re older, wiser, and more empowered to plan a special day that’s focused on what’s right for you.
Because not everyone gets to have a wedding do-over, a second wedding can be a wonderful opportunity to create an event that’s unique to you and your partner. So if you’re planning to say “I do” (take two), here are second wedding ideas and tips on making your celebration just as beautiful–or even better–than the first.
Second Wedding Tips And Ideas
Focus On Beautifully Blending Your Family
Marrying your new partner often means forming a beautiful new blended family. You’re not just getting married and perhaps gaining bonus children or bringing a new spouse into your life. Your children are gaining a whole new family through your marriage. Making them feel like they’re part of the decision-making process is a great way to start things off on the right foot. And it’s a great way to make your wedding extra special and personal.
Incorporate Family Members In Meaningful Ways
Your second big day is a chance to include your current and new family members. And your children are some of the most important family members to consider. There are many ways to have them participate in the ceremony—from including them in the wedding party or sharing readings to even walking you down the aisle. Another great way to welcome all of the children into your new family unit is to include them in your vows or with a symbolic unity ritual.
Encourage Guest Participation with Personalized Rituals
To make your second wedding more inclusive and memorable, involve your guests in a unique and meaningful way by asking them to participate in the ceremony. For example, you could invite guests to share a meaningful memory, offer advice for the couple, contribute a small token, or participate in a handfasting ceremony. This allows everyone to feel more connected to your day, making it less about formalities and more about the shared love and support of the people you care about.
Honoring Late Loved Ones
If you or your partner want to celebrate the memory of a late spouse, there are many beautiful ways to honor them. From simple words of remembrance, reading a favorite poem or passage, displaying photos, or asking someone close to you to say a few words in your late loved one’s honor—don’t be afraid to include their memory.
Set this wedding apart from the last one by injecting more personality and flair into the festivities. Go for the unique venue, host a daytime wedding, have a food truck reception, or book over-the-top entertainment. But of course, if you’d prefer everything to be more traditional, that’s okay too. Include the traditions that feel meaningful to you, skip the rest, or create new ones. That choice is totally yours and your partner’s. Feel free to mix things up.
Consider A Romantic Getaway
If your last wedding was at a local venue, you might feel more comfortable having a destination wedding. This can be a great way to distance yourself literally to avoid comparing the previous wedding with your current one. The best thing about a destination wedding is the relaxed and laid-back atmosphere because everyone is on vacation. Now that you’re blending families, what better way to form bonding moments than in a setting where your loved ones have the freedom to enjoy themselves?
If a low-key and intimate affair is more your style, having a backyard wedding is a sentimental way to celebrate your and your partner’s love out of the comfort of your own home. There’s just something so special about exchanging heartfelt vows in the same setting where you’ve experienced some of life’s most significant moments.
Throw An Epic Surprise Wedding
Inviting your friends and family to a surprise wedding is certainly a fun and exciting alternative for couples who want to avoid all the unnecessary fuss and get right ahead to the main affair. You can pull off a surprise wedding by inviting your guests to another large event they wouldn’t want to miss, like an engagement party or a milestone birthday.
Now is the time to wear whatever you like, whether that’s a dramatic black ball gown or a dashing pink suit paired with a bolo tie. The fashion possibilities are endless! Have fun with your shoes and accessories, and encourage your loved ones to do the same. You’re starting a new chapter of your life, and both of you should do it authentically, so wear what feels right for you.
Prepare For Hard Or Overwhelming Times
A second wedding means that you have a beautiful second chance at love. But to get to where you are now, something deeply painful had to happen. And even though you’re very happy and in love, the planning process may bring up some painful memories. And on top of that, there may also be delicate family dynamics that come into play. So it’s best to prepare yourself for challenging times and overwhelming emotions and surround yourself with people who love and support you. And if needed, seek out counseling from professionals. All these feelings are normal, so be kind to yourself and your partner as you navigate through them.
Like any wedding, a second wedding is special and unique. There’s no need to tone down your shine just because you tied the knot before. You don’t have to take a discrete or subtle approach to the festivities or consider any traditions off-limits. Having a second wedding doesn’t mean it needs to be any less celebrated, and it deserves to be just as beautiful and magical as the second chance that led you to each other.
When you think of winter weddings, the idea of a cozy indoor reception might come to mind—but what if you could add a touch of adventure? This winter elopement inspiration proves that it’s possible to have both glamour and excitement, with an unexpected twist: ice skating.
“We were inspired by old money glam and wanted to create a scene that captured that classic, upscale vibe of a downtown hotel wedding—while adding the thrill of a sweet ice skating date to celebrate,” says Junebug vendor Chelsa Jay. And with that vision in mind, the team set out to showcase an intimate yet glamorous elopement that breaks away from the traditional.
The shoot took place at The Hotel Captain Cook, a historic luxury venue in downtown Anchorage. “The Hotel Captain Cook was perfect for this shoot. Its elegance set the tone for the old money glam vibe we envisioned,” Chelsea shares. The juxtaposition of its vintage charm and modern amenities provided a stylish base for the shoot, combining both timeless beauty and warmth for the indoor moments.
The bride’s dress combines vintage and modern styles, with dramatic pearl adorned puffed sleeves and a sleek, short silhouette that’s both bold and elegant. Paired with classic heels, it’s a timeless yet fresh look. The groom’s tailored gray suit paired with a lapel boutonniere, complements the romantic, glamorous vibe of the winter elopement.
However, it was the outdoor ice skating that really stole the show. “I’ve never photographed a couple ice skating on their wedding day before, so this was a first for me! I’m photographing a skiing couple this month and am excited to capture more of these adventurous wedding moments,” says Chelsea, clearly excited about future opportunities to capture couples trying something new and unexpected.
