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Your Comprehensive Guide to Planning a New Orleans Wedding

July 9, 2024 | riley
new orleans wedding second line parade

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New Orleans is a city overflowing with vibrant culture, rich history, delicious food, and an enchanting charm–so it’s not hard to see why so many couples choose it as a wedding destination. From the historic French Quarter to serene gardens and grand ballrooms, there’s something for every couple looking to tie the knot in this captivating city. From venue options to vendors who can help bring your dream day to life to New Orleans wedding traditions you’re going to want to include, we’re breaking down everything there is to know about tying the knot in The Big Easy.

Wedding Venues in New Orleans

Historic Mansions and Estates

Elms Mansion – Nestled in the Garden District, this 1869 mansion boasts stunning Italianate architecture and beautifully manicured gardens, making it the perfect venue for those seeking an outdoor wedding.

Race + Religious – This three-building historic estate is a mix of whimsical indoor spaces and brick courtyards overflowing with greenery. Tie the knot by the courtyard pool before partying under the night sky (after your classic second-line parade, of course).

Marigny Opera House – Built in 1847, the Marigny Opera House started as a church before it was burnt down and rebuilt in 1853. It wasn’t until 1999 that the former church was turned into the Opera House that it is today. Now, it is arguably one of the most beautiful wedding venues in the country, thanks to its old-world charm.

Hotels and Ballrooms

Le Pavillon Hotel – Situated in the heart of downtown NOLA, this 1907 hotel has all the charm you’d expect to find in a New Orleans hotel. Exchanging vows in one of their beautiful ballrooms will have you feeling like you traveled back in time.

The Barnett – Formerly known as the Ace New Orleans, this art deco hotel is quintessential New Orleans. It’s bursting with character, eclectic decor, and restaurants serving only the best Southern food. And the best part? Your guests can stay on the property with you.

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Unique Spaces

New Orleans Pharmacy Museum – A pharmacy museum may not be at the top of everyone’s minds when it comes to wedding venues, but this gorgeous historic landmark provides the perfect opulent New Orleans party ambiance for your big day. And it’s only a couple blocks away from Jackson Square, where you can take stunning portraits with your significant other.

French Quarter Wedding Chapel – One of our favorite parts about the city is the unconventional venue options ideal for those looking for something outside the box–like the French Quarter Wedding Chapel. It’s the only wedding chapel in the French Quarter, is open 24/7, and features vintage furniture, elegant chandeliers, and dollar bills hanging from the ceilings.

Brennan’s – Foodies looking for a venue for their intimate affair, look no further than Brennan’s. The restaurant is a James Beard Outstanding Restaurant finalist, was named one of CN Traveler’s best restaurants in the world, and is known as the birthplace of bananas foster. Oh, and did we mention that the decor is the epitome of romantic?

New Orleans Wedding Photographer Highlight

Choosing the right vendors is one of the most challenging parts. With so many professionals out there who are wildly talented at what they do, how are you supposed to know which one is right for you? We want to highlight a Junebug photographer who we think is absolutely incredible. 

Matthew Foster Photography

Review: “Matt and Liz are a terrifically talented and dynamic photography duo. We would hire them again without hesitation and would also encourage anyone reading this review to STOP your search and HIRE THEM!  From the planning process to the event itself, Matt and Liz were attentive, accommodating, professional and very comfortable to be around. They captured so many special moments and expressions.  We are truly thrilled with all aspects of their work: details, getting ready, first look, wedding, and reception photos. They even managed to capture great images of our very large families with speed and ease. Thank you, Matt and Liz, you were a fabulous addition to our wedding experience.”

New Orleans Wedding Traditions

Cake pulls – Dating back to the Victorian era, cake pulls are very similar to bouquet tosses. Silver charms are connected to the end of a ribbon and placed between layers of the wedding cake. Before the cake is cut, those who are single in the bridal party are invited to pull a ribbon. Each charm has its own meaning (i.e., who will get married next, who will experience good luck, etc.) and acts as a keepsake for those who pull it.

Shop cake pulls: 20 Piece Traditional Style Cake Pulls; 2. Individual Cake Pull Bracelets; 3. Gold Luxe Pearl Beaded Cake Pulls

Second line parade – This iconic New Orleans tradition features a brass band leading the wedding party and guests from the ceremony to the reception, complete with parasols and handkerchiefs for dancing in the streets. It’s a fun way to incorporate New Orleans culture and give strangers a chance to wish you good luck as you begin your journey as newlyweds.