The florals by The Teal Door brought a touch of softness to the chilly surroundings. “The florals were gorgeous—those muted shades of blush and deep burgundy looked stunning against the snow. They were the perfect way to tie in the romance of the shoot.”
Of course, Alaska’s weather added an extra layer of challenge. “Alaska is known for its unpredictable weather, so we had no idea what to expect on the shoot day,” Chelsea explains. “It was nearly 40° in the days leading up to the shoot—completely uncharacteristic for this time of year. But on the shoot day, the temps dropped to the single digits. We took a few warm-up breaks in our vehicles, but our models were absolute troopers and made it through with smiles.”
The cold didn’t stop the couple from enjoying every moment. The ice skating was a playful and romantic experience, ending with a champagne pop to celebrate. “They had so much fun skating together. It was such a unique moment that added something special to the day.”
This styled shoot proves that winter weddings can be both stylish and fun, even when the temperatures drop. “I left this shoot feeling hopeful that it would inspire couples who are on the fence about having a winter wedding,” Chelsea shares. “Winter glam is totally achievable—you just have to embrace the chill and let the magic of the season unfold!”
When you’re planning out your wedding decor, one of the last things that probably comes to mind is wedding signage. However, wedding signs are one of the first things your guests see when arriving, and although they may seem like a small detail, they play a key role in your wedding.
From welcoming guests to telling them where to set their gifts to introducing your signature drinks, signs can be used for almost everything–literally. If you’re unsure which ones you need to include and which ones you can skip, you’re in luck. Because we’re narrowing down which ones are must-haves and sharing some of our favorites so you can get inspired.
What Wedding Signs You Need
Welcome Signs
Welcome signs do exactly what they’re titled–welcome your guests! They help them know they are in the right place and will save your planner the trouble of having to reassure everyone that walks through the door that they are where they’re supposed to be. They typically include your name, the wedding date, and sometimes the venue.
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Guest Book
Guest books serve as a scrapbook that you can look back on throughout the years. It’s important to have signs so that your guests can find your guest book and sign it. Wrangling hundreds of guests can be quite tricky, after all.
If your wedding takes place in a large venue or includes multiple locations—like separate spots for the ceremony and reception—directional signs are a thoughtful way to guide your guests. Pair them with timeline signs to keep everyone in the loop about the flow of events, from the ceremony start time to the final dance of the night.
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Bar Signs
Bar signs are extremely important if you’re going to have an open or cash bar. You want to let your guests know what drinks are available (ex. wine, liquor, beer, etc.). If you know you are going to be serving signature cocktails, signs are the best way to introduce the name of the cocktail as well as the ingredients as well.
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Seating Chart
Seating charts are another extremely important addition to your wedding decor. You’ll want to let your guests know which table they are at, and who they will be sitting with.
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Favors
Lastly, you will want a sign for your favors. You don’t want your guests to leave without their goodies. Placing a small sign next to your thank you gifts will help draw attention and let them know what you’re passing out.
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We’re just scratching the surface with our signage! One of the easiest ways to dress up your wedding reception is to create a seating chart that is picture-worthy. From signs that include food and drink to themed signs all about music, travel, and books, we’re rounding up some of our favorite seating charts that we’ve come across to help keep you inspired. And, of course, don’t forget to check our wedding decor checklist to help you nail every detail.
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A backyard wedding is perfect for couples who want a uniquely sentimental feel, love to be outdoors, or want their dream wedding on a budget. There are so many benefits to a backyard wedding–including cost and convenience–but with those benefits come a few extra details you need to keep in mind and situations you need to plan for.
To keep you on track, we’ve compiled this comprehensive guide with everything you need to know about planning a backyard wedding, from logistics to design.
How much does a backyard wedding cost?
The beauty of a backyard wedding is its flexibility–you can tailor the budget to suit your vision. On average, couples spend anywhere from $5,000 to $15,000, but that number can vary depending on factors like rental costs (tents, tables, chairs), catering, and décor. While you save on venue fees, remember that essentials like landscaping, permits, or a backup plan for bad weather can add to your overall expenses, but we’ll talk about those shortly.
Benefits of a Backyard Wedding
Furry Friends Are Invited
Weddings at home give you the perfect excuse to include your pets in your big day! You don’t need to clear it with a venue or pay a deposit, your furry friend doesn’t need to stress over travel, and they can head back inside when they’re finished partying with your guests.
When you decide to have a backyard wedding at a family member’s or friend’s home, you automatically slash your wedding budget dramatically because you aren’t paying for a venue, security deposits, per-person fees, and all the other hidden charges that go along with it. You can also save money on decor since you’ll have the natural elements to add visual interest. Yes, you’ll likely need to rent almost everything else, but those rentals will not outweigh the cost of a venue.
Dates Are Flexible
This might seem like a small thing but having complete freedom to choose a date that works best for you and your fiance is actually a huge benefit of a backyard wedding. It’s especially helpful if you want to get married during peak wedding season when venues book up at least a year in advance.
You Can Have An Intimate Guests List
Because a backyard wedding tends to be naturally more intimate than a wedding at a traditional venue, this is the perfect reason to keep your guest list small. If you’re nervous about how your families will react to a small guest list, remind them that space is the main limiting factor in your decision. Unless you’re getting married in the backyard of a multi-acre mansion, there simply won’t be enough space to accommodate a huge guest list. (But, really, you don’t need to feel guilty about your wedding guest list, no matter where you decide to tie the knot.)
There is nothing like saying “I do” in the backyard where you played as a child or getting ready in the room where you grew up. The sentimental factor of a backyard wedding can’t be recreated at any other outdoor wedding venue and shouldn’t be underestimated. You and your guests will feel more comfortable in a space that feels like home and it will be a special memory your family and friends will cherish forever.
Between the extra lighting, the sound system, and the food prep equipment, you’re going to be using a lot more power than most homes can handle. To ensure you don’t blow a fuse or put the entire neighborhood at risk of an outage, rent generators to accommodate the extra power you’ll need.
After you check with your caterer to find out what equipment they’ll be using and your DJ to find out how much power their setup needs, ask your wedding planner and the generator rental company for help in choosing the power sources that will fit your needs.
Restrooms
If your guest list is larger than 20 people, you will need to provide additional toilet facilities. There are so many options for upscale portable toilet trailers that provide a comfortable experience, including lighting, mirrors, sinks, and–most importantly– more space than traditional port-o-potties. You can even add a personal touch by adding a small amenities kit to each bathroom with breath fresheners, Band-Aids, hand sanitizer, cotton balls, and safety pins.
Trust us, this will save a lot of headaches because you won’t have everyone walking through the house and you won’t have to fix an over-used bathroom system.
Yard Maintenance And Setup
You’ll want to plan yard maintenance in advance to give plants time to fill out, flowers to bloom, and space to be cleared, if necessary. You might even consider hiring a landscaper to take care of all the design and maintenance so it’s one less thing on your to-do list. At the very least, you’ll need to cut the grass a few days before the wedding.
One thing you absolutely can’t forget to check is that the ground is level enough for chairs, tables, and a dance floor. If you’re renting a tent, their professional team will be able to check and let you know if they need to lay a foundation so the dance floor is level. If you’re not renting a tent, a landscaper should be able to check.
Insurance
As much as you don’t want to think about anything bad happening on your special day, it’s better to be safe than sorry if an accident does happen. Contact your homeowner’s insurance to see what is covered, such as property damage inside or outside the house. Then contact your vendors to find out what insurance they carry. You may have to purchase supplemental insurance, but your vendors’ insurance might also provide enough coverage for certain areas–such as bartenders.
Before you get too far into booking wedding vendors, you must check with your city officials to find out if you need permits to host a large party at your home. There might be noise ordinances, fire codes, health department regulations, and zoning issues that you don’t want to violate.
In some cases, your vendors might need to file additional paperwork, so be sure to include your wedding planner in any meetings with or emails from the city clerk’s office. Your planner should either be able to coordinate with the vendors to file the paperwork themselves (usually for an additional fee) or file the paperwork for you.
A month or two before your wedding, notify your neighbors of your wedding plans. This will give them plenty of time to plan ahead, rearrange any plans, or plan a night away. Give them as many details as possible, such as the exact time of your ceremony–so they know when you’ll need some extra quiet time–and let them know where your guests plan to park in case they have concerns about street parking.
If you’re going to tell your neighbors in person, we recommend also giving them a written schedule so they have all the details for the day of. You could even include a small gift, such as a pair of earplugs, as a token of appreciation for their patience. A little consideration will go a long way in keeping everyone happy.
Parking
When you’re checking on permits, also check the rules for street parking in your neighborhood. Some communities have certain times when street parking is not allowed or even prohibit overnight parking. If that’s the case–or you don’t have enough street parking–consider hiring a valet service to park the cars at a nearby open lot. Just be sure to tell guests ahead of time so they don’t leave valuables in their cars that you could be held liable for.
Clean-Up
This is one of the most important details to keep in mind when planning your space and your rentals. A group of 20+ people will produce a lot of trash over an entire day, so you’ll need to rent plenty of trash and recycling bins to collect it all. Your caterer might even take care of emptying the bins throughout the day, so ask if that’s a service they offer. If not, you might want to designate or hire someone to monitor the bins so they don’t get too full and cause an unpleasant sight or smell.
Available Space
Couples often think that hosting in a backyard will change their guest list dramatically. That’s not always the case. Whether you’re looking to increase your guest count or simply remove the limitations that physical guests can provide, virtual weddings are a good solution. Our friends at Lovecast App have made it seriously easy.
Plan B
Weather happens, so it’s best to have a plan B in case it rains or is unseasonably hot or cold. With enough planning, your plan B can be just as incredible as plan A. If your house is large enough, plan to move the party inside.
If you’d rather stay outdoors, put a hold on a tent early so that it’s ready to be picked up in case you need it. When using the tent, ensure that the sides are completely covered to protect against the rain, bring in small fans to beat the heat, or rent propane heaters to keep your guests warm. The hope is that you don’t have to go to plan B, but it’s best to have a plan in place ahead of time so you’re not scrambling at the last minute.
Backyard Wedding Timeline Suggestions
There are a few things to keep in mind when planning a timeline for a backyard wedding. First, and most importantly, you want to work around the light. Try to avoid having your ceremony during the harshest light to ensure you get beautiful photos.
Second, because guests won’t be traveling between events, you want to ensure there is no downtime. You might consider doing all your photos before the ceremony so you can go straight to cocktails with everyone else. But, if you’d rather wait, you can also plan an activity or set out yard games during cocktail hour to keep them occupied until you finish up.
Lastly, you want to be considerate of your neighbors. You might need to cut your party short–or ask everyone to head out to an after-party at a bar–so you’re not keeping your neighbors awake until the early morning hours.
Whether your backyard is small or sprawling, you’ll want to pay particular attention to where you set up your ceremony. Large trees make for the perfect backdrop and provide shade from harsh sunlight. If you want to make the house a focal point, you could set up your ceremony so you, your fiancé, and the officiant are standing on the back porch with all your guests on the lawn, facing you.
Keep in mind that, if you’re getting married in warm months, you’ll want to keep your guests’ chairs out of direct sunlight before the ceremony or, ideally, choose a shaded spot to set up chairs. If you’re getting married in cooler months, you might consider setting up your ceremony in a non-shaded spot so you and your guests can enjoy some natural warmth.