Mule-drawn carriage – Not in the mood to parade down the street? Consider a mule-drawn carriage instead. Or, incorporate a carriage ride as your grand exit. No matter how you choose to go about it, it’s a fun way to see the city and enjoy some romantic one-on-one time together.

Dance troupes – New Orleans is known for its music and dancing, so it’s no surprise that it’s tradition to hire dance troupes to get a reception started. These professional dancers are a surefire way to keep guests entertained and keep them on the dance floor.

Local Cuisine and Drinks

Food and drink are central to any New Orleans celebration. Incorporate these local flavors and specialties to delight your guests:

  • Cajun and Creole cuisine – Treat your guests to dishes like gumbo, jambalaya, and crawfish étouffée to showcase the city’s culinary heritage.
  • Seafood – Fresh Gulf shrimp, oysters, and crab are must-haves, reflecting the region’s coastal bounty.
  • Signature cocktails – Serve iconic New Orleans drinks such as the Sazerac, Hurricane, and French 75, along with locally brewed beers and refreshing mint juleps.
  • Street vendors – One walk around the city, and you’ll find countless street vendors. To bring them into your celebration, consider hiring one (or multiple) for a late-night snack.

Other Ways to Incorporate NOLA Culture into Your Big Day

Customized invitations – Use designs featuring New Orleans’ iconic elements like wrought-iron balconies, jazz instruments, or fleur-de-lis motifs.

Shop New Orleans-inspired wedding invitations: Hand-Drawn New Orleans Editable Wedding Invitations; 2. Watercolor New Orleans Destination Invitations; 3. Custom City Map Save the Date; 4. Laissez Les Bon Temps Rouler French Quarter Wedding Invitation

Memorable favors – Give guests a taste of the city with favors like pralines, mini bottles of hot sauce, or custom Mardi Gras masks. If you’re hosting a destination wedding, consider adding a few of these to a welcome bag!

A New Orleans wedding is a celebration of love, life, music, and culture. The city’s unique ambiance will create lasting memories for you and your guests. Whether you’re drawn by the historic charm, lively culture, or delectable cuisine, New Orleans provides a magical setting for your special day. Ready to hire vendors for your Louisiana celebration? Be sure to check out Junebug’s vendor directory, which has hundreds of talented professionals who are sure to fit your needs. 

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The Ultimate Guide to Wedding Speeches

July 2, 2024 | riley

Image by Hugo Coelho. See more of this real wedding here. Read on about nailing wedding speeches and toasts

Wedding speeches may be the most daunting things to write and deliver, but they’re also one of the best parts of any wedding. They give guests a unique perspective on the couple, make you laugh, make you cry, and bring the room together. So, to take some of the pressure off your shoulders, here are some tried-and-true tips for writing a killer wedding speech (or toast)!

Image by Emily Delamater Photography. See more of this real wedding here

The Basics Of Wedding Speeches

Who gives wedding speeches?

Traditionally, the best man, the maid of honor (MOH), and both sets of parents give speeches for the couple. You’ll also find that the couple gives a welcome and gratitude speech. However, here at Junebug, we believe it’s entirely up to you and what you want for your special day. 

We’ve seen brides give the newlywed speech, and we’ve seen best friends give speeches instead of the MOH or best man. If you’re going the non-traditional route, we don’t recommend an open-mic situation where anyone can speak, and we don’t recommend having more than five speeches or guests will start to get restless.

When do the speeches take place?

Most speeches and wedding toasts are given during the wedding reception, either before or after dinner. If you’d rather they be more intimate or you aren’t having a traditional reception, you can also have them take place at the rehearsal dinner.

What is the correct order for speeches?

Did you know that wedding speeches have a logistical order that is typically followed? While it may seem like such a minute detail, it actually makes more sense than you’d imagine. It usually starts with the couple. This gives you the opportunity to welcome and thank your guests for coming. From there, it traditionally goes in this order:

  1. The hosts (typically the parents)
  2. Maid of honor
  3. Best man

Every couple has their preferences on who they want to speak and the order in which they want them to speak. As we mentioned earlier, it’s your wedding. If you have a maid of honor who hates public speaking, or you want your best friend to give the speech rather than your best man, go for it. The same goes for the order we just listed.

How long should wedding speeches be?

No matter how long you’ve known each other, try to keep speeches under five minutes. In fact, three minutes is the sweet spot. Even if you have countless things to say, three minutes can feel a lot longer than you’d expect. Keeping it short and sweet will keep everything, including the newlyweds, happy.