Reception
Tents are perfect for designating a reception space in a backyard and make space planning a breeze. Before you rent a tent, work with your wedding planner to decide how many tables and food/drink serving stations you need and how large your dance floor should be. You don’t want to overcrowd the space and you want to ensure your guests have plenty of space to dance–even if that means you’ll need to move tables/chairs at certain points of the day.
Because your reception will also include food and drink, your caterer and bartender should visit the space so they can let you know what extra equipment they’ll be bringing and how much space they’ll need. If your kitchen isn’t large enough, you might need to set up another food prep area, which is something you’ll need to account for when planning your space.
One of the best parts of having an outdoor wedding is that you have the freedom to choose any color palette you like. You aren’t restricted by a venue’s decor, colors, or style. If you love the earthy feel, draw colors from the flowerbeds, grass, and trees in your backyard. You can also go for a bolder look by adding vibrant pops of color in florals, linens, bridesmaid’s dresses, or accent decor.
If your backyard has distinct architectural elements, choose colors that complement and highlight those unique aspects of the space. If you still need a little help, we highly recommend creating a wedding mood board to help you get a sense of the colors and decor that you tend to lean towards.
Setting the Scene for Your “I Dos”
Your ceremony will be the highlight of your day. After you’ve chosen the perfect location with either a natural or architectural backdrop, you’ll need to decide whether you want to frame the space with an arch or artsy backdrop. We recommend ceremony arches and backdrops for every wedding style because it adds dimension and creates a defined focal point, ideal for wedding photos. We also can’t say enough about aisle markers for adding visual interest without too much fuss.
Styling Your Reception
We’ve already mentioned that a tent is a perfect way to designate a reception space. It gives you a way to hang lights or larger-than-life floral installations, plus it adds texture and depth while providing set boundaries for your tables, dance floor, and serving stations. But, a tent isn’t the only way to go. There is something uniquely romantic about dining under the stars.
If you’d rather keep your backyard wedding reception uncovered, you might want to use tall centerpieces that will take up vertical space and hanging decor in the trees to fill out the design. The benefit of an open reception is that you have more space to spread out tables and serving stations.
You might be wondering whether you should plan a cocktail hour since your guests won’t be leaving your backyard between events, and the answer is yes. The cocktail hour is the perfect time for your guests to mingle in a more casual way and allows everyone–including you–to transition from ceremony mode to party mode. If you plan to take couple portraits and wedding party photos after the ceremony, this is also a great way to keep your guests entertained while you’re away. Consider setting up a few lawn games like cornhole, giant Jenga, or ring toss to keep the energy light and fun during this time.
Lighting Up the Night
Lighting is one of the easiest and most dramatic ways to create a certain mood for your wedding, especially for a backyard wedding where there is little to no built-in lighting sources. Twinkle lights or strings of cafe lights in the trees, lanterns with candles, marquee signs, chandeliers, and clusters of votives are all great ways to add some romance to your look while providing enough light for you and your guests to party safely. If you’re curious about how your photos will look in different lighting, get inspired by the gorgeous ambient light in these wedding photos.
Preparing for Nature And Weather
While you can’t control nature or the weather, you can prepare to keep your guests comfortable in all scenarios. Provide insect repellent and sunscreen for your guests to apply—and re-apply—as needed. Incorporate citronella candles into your decor to keep bugs at bay. Set out blankets if it will be chilly or provide hand-held fans to help guests beat the heat.
If your guests will be sitting in the sun, consider providing sunglasses in case they forget their own. If there is even a slight chance of rain, make sure to have plenty of umbrellas on hand, as well. The bonus is that, if you’re purchasing items that guests will want to keep, they can double as wedding favors.
Rentals Checklist
As with any outdoor event, you’re going to need to rent a lot of items for your backyard wedding. You might end up not renting everything on this list if you decide to use DIY or repurposed decor and furniture, but it’s a great checklist to have handy when you need to double-check that you have everything you need.
Here are the rentals you’ll need for a backyard wedding:
Ceremony Chairs
Ceremony Decor
Tent
Reception Chairs
Dinner Tables
Cocktail Tables
Ceremony Backdrop
Serving Tables
Gifts Table
Guest Book Table
Dessert Table
Bar
Place Settings
Linens
Centerpiece Vases
Table Decor
Dance Floor
Lighting
Overhead Decor
Photo Booth
Food Prep/Storage Equipment
Generators
Portable Restrooms
Trash and recycling bins
How to Make Your Celebration Special
To make your backyard wedding truly special, focus on the details that reflect your personality and style. String lights or lanterns can instantly transform the space into a romantic setting. DIY décor, such as handmade signage or photo displays, adds a personal touch. You can create cozy seating areas with blankets and pillows or bring in a vintage lounge set for a chic vibe. Incorporate local flavors with a food truck or a farm-to-table meal. Don’t forget to provide a memorable guest experience with lawn games, a bonfire, or a DIY cocktail station. With a little creativity, your backyard can become a magical wedding venue!
And that’s it! Now you are ready to plan the backyard wedding of your dreams. Want to make your backyard wedding special to who you are as a couple? Check out our guide on how to host a unique wedding!
When Shelbi and Shawn began planning their big day, they knew they didn’t want anything conventional. No big venue, no reception, no bouquet—just the two of them in a place that was deeply meaningful to their story. Their minimal Iceland elopement wasn’t just a wedding, it was a chance to honor their love in a setting that had shaped them from the very beginning.
“Iceland was the first trip we took as a couple. The landscape and history left us speechless and wanting more,” they shared. Their love for the country only grew with each visit, and by their third trip, they were engaged. Choosing Iceland as their wedding destination felt like the most natural decision in the world.