Image by Ana Hinojosa. See more of this real wedding here

Steps For Writing Killer Wedding Speeches and Toasts

The hardest part of writing a speech is knowing where to start. If you’re drawing a blank or having difficulty narrowing down the stories you want to tell, start by making a list of your favorite qualities about the newlyweds. Chances are there are many amazing qualities about them, so making a list of your top three favorites will help you craft a personalized speech tailored to them.

To expand beyond that, you can ask yourself these questions as well:

Questions To Ask Yourself

  • Is there anyone speaking before or after you? If so, how will it affect the content of your speech?
  • What is the general tone you want to convey in your speech? Emotional? Joy? Funny?
  • What are some of your favorite memories with the newlyweds? These memories can be based on the individual getting married or them as a couple
  • What do you see when you envision their future with one another?
  • Is there any advice that you want to share?

When it’s time to start writing, use the following general outline to help create a great speech from beginning to end.

1. Introduce Yourself

Tell everyone your name and a brief explanation of how and when you met the couple or how you’re related. Everyone may not already know who you are, so a little context will go a long way.

2. Tell A Relevant Story

Go back to the list you created and choose a story that reflects the qualities you love most about the couple. This should be relatable, endearing, and appropriate. Make sure you have a point to the story so that you can seamlessly tie it into your speech at the end.

3. Reminisce about the day you met their partner

Everyone in that room will likely have seen different pieces of the couple’s love story, so tell their story from your perspective. Talk about the day you met their significant other for the first time and the moment you realized this was the person they were going to marry.

4. Talk about what you love about their partner

Although your main responsibility is to talk about one of the newlyweds, every speech should ultimately be about both of them. Tell their partner why they are the best choice for your friend and what qualities you love most about them.

5. Talk about your hopes for their future as a couple

If you’re married, this is where you can insert your best piece(s) of advice for a healthy marriage. If you’re not married, wish them a long, happy, and healthy life together. Make your wishes and your advice personal to their relationship and end on a positive, optimistic, and heartfelt vision of their future.

6. End with a toast

Ending a speech can be just as challenging as starting it, which is why we recommend ending with a wedding toast. Ask everyone to raise their glass and toast to the wonderful couple—and, in your own mind, to the killer speech you just gave!

Junebug Tip:

The Art of Etiquette’s wedding guest books include ten speech sheets that will give a beautiful space for your loved ones to write the perfect speech that is short, sweet, and sentimental. We love that they’ve included these thoughtful speech sheets that will double as a wedding keepsake in your guest book.

Image by Annabelle Agnew Photography. See more of this real wedding here

Tips For Giving Wedding Speeches

Don’t drink too much beforehand

We love open bars at weddings as much as the next person, but you don’t want to be slurring your words or drunkenly rambling in front of everyone. Just a couple of sips of liquid courage will get you through those few minutes in front of the crowd, we promise!

Don’t make it about you

It’s okay to be relatable by telling a story, but remember that this speech is about them. After you’ve introduced yourself, move on to talking about the newlyweds and their relationship.

Don’t humiliate the couple

There’s nothing wrong with jokes. In fact, some of the best toasts and speeches inject humor throughout. However, don’t use crude language, tell inappropriate stories, or mention past relationships. The moral of the story is if there’s even the slightest chance someone could feel uncomfortable about something you want to say, leave it out.

Keep it short and sweet

We mentioned this earlier, but it’s an important one! Chances are there will be at least two other people giving speeches before or after you, so keep your speech to five minutes max. If you go any longer than that, the couple and their guests may start getting a little antsy. If you aren’t sure how long your speech will take, our next tip will help.

Practice beforehand

You practice for speeches for school and work, why should a wedding be any different? Rehearse your speech with a friend or in front of the mirror. It will help get some of the nerves out and allow you to make sure it all flows before the big moment. 

Keep in mind that you’ll naturally speak more quickly when you’re handed the microphone, so as you’re practicing make sure you remind yourself to slow down. 

Write your speech down

With all the excitement and nerves of the day, there is a good chance you’ll blank out or forget parts of your speech. Even if you plan to memorize it, write it down and bring it with you just in case. Nobody will fault you for holding notes–just be sure to look up occasionally!

Pass these tips along to everyone giving a speech and toast at your wedding, and get ready for some pretty epic and heartfelt moments! Then start thinking about how to keep the party going all night with these wedding reception songs guaranteed to get your guests dancing.

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Unique Wedding Seating Chart and Escort Card Ideas

July 1, 2024 | riley

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One thing your guests are guaranteed to notice on your wedding day is your signage. From the welcome sign to the seating charts, these must-have details help direct guests and play a key role in the overall flow of your celebration. While wedding signage ultimately serves a functional purpose, it doesn’t have to be boring. Getting creative with your designs can turn the mundane into standout decor pieces.

After finalizing your seating arrangements, create a seating chart that seamlessly complements your theme and color palette, making it easy for guests to find as soon as they enter the reception space. Whether you’re looking for a timeless design to match an elegant wedding or retro ideas for an eccentric celebration, here’s a round-up of wedding seating charts perfect for every style.

Wedding Seating Chart FAQs

Is it necessary to have a seating chart necessary?

Although seating charts aren’t necessary, they are extremely helpful–especially if you are having a larger wedding. They make it much easier for your guests to navigate your venue and help you stay on schedule if you’re doing toasts, plated dinners, etc. Lastly, they’re a great way for your guests to be comfortable socially since you can place everyone with familiar faces.

What’s the difference between a seating chart and escort cards?

Escort cards are specifically designed for your individual guests, with their names and table numbers, which they can take with them as they move around. Often, you’ll find that they also include their food preference if having a seated dinner. Seating charts, on the other hand, are one large display that guests can glance at before finding their tables.

How do I create a seating chart?

Some couples opt for a Do-It-Yourself approach, but DIY projects can be quite demanding. You have to design, build, and handle the transportation, which adds stress leading up to and on your wedding day. Hiring a professional for your wedding signage is always a smart move. Their experience and assistance will be well worth the investment.

Do I need to assign seats at each table?

When it comes to finalizing your seating charts, you can choose to assign guests to tables or designate specific seats for each person. Either way, your seating chart display will only direct guests to their assigned table. If you’ve opted for assigned seating, place cards on each table will indicate who sits where.

Do the newlywed’s parents sit together?

This one is entirely up to personal preference. If your parents and in-laws get along, they’ll most likely love sitting together and sharing your special day with one another. If there’s a possibility of tension, don’t be afraid to sit them with other family members.

Food and Beverage Seating Charts & Escort Cards

Image by Joel & Justyna. Signage by Tami Varma

The combination of these half-arch signages and mini drink bottles makes for a stunning and unique seating chart! It’s a beautiful way to say, ‘We’re so glad you’re here’ with style and charm. Image by Marissa Nicole Photography. Signage by The Basic Birch Co. Florals by Wild Greenery. Planning by Cali Curated

This creative display with drink pouches is a fun, modern twist! it’s a perfect blend of function and flair — and a refreshing way to say, “You look like you need a sip!” Image by Dani Nichol Photography. Margarita wall and pouches by Andi Mejia Co. Planning by Melanie Snyder. Month of Coordination by Southern Sparkles Wedding. Florals by Flowers by Lexi. Venue: Luxmore Grande Estate

Photography by Bruno Rezza. Signage by Velvet Fox Designs

Image by McCune Photography. Planning by Details Darling

These enamel camping mugs are “s’more” than just favors — they’re a recipe for sweet memories around any campfire! Perfectly packaged for a cozy treat on the go! Image by Dear Lovers Photography. Planning by Details Darling

Image by Basecamp Visual. Planning & Design by Root and Gather Events. Stationary + Signage by Paper & Dust. Custom Wall by Wallflower Rentals

Retro Seating Charts & Escort Card Ideas

Image by Studio 27 Photography. Seating Chart: Andi Mejia. Venue: Bella Collina. Planner: Plan It Events. Floral: RJ Glam

Image by Jodee Debes Photography. Venue: Holman Ranch. Florals by Seascape Flowers. Paper goods + signage by Summit and Sage. Seating chart display by BooVara Designs. Rentals by Found Rental Co. Planning + design by E Events Co.

These mini disco balls are bringing the sparkle! Perfect for turning any moment into an instant dance party — because who doesn’t need a little extra shine? Image by Mo Speer Photography. Signage by The Crafty Peach

Themed Seating Charts & Escort Cards

Image by Lindsay Hackney. Planning by Lindsey M. Events. Florals by Emily Herzig Floral. Signage by Littleton Sign Co. Escort cards by Pumped on Paper. Logo by Bonomo Paper Co

This vintage frame seating chart is a timeless touch! Elegant and nostalgic, it’s like guiding guests to their seats through a gallery of charm. Image by Wade Muir. Planning by Mad Bash Group

This buri hand fan seating chart is as cool as it gets! A stylish, breezy way for guests to find their seats and stay refreshed. Image by Perry Vaile. Planning & design by A Fox Event