Their adventure led them to an unexpected gem—an inselberg on a black sand beach, a spot that wasn’t even on their itinerary. “We came across a place that was not in our plans. A large inselberg on a black sand beach.” A spontaneous hike turned into a memorable adventure. Shelbi, eager to explore, found herself hiking alone to the summit while Shawn waited below, anxiously watching the clock. As the fog rolled in, Shelbi reached the top and found complete solitude, while Shawn, concerned, began to panic. “When deciding the ceremony location, it was perfect. It was where we had already shared an unforgettable experience—navigating through the challenges of getting lost and finding each other again.”
When it came to their wedding attire, Shelbi and Shawn stayed true to their minimalist style, but with their own personal twist. “The color black is Shawn’s go-to for everything fashion-related. So an all-black suit was fitting for the occasion. Also paired with Vans, came as no surprise as his collection is in the multiples.” Shelbi, initially aiming for simplicity, found herself drawn to a dramatic black dress. “Just because I wanted to keep things minimalistic didn’t mean the dress had to be! I typically dress with eclectic and timeless pieces, and this is what the dress should be. And because two is better than one, we have the black dress.”
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Their ceremony was as unique as their relationship—an intimate affair held by an Ásatrú priest, set against Iceland’s dramatic and moody backdrop. “The ceremony was beyond expectations. His words, we will carry for a lifetime. I could not stop crying, which I never ever do.” They also couldn’t speak highly enough of their officiant, Haukur Bragason, who canceled his own plans and drove five hours to be there for them.
The couple’s minimal Iceland elopement continued as an adventure, capturing the raw emotions of the day with the help of their talented photographers and Junebug vendor, Daria and Hjalti from Ást og Hraun. “Our elopement was unforgettable for so many reasons, and entirely thanks to them. It was such a joy working with them. Their energy and passion did not go unnoticed.” Daria and Hjalti’s ability to capture the couple’s intimate moments made the day even more memorable. “It truly was special, to see their eyes light up before executing the most perfect shot!”
A special moment came later in the day when Daria and Hjalti suggested a final unplanned stop at Skogafoss. The couple returned to the place where, six years earlier, they had shared a significant moment: Shawn had asked, “How do we take it all in? I don’t want to leave,” and Shelbi had responded, “We will get married here.” Now, they were back, dancing, laughing, and embracing in the misty beauty of the falls as midnight approached.
In addition to showcasing their personal style, they also found practical ways to keep costs down. In addition to their unique and personal style, they also made ways to keep their budget manageable. “We were able to cut costs since we did not have a reception. No venue fee! We got pizza to go and ate as we traveled around.” Without flowers, cake, or a venue, they had the freedom to splurge on two dresses. “Eloping is a hard decision for most, but it was entirely perfect for us. We are proud of making a choice for us.”
Shelbi and Shawn’s minimal Iceland elopement wasn’t just a wedding—it was a chapter in their story, set in a country that’s meant so much to them. It was exactly what they wanted, from the intimate ceremony to all those raw, real moments captured by their photographers.
If you’re thinking about eloping, they have one piece of advice: “Hire local. Coming from out of state or, in our case, out of the country, find ways to honor the people, land, and traditions.” Their elopement was more than just a day to celebrate love—it was made even more special by the incredible people who helped bring it all to life.
Rena and Jonathan’s wedding at Proyectos Públicos Prim 30 shows how the right venue can set the tone for your celebration. They chose this 19th-century gem because it combines history and modern touches in a way that felt just right for them. The majestic staircases and lush courtyards created a stunning setting, while the rooftop greenhouse added a fresh vibe that complemented the historic surroundings. Every detail of the space played a key role in their wedding, making it much more than just a place to say “I do.”
Built in 1905 during the Porfiriato period, Prim 30 blends neoclassical design with indigenous Mexican elements, which was exactly what the couple envisioned. The exposed brick, Roman columns, and greenery were the perfect mix of old and new, setting the stage for their special day.
What We Love About This Wedding:
Proyectos Públicos, is unlike any other venue we’ve seen
Junebug vendor Lupita Tirado’s breathtaking floral design, inspired by the soft hues of a beach sunrise
The couple’s thoughtful personal touches, like vintage fragrances, to beautifully honor their love story
The unforgettable, emotional first look that had us all reaching for the tissues!
Rena’s gown from J. Andreatta was a traditional A-line silhouette with delicate lace layers, but the modern organza fabric kept it feeling airy and fresh. Jon complemented her look with a contemporary blue suit, a floral tie, and a lily and anthurium corsage that brought the whole theme together.
One of the most emotional moments of the day was the couple’s first look, a moment of connection before the rush of the ceremony. “Our first look was truly special and one of our happiest memories from the weekend. Jon doesn’t typically express a lot of emotions, but there were many unexpected tears!”
The ceremony space blended historic charm with modern elegance, featuring exposed brick walls and natural wood flooring. Simple white seating directed attention to the surroundings, while a plush white carpet and clear glass vases with candles lined the aisle that led to a softly illuminated altar adorned with stunning floral arrangements.
Music played a crucial role in the ceremony , with Rena choosing Max Richter’s recomposition of Vivaldi’s The Four Seasons. “We spent hours finding the right mix of songs to play before, during, and after the ceremony, and we’re very pleased with the outcome!”
The couple’s ceremony was officiated by Jon’s twin sisters, Katherine and Caroline, who personalized the service with anecdotes that made the ceremony feel uniquely their own. “We were both nervous but felt supported by our friends and family who flew all the way to Mexico City,” Rena shared.
For Rena, cocktail hour is the highlight of any wedding, and it didn’t disappoint. The hors d’oeuvres featured a blend of Mexican and Japanese flavors, a tribute to Rena’s heritage and a great way to celebrate their diverse backgrounds.