Image by Beatrice Howell. Planning by Valentina Nguyen

Floral Seating Charts & Escort Card Ideas

Photography: Mariam Saifan. Escort Display/Seating Chart: designwise KC. Cake: Taylor Elizabeth Cakes. Catering: Strang Hall. Dress: Bridal Extraordinaire. Floral: Solstice Floral Studio. Hair and Makeup: POSH KC. Model: Lauren Goode. Modern Bounce House: Inflate KC. Planner: Confetti Events. Rentals: Supply. Stationery: Nellie Sparkman. Sweets: Kate Smith Soirée. Venue: Strang Reserve. Videography: Estrella Films KC. 360 Photo Booth: Top Tier Photo

Planning + Design by Bianca Nichole and Co. Photo by Harper Blankenship. Signage by Design to Flourish. Florals by Wildly Cultivated. Venue Villa Antonia.

Image by Elvira Kalviste

Image by Franzi Annika. Signage by  The Coordination Company

Image by Gloria Goode. Planning by Bird Dog Wedding. Signage by LBV Design House. Florals by Reverie Floristry

This acrylic floral signage with a wooden base is the perfect blend of modern and natural vibes. Image by Sunny Golden

Image by ProudRad. Event planning by The Wedding Bliss Thailand

Whether you’re looking for something themed for your special day or a seating chart that’s elegant, these wedding seating charts are the perfect inspiration. If you’re still stuck trying to figure out how to seat your guests, our wedding reception seating chart guide may help!

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This Villa Le Fontanelle Wedding Was Classically Beautiful

June 29, 2024 | justine

Kani and Arie didn’t initially plan on having a wedding, but when they thought about it, they knew it had to be a two-day destination wedding in their favorite country, Italy. They had taken their first holiday together in Florence, where they went on a wine-tasting tour and fell in love with the area. They dreamed of an authentic, traditional Tuscan wedding and couldn’t think of anything better than a Villa Le Fontanelle wedding.

In their garden ceremony, a beautiful path lined with white blooms guided them to a lush floral arch, creating a picturesque stage for their heartfelt vows. The timeless magic continued throughout the festivities. Their reception was magical—they dined at long family-style tables adorned with lush, low arrangements and candles, all set beneath a canopy of soft draping and fairy lights.

Their dedicated team of vendors meticulously designed every intimate detail, seamlessly blending them with the stunning backdrop, resulting in a truly beautiful wedding. Luckily, Junebug vendor Whites Film was there to capture all the remarkable moments and exquisite elements. We guarantee you’ll be adding these images to your wedding mood board.

The Couple:

Kani and Arie

The Wedding:

Villa Le Fontanelle, Italy 

The Inspiration Behind Their Villa Le Fontanelle Wedding

We never initially wanted to do a wedding. Still, we knew if we were to toy with the idea, it would have to be a destination wedding over two days, so, of course, the only destination we wanted was our favorite country—Italy. We went on our first holiday together in Florence a few years ago. We went on a wine-tasting tour of Tuscany and completely fell in love with the place, knowing instantly that we wanted to do a wedding there. We wanted an authentic traditional Tuscan wedding and couldn’t think of anywhere better than Florence.

Recreating Their First Date Moment During Their Ceremony

One of the most significant and memorable moments was before the wedding started (although very unconventional). On our very first date, I was so nervous that before I even said, “Hello,” I shouted, “Tequila?” and he stumbled, laughed, and said, “Err..sure.” We had tequila, and then I said, “Hi! Nice to see you!” We wanted to recreate that moment before the ceremony but didn’t want to see each other, so we did it blindfolded. Yes, having tequila blindfolded in your wedding suit was not easy. It was our favorite moment of the day and felt so special to us. Even writing about it gives us butterflies.

Cherishing Moments from Their Intimate Villa Le Fontanelle Wedding

We had a small, intimate wedding, only 45 people. Compared to our engagement party of 170 people. We loved the fact that it was so intimate. We have to spend much time with the people we care about most in the world rather than spend a little time with many people. Every little moment makes us smile, even just thinking about it. Seeing the tablescape under the fairy lights overlooking the city of Florence for the first time was magical. Or the traditional Tuscan wedding cake moment. Visually, it was spectacular, like something out of a magazine. But taste-wise? Just wow! The incredible florals, structure, and lights surrounding the caterer while they were making it was unbelievable. It felt like a fairytale.

Teamwork Makes the Dream Work: A Story of Collaboration and Celebration

We were fortunate to have an incredible team helping us create our perfect day. Our wedding planner, as mentioned earlier, was simply exceptional. While we spoke to several potential planners, it took just 30 seconds for us to decide on Alessia. Her passion and understanding were evident from the start, and we knew she was the one for us. We cannot express enough gratitude for her guidance and support. Alongside White Emotion, we had a world-class photographer, Alessia Angelotti, and a videographer, Claudio Sichel, from Whites Film. We dedicated countless hours to finding these talented individuals; their attention to detail made everything perfect. Despite their professional roles, they made us feel like they were friends celebrating with us at our wedding rather than simply working.

From Rustic to Chic: How Their Wedding Planner Transformed Their Vision

We want to take credit for the wedding design, but all credit goes to our fantastic wedding planner. Initially, we desired a rustic farm-style wedding, but as soon as she got to know us, she swiftly created this incredible, chic wedding with traditional elements! Without exaggeration, she understood our vision even better than we did. She is unbelievable in every way, and we cherish her deeply. This special touch distinguishes the remarkable Alessia and the White Emotion team. Alessia will forever be family to us, and her vision made our perfect day possible.

Adding a Personal Touch to Their Welcome Poolside Celebration

We DIYed for the first day at the welcome white pool party. We got disposable cameras (yes, you read that correctly, they still exist!) with customized name straps for each person so they could also take memorable photos, develop them, and keep them as memories of our special day. Additionally, we made customized beach towels for the guests, which went beautifully with the terracotta-colored Villa.

The Story Behind Finding The Perfect Wedding Dress

Due to time constraints, I knew finding my dress had to be first on the checklist. Serendipitously, I had booked several bridal appointments and had my eye on a Berta gown. The day before my appointment with The Wedding Club, I saw Muse by Berta post a photo of a new dress corset. Excitedly, I shared it with my mum, envisioning how stunning it would look. Upon entering the bridal shop, I spotted the dress displayed at the front. Despite being told it wasn’t available, I pleaded with the sales advisor to let me try it, and it fit perfectly. Adding to the magic, I noticed a rain-like veil that completed the dreamy look. The creative director saw me in the dress by chance and kindly allowed me to have it. It was the only dress I tried, and it was perfect. We later tailored it, adding a layer of shimmer tulle underneath, enhancing its enchantment, true to the classic Muse by Berta style.

Unexpected Beauty: Embracing a New Vision for Their Wedding Flowers

Our florists are the epitome of modern chic. Their floral mood board alone took our breath away. It was the easiest decision we made in the whole wedding process. The funny thing was that Alessia was worried about showing us this mood board as it was the complete opposite of the original wedding theme, but as soon as the groom saw it, it was a hard and firm yes! 

The Wedding Team:

Photography – Alessia Angelotti
Event Planning – White Emotion
Ceremony + Reception Venue – Villa Le Fontanelle
Catering – Galateo Ricevimenti
Videography – Whites Film
Makeup Artist + Hair Styling – The Porfirio, Drilona Qevani
Groom’s Apparel – Dolce & Gabbana
Rings – Cartier

 

Congratulations to Kane and Arie on their classically beautiful Villa Le Fontanelle wedding. A big thank you to Junebug vendor Whites Film for flawlessly capturing every detail. To explore more of their work, visit their profile in our directory of the world’s best wedding videographers.

When couples innately trust their thoughtfully chosen and carefully selected wedding vendors, magic will surely happen! Just like what this couple did, their wedding day turned into an enchanting fairy tale, filled with unforgettable moments and timeless beauty that will be cherished forever.

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Colorful and Tropical Casa Risa Intimate Wedding

June 8, 2024 | justine

Afonso and Ron picked their cozy boutique hotel as the spot for their wedding. It’s where their love story began, so saying “I do” there felt just right. Their intimate Casa Risa wedding was cozy, with only 30 of their nearest and dearest. The place had a chill, natural vibe that mixed perfectly with the lush garden surroundings. It felt like a tropical paradise right in their backyard, and amazingly, they planned everything in just one month.

With their trusted team of vendors, the pair transformed the poolside area into a cozy ceremony venue. Surrounded by lush tropical greenery, they shared sweet vows that melted guests’ hearts. Then, it was time to party! The garden reception was filled with laughter, dancing, and joy that lasted all night long.

With guests arriving from all over the world to share in their joy, the couple added their own special touch to their intimate celebration. Junebug vendor Pedro Filipe Fotografia captured their love and happiness perfectly. If you want fresh ideas for your own big day, check out their magical celebration!