The reception carried forward the theme of contrasting the old with the new, featuring long wooden tables adorned with tropical blooms and delicate floral arrangements. Woven pendant lights hung from the ceiling, surrounded by cascading greenery and moss, which added a natural, airy feel. High ceilings and natural light accentuated the venue’s architectural features.
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Their wedding was full of small but meaningful details—everything from their cotton paper invitations and menus, printed in blush pink to match the floral accents, to the custom choreographed dance to John Legend’s “Nervous,” which brought out Rena’s dance background.
Rena and Jon’s celebration perfectly captured their unique love story and personal style. “We couldn’t have done it without Lupita and Joe.” Their thoughtful planning, keen attention to detail, and flawless coordination brought the couple’s vision to life, making the day feel exactly as they had always imagined.
If there’s one thing they want future couples to take away from their wedding, it’s to plan early, stay true to your priorities, and never feel pressured to do something just because it’s a trend. “Incorporate personal touches and stay true to you,” they advised. And with a venue as unforgettable as Proyectos Públicos, their wedding was sure to be a day no one would forget.
Jenna and Michael had one main goal for their wedding: to create a celebration that felt more like an unforgettable Palm Springs dinner party than a traditional wedding. Inspired by local favorites like Melvyn’s and Mister Parker’s, they envisioned a stylish celebration that was effortlessly chic, welcoming, and thoughtfully curated. The Parker’s iconic charm and a talented vendor team brought their vision to life. Jenna shared, “We knew that if we were going to ask our families to come all the way out to Palm Springs, it had to be special, and The Parker delivered exactly that.”
They focused on three key priorities during planning: amazing food and drinks, working with a great planner, and creating a beautiful design with the right atmosphere. These elements ensured their wedding felt true to who they are as a couple.
What We Loved About Jenna and Michael’s Wedding:
The photography, captured in both digital and film by Junebug vendor Matthew David Studio, brought a timeless and cinematic quality to their wedding gallery.
The use of patio umbrellas during the ceremony was both stylish and practical, ensuring guests stayed comfortable while enhancing the overall aesthetic.
Jenna’s gown featured an elegant scarf detail, a refined touch that elevated her bridal look.
The couple opted for no bridal party, keeping the focus on their celebration while maintaining a lively and intimate atmosphere.
The after-party was a highlight, with silver mylar balloons, disco balls, and an electrifying atmosphere that kept guests dancing well into the night.
Jenna and Michael started their day with a private first look in The Parker’s gardens. In the serene setting of lush greenery, they exchanged heartfelt vows that set a deeply personal tone for the rest of the day.
The couple’s portraits showcased their venue’s stunning grounds. From manicured hedges to mid-century architecture, every location complemented their stylish attire and the Palm Springs aesthetic. The couple’s relaxed energy came through in candid moments.
The ceremony took place beneath sprawling olive trees, with sunlight filtering through the branches. Guests sat on classic white chairs under scalloped patio umbrellas that added a Palm Springs touch. At the altar, a circular platform adorned with greenery and pastel blooms blended beautifully with the natural surroundings. “We wanted our guests to feel comfortable and immersed in the moment,” Jenna said. Thoughtful details, like hand fans displayed in a vintage champagne bucket, added to the guest experience and showed the couple’s attention to detail.
In a touching nod to family and legacy, Jenna also found a unique way to honor her late father, who had passed in 2022. Determined that he would still be part of her special day, Jenna and her maid of honor wrapped their bouquets in her father’s cherished bow tie and cummerbund—a subtle yet powerful reminder that his spirit would forever walk with them.
Music was at the heart of Jenna and Michael’s Palm Springs dinner party celebration, setting the tone for every unforgettable moment. “Our DJ Chris Paul gave us the best advice early on: your ceremony music—both the processionals and recessionals—will set the vibe for the entire night,” Jenna recalled.
With a deep love for soulful tunes, the couple crafted a musical journey that paid homage to classic Motown and R&B, infusing their day with timeless elegance. The ceremony began with the warm embrace of The Charmels’ “As Long as I’ve Got You,” perfectly echoing their commitment to each other. Michael made his grand entrance with Drake’s “Best I Ever Had,” igniting the crowd before the ceremony even got underway. When Jenna walked down the aisle to Frank Ocean’s “Godspeed,” the mood shifted from exuberant celebration to heartfelt emotion. And as the newlyweds made their way into their future together, Willie Hutch’s “I Choose You” with its cinematic horn intro served as the perfect, soul-stirring send-off.
The reception, held in the courtyard, was illuminated by string lights. Long tables dressed in white linens featured gold accents, textured centerpieces, and glowing candles for a warm, inviting atmosphere.
“We wanted the reception to feel like a Palm Springs dinner party at our dream home.” Personal touches included antique brass bowls holding custom wedding matches, rust-colored fringe lamps flanking the bar, and a vinyl record display—all reflecting their unique style without the stress of DIY.
The after-party, the couple’s most memorable part of the celebration, turned The Parker’s ballroom into a disco wonderland. Designed by Luna Design Studio, the space featured silver mylar balloons, shimmering tinsel, and disco balls. DJ Chris Paul kept the energy alive with music and videos, while late-night snacks and cocktails kept guests fueled for the dance floor.
“Jessica and her team from Beeloved Events went above and beyond. They made sure everything ran smoothly and took such good care of us.” A standout memory was when their planner gave them a private tour of the glowing reception space before guests arrived—a moment Jenna and Michael will always treasure.
Jenna and Michael found that having a clear vision and working with the right vendors made all the difference. Early conversations with potential vendors helped them find trusted recommendations, as the same names kept coming up. Social media also gave them insight into each vendor’s style, making it easier to choose those who aligned with their vision. Sticking with local vendors not only cut down on travel costs but also meant working with a team that knew the venue inside and out, ensuring everything flowed seamlessly.”