The Couple:

Afonso and Ron

The Wedding:

Casa Risa, Portugal

Embracing a Relaxed Atmosphere at Their Casa Risa Intimate Wedding

We wanted to honor the mood of our venue by having a ceremony and reception that matched it. When we invited only our closest family and friends, we wanted them to feel relaxed and at home. Our planner suggested a relaxed and natural style that perfectly fit Casa Risa and us. It was like a tropical vibe that seamlessly blended with the garden. Since Casa Risa brought us together, it felt only right to get married there.

Making the Most of Rainy Moments

The wedding took place on October 28, and the weather was uncertain. We knew it might rain but decided to take the risk anyway. After enjoying a wonderful sunny day, the rain unexpectedly arrived during the garden party. However, nobody let it spoil the fun, and those five minutes under the light rain actually helped to cool down the temperature. It added a memorable and refreshing touch to the celebration.

Wedding Wisdom: Start with a Planner

The best advice we can give is to find a wedding planner as soon as possible. Our planner helped us plan our entire wedding in just a month, and they guided us through everything, from budgeting to vendor research.

Keeping It Intimate with a Thoughtful Guest Selection

Since most of our guests are from abroad, coming from the US, Brazil, and France, we decided to limit the guest list to our closest friends and immediate family. We wanted everyone to feel truly welcome and at home, not just as observers but as part of our love and celebration.

Customized Wedding Keepsakes That Doubled as Name Cards

We gave our guests personalized Portuguese tiles with their names on them, which doubled as name tags. It was a special touch that added a unique and meaningful element to our wedding celebration.

Keeping It Real with Comfortable Wedding Attire

We wanted to feel true to ourselves and be comfortable on our big day. Afonso rocked a stylish blue suit, a crisp white shirt, a bolo tie, and a pair of sharp shoes. As for me, I opted for a more relaxed look, sporting jeans, a smart blazer, a bolo tie, some classic Cowboy boots, and topping it off with a leather hat (a true Missouri touch).

Creating a Personalized Ceremony by Honoring Their Love Story

The ceremony was the most unforgettable part of our day. Our officiant, Mafalda, worked closely with us to craft a ceremony that truly reflected who we are. We focused on our vows, the special moments of the day, and the heartfelt words shared by our witnesses. It was a deeply meaningful and personal experience that we’ll cherish forever.

The Wedding Team:

Photography – Pedro Filipe Fotografia
Event Planning – Mio Oliveiraa Wedding Planner
Ceremony + Reception Venue – Casa Risa
Floral Design – Ely Flowers Weddings
Catering – Algarve Fine Food 
Cake – Adoçar Atelier
DJ – DJ Dhanny 
Live Music – BIXENTE SIMONET
Videography – Rendez Vous 
Makeup Artist + Hair Styling – Mariana Felizberto
Rentals – BC Planning
Favors – Tile Passion

 

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If you’re thinking about having a small celebration instead of a big wedding, many others feel the same way. With a trustworthy team supporting you, you and your partner can shape your wedding day exactly how you’ve always imagined, and maybe even better!

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LGBTQ+ Wedding Ceremony Script and Readings

June 1, 2024 | kailey
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Image by Bruno Rezza. Keep scrolling for LGBTQ+ wedding ceremony script and reading ideas

Every love story has something unique to celebrate, which means every wedding day is bound to be different. Each celebration will be infused with details that differ all the way down to the ceremony readings. No matter what style of ceremony appeals to you or who you trust to officiate, these gender-neutral, LGBTQ+ wedding ceremony script and reading ideas are the inspiration you need for creating your dream ceremony. 

The Formatting Of A Wedding Ceremony

The words said during your wedding ceremony will be some of the most important on your big day. But before you can focus on the words, you have to understand what you want your ceremony structure to look like. The formatting of every ceremony will differ based on a variety of things, but here is a general format that’ll give you a better idea of what you want to incorporate.

1. The Processional

The processional is the beginning of a ceremony where the flower girl, ring bearer, your wedding parties, and immediate family members walk down the aisle together. Everyone will then take their seats in preparation for the couple’s entrance—cue the music. 

2. Welcome Message 

When everyone is officially in place, the wedding officiant will then express a warm welcome to you and your guests (if you’ve chosen to have guests). A welcome message is typically short, sweet, and a personalized segue into the ceremony readings.

3. Ceremony Readings 

This point of the ceremony is infused with personality and special meaning that you’ll want to remember long beyond your wedding day. Typically, the officiant, a close family member, or a friend will conduct the ceremony readings. The same-sex wedding ceremony readings you can use for your big day are below. Keep scrolling. 