By focusing on food, design, and planning, they created a Palm Springs dinner party that felt effortless and authentic. With a team of vendors they trusted, they were able to relax and enjoy the day, knowing every detail was in good hands.
Take a peek at these Etsy wedding invitation suites that are perfect for your big day! Image by Matthew David Studio
From ceremony backdrops to centerpieces, Etsy is one of our favorite places to search for unique wedding décor. One thing you may not have thought to shop for on Etsy is your wedding invitation suites. Whether you’re looking for simple yet elegant typography, custom calligraphy, vintage-inspired botanical prints, or modern watercolor illustrations, there’s an Etsy designer for you. Because we love sharing our favorites, we’ve rounded up eight of best Etsy shops for wedding invitation suites.
The Best in Etsy Wedding Invitation Suites
The Fabled Papery
However you envision your fairy tale wedding, The Fabled Papery will introduce your guests to the event with every bit of style and flair you can fit in an envelope. Shop owners Glen and Jessica, a talented husband and wife graphic design duo, create every piece of stationery to reflect the cherished romance of a wedding day.
A la Carte Paperie
Got a destination wedding in your future? Announce the adventure with A la Carte Paperie, stationery created to highlight exciting locations around the world. Whether you’re headed to Scotland or Mexico, Palm Springs or Santorini, these wedding invitation suites sweeten the experience for your guests from the start!
By Invitation Only
Do you consider yourself a bit non-traditional? Or maybe a bit more modern? If so, then By Invitation Only is the Etsy shop for you. Based out of Des Moines, Iowa, most of the invites that you will find in the shop feature bold calligraphy, vellum, and minimal designs.
DIY Paper Boutique
Botanical-inspired weddings have been all the rage recently, and we don’t see them going away anytime soon! Luckily, DIY Paper Boutique has some of the prettiest floral-adorned invites we’ve ever seen. No matter your favorite blooms or wedding color palette, shop owner Haleigh Woolsey has something to fit your unique wedding style.
Reverie Press
Set the tone for your classic celebration with letterpress stationery by Reverie Press. Clean lines and beautiful typeface are hand-printed using a 100+ year old Chandler & Price letterpres. Choose from a variety of styles, including Art Deco lettering, romantic calligraphy, and vintage typography, and impress your guests with Reverie Press’ attention to craftsmanship!
Jessie and the Jabberwock
Lots of couples are looking to personalize every inch of their wedding day, London-based illustrator Jessie and the Jabberwock ensures that personalization starts from the very first invite. Kathryn creates custom illustrations that not only capture your likeness but the something special that makes you, you. You may even want to frame your own wedding invite above the mantle after seeing your illustrated portrait.
Karli Strohschein Art
If you have your sights set on beautiful hand-drawn invitations for your big day, look no further than Canadian-based Karli Strohschein Art! This stationery shop carries cohesive collections of one-of-a-kind designs in stunning colors, timeless typeface selection, and floral envelope liners that wow from the first open.
Unmeasured Event
If you’re searching for beautifully designed, printable stationery for your big day, Unmeasured Event is the ideal shop for you. The simple yet modern designs will surely impress your guests. Plus, along with wedding invitations, the shop also has designs for all of your wedding paper needs–everything from your menu cards to your ceremony signage.
Congratulations! You’re engaged, and now it’s time to share the exciting news! Traditional paper announcements are still popular, and social media is an even more common way to share the news—but digital engagement invitations offer a customizable and eco-friendly way to celebrate with your loved ones. But how do you create an engagement announcement that feels truly special—one that’s personal, heartfelt, and unmistakably you?
The secret lies in more than just a beautiful design. By incorporating thoughtful details that reflect your relationship, proposal story, and unique style, you can create an announcement that feels as meaningful as the moment itself.
Make Your Digital Engagement Announcement Uniquely You
1. Share Your Proposal Story
One of the most memorable ways to personalize your engagement announcement is by including your proposal story. Whether it was a carefully planned surprise or a spontaneous moment, sharing the details makes your announcement feel authentic. With Lovebird’s new digital engagement announcements, you can include a heartfelt message—or even a short video recapping how it happened!
Ideas to make your announcement personal:
Write a short but engaging recap of the proposal.
Add a video message of you both sharing the moment.
Include proposal footage if you have it!
2. Choose a Design That Reflects Your Style
Your engagement announcement should feel like you. If you already have a wedding aesthetic in mind, this is a great opportunity to incorporate those elements as a subtle hint. But if you’re still figuring out your wedding details, don’t stress! Instead, focus on a design that reflects your personal style as a couple. With Lovebird’s hundreds of design suites, you can choose an option that feels natural to you—whether that’s timeless and elegant, modern and sleek, or playful and fun.
3. Create a Personal Video
One of the best things about digital engagement announcements is the ability to add video! And your video doesn’t have to be just about your proposal story—it can be whatever you want it to be. Maybe it’s a highlight video of your relationship, a clip of you two in the car right after the proposal moment, full of nerves and excitement, or even footage from your last vacation together. Whether you have the time and skills to produce a beautifully edited video or you just want to share a candid, heartfelt message, you can’t go wrong. With Lovebird’s video feature, your digital announcement can feel truly personal.
A Step-by-Step Guide to Delivering Your Engagement Announcement
1. Decide When to Send Your Announcement
Timing matters! With Lovebird’s brand new digital engagement announcements, you can privately share your news via email or text before making a public post.
Here’s a general timeline:
Immediately after the proposal – Share the news personally with immediate family and closest friends via call or message.
Within a few days to two weeks – Send out your digital engagement announcement to a wider circle of loved ones.
After the formal announcement – Feel free to post on social media if you’d like!
2. Craft the Perfect Engagement Announcement Message
Your message should sound like you. Whether formal, playful, or sentimental, here’s a template to help you get started:
“We have some exciting news to share… we’re engaged! We’re beyond thrilled to start this next chapter together and can’t wait to celebrate with you all soon!”
Or, if you’re letting a video do the talking, this little tidbit is all you’ll need:
“Watch this short video to see how it all happened!”
Lovebird allows you to personalize your message, keeping it as simple or detailed as you’d like.
3. Send It in a Thoughtful Way
Rather than a mass text or email, make your engagement announcement feel special and polished. Lovebird’s platform allows you to:
Send personalized email or text announcements to loved ones
Track who has opened it so no one misses the news
Ensure a cohesive design that matches your wedding aesthetic
4. Follow Up with a Save the Date
With Lovebird’s elegant wedding guest communication tools, everything from your engagement announcement to your wedding day updates can be managed seamlessly in one place. Once your wedding date is set, inform your guests by sending a digital save the date with Lovebird. Since everything is managed in one place, your guests will have a seamless experience from engagement to wedding day.
Why Lovebird Is the Ultimate Tool for Engagement Announcements
With Lovebird’s digital engagement announcements, you get more than just a beautiful digital experience—you get a thoughtful, streamlined way to share your big news while keeping all wedding guest communication in one place.
Want to learn more about Lovebird’s full suite of wedding planning tools? Check out this post for a deep dive into all the ways Lovebird can simplify your wedding journey.
And as a bonus—when you upgrade to Lovebird’s Full Suite, you also get access to Memento, a video wedding guest book and shared album platform, ensuring all of your wedding guest footage is in one place.
Enter Lovebird’s Proposal Story Contest for a Chance to Win!
To celebrate this exciting season of love, Lovebird is hosting a Proposal Story Contest! If you have a memorable, funny, or heartwarming proposal story, submit it for a chance to win $2,500 towards your honeymoon or other category prizes!
Categories Include:
The Most Creative Proposal
The Sweetest Proposal
The Proposal Plan Gone Wrong
The Most Memorable Proposal Reaction
Entries are open now through March 31, 2025—so don’t wait! Learn more and enter here.
Your engagement announcement is the first step in your wedding journey—make it as special as the moment itself. With Lovebird, you can create a personal, polished, and truly unforgettable digital engagement announcement that reflects your love story.
Ready to start designing yours? Create your custom engagement announcement today with Lovebird.
Charlotte and Khari’s love story is proof that timing is everything. The pair first met in Miami—Charlotte was celebrating her 30th birthday with friends, and Khari was on a bachelor trip. “We were instantly attracted, but we were both in relationships at the time,” Charlotte says. They kept in touch through social media but lost contact until Khari reached out over a year later. By then, they were both single and ready to take a chance on love.
When it came time to plan their wedding, the couple initially envisioned a traditional celebration. However, they quickly realized that they didn’t want to wait. “We decided to elope, but truth be told, I still wanted more than just the justice of the peace and quick pictures,” Charlotte shares. Their solution? A beautifully intimate elegant hotel elopement with just their closest loved ones, plenty of style, and unforgettable moments.
Finding the right vendors was essential for bringing their vision to life. Charlotte already knew their photographer, Junebug vendorBrownie Photography & Production, and her hairstylist beforehand. Quality of work was a top priority, and social media played a huge role in connecting the couple with talented pros.
For Charlotte, her walk down the aisle doubled as their “first look,” making the moment even more special. She wore a chic off-the-shoulder midi dress paired with sheer gloves with pearls and bird cage veil that added a classic bridal touch. “I wanted something that screamed ‘BRIDE’ but still felt like me,” she says.
Khari complemented her effortlessly in a tan suit, opting for a modern look while steering clear of traditional black. Together, they were a vision of timeless elegance.
The ceremony was the perfect mix of modern elegance and simplicity. Baby’s breath and white roses created a soft backdrop, framing the couple beautifully as they exchanged vows. Rows of chairs, lined with terracotta and cream floral arrangements, brought a warm pop of color to the neutral tones of the room.
After the ceremony, the couple strolled through the hotel for their first professional portraits as husband and wife. The venue’s interior, with its arched doorways, crystal chandeliers, and marble floors, offered the perfect backdrop for their photos. “We wanted pictures we could share and revisit for years to come. This was our first time taking professional pictures together, so it was a very memorable time for us.”
The reception space carried the couple’s theme of simplicity and elegance. The tablescape was minimalistic, with only a stunning display of candles as the centerpiece and reflected the couple’s refined vision for their celebration.
A charming detail at the reception was the gift table, which perfectly reflected the couple’s style. It featured a beautifully wrapped box topped with a classic bride-and-groom figurine, accented with a terracotta ribbon and pearl details. The table was further decorated with terracotta and cream floral arrangements that echoed the ceremony decor, tying everything together seamlessly.
The couple were intentional about creating a warm and memorable evening for their guests, sharing, “We wanted to make sure we celebrated those who chose to join us with a special dinner and beautiful atmosphere.”
The evening was filled with heartfelt moments, including speeches from their fathers and a special song performed by Charlotte’s mother. The warmth and love in the room were palpable as family and friends came together to celebrate the couple’s new beginning. “We couldn’t have asked for a better space—it had timeless elegance, charm, and so many photo opportunities.”
For Charlotte and Khari, the biggest surprise of the day was how quickly it all went by. “Time flew by so fast,” the couple says, reflecting on the whirlwind of emotions and joy. Despite that, they wouldn’t change a thing.
When asked for advice, “It shouldn’t be a stressful time. Plan according to your budget and wishes—not anyone else’s!” Their elegant hotel elopement was proof that with careful planning and a focus on what truly matters, you can create a wedding day that’s intimate, beautiful, and unforgettable.
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