4. Exchange Vows 

Your wedding vows are the most personal and meaningful part of the ceremony, especially if you’ve chosen to write your own vows. This is your chance to express your love for your partner before the big “I do’s.” 

5. Exchange Rings 

After reciting your vows, you’ll then exchange rings—the physical representation of your promises to one another.  If you’re including a special unity ceremony, this will take place during this section as well.  

6. Pronouncement

The officiant will pronounce you legally wed, followed by your first kiss as a married couple.

7. The Recessional 

Cue your grand exit! You’ll lead the recessional down the aisle, followed by your wedding party and all other guests. Then it’s time to hit the reception. 

Recommended reading: The Best Recessional Songs 

LGBTQ+ Wedding Ceremony Script

Modern and Personal Style

Officiant: “Welcome, everyone, to the celebration of love between [Partner 1] and [Partner 2]. Today, we gather to witness their commitment to each other and to support them as they embark on this journey together. [Partner 1] and [Partner 2] met [insert personal story or anecdote about how they met, their relationship, etc.]. Their love for each other has grown stronger with each passing day, and today they are ready to take the next step together.

No words of mine or any other person can truly marry each of you to the other. That is done only when you exchange your promises and commit yourselves to this marriage and each other. So I ask you:

Do you, [Partner 1], take [Partner 2] to be your lawfully wedded spouse? To honor and to cherish them from this day forward, sharing your life through good times and bad, offering kindness, patience, and comfort each day, for as long as love shall last? (repeat for partner 2)”

Officiant: “Now, [Partner 1] and [Partner 2], you have written your own vows. Please share them with each other.”

Vows

Officiant: “May I have the rings? These rings are symbols of your love and commitment. As you place them on each other’s fingers, remember the promises you have made today.”

Pronouncement

Officiant: “Now may those who wear these rings live in love all their days. Now, may the love that has brought you together continue to grow and enrich your lives. May you continue to meet with courage any problems which may arise to challenge you. May your relationship always be one of love and trust. May the happiness you share today be with you always. And may everything you have said and done here today become a living truth in your lives. With that, by the power vested in me, I now pronounce you married! You may kiss!”

Introduction of Married Couple

Officiant: “It is now my personal privilege and great joy to be the first one to introduce (Partner 1) and (Partner 2) as a newly married couple. Partners in life… for life.”

lgbtq+ wedding ceremony readings

Image by Vivian Chen

Same-Sex Ceremony Reading Ideas 

Now that you understand the formatting of a traditional wedding ceremony, you can focus on the meaningful words you’ll pack into each section. When it comes to ceremony readings, some couples choose to have their readings done by close friends or family members. Others prefer their officiant to take the reins. No matter who you trust with these powerful words, you’ll want to use these five gender-neutral, same-sex reading ideas as inspiration. 

1. The Bridge Across Forever

A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person, we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together, our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.

2. All I Know About Love by Neil Gaiman

This is everything I have to tell you about love: nothing. This is everything I’ve learned about marriage: nothing.

Only that the world out there is complicated, and there are beasts in the night, and delight and pain, and the only thing that makes it okay, sometimes, is to reach out a hand in the darkness and find another hand to squeeze, and not to be alone.

It’s not the kisses, or never just the kisses: it’s what they mean. Somebody’s got your back. Somebody knows your worst self and somehow doesn’t want to rescue you or send for the army to rescue them.

It’s not two broken halves becoming one. It’s the light from a distant lighthouse bringing you both safely home because home is wherever you are both together.

So this is everything I have to tell you about love and marriage: nothing, like a book without pages or a forest without trees.

Because there are things you cannot know before you experience them. Because no study can prepare you for the joys or the trials. Because nobody else’s love, nobody else’s marriage, is like yours, and it’s a road you can only learn by walking it, a dance you cannot be taught, a song that did not exist before you began, together, to sing.

And because in the darkness you will reach out a hand, not knowing for certain if someone else is even there. And your hands will meet,  and then neither of you will ever need to be alone again.

And that’s all I know about love.

3. To Love is Not to Possess by James Kavanaugh

To love is not to possess,
To own or imprison,
Nor to lose one’s self in another.
Love is to join and separate,
To walk alone and together,
To find a laughing freedom
That lonely isolation does not permit.
It is finally to be able
To be who we really are
No longer clinging in childish dependency
Nor docilely living separate lives in silence,
It is to be perfectly one’s self
And perfectly joined in permanent commitment
To another–and to one’s inner self.
Love only endures when it moves like waves,
Receding and returning gently or passionately,
Or moving lovingly like the tide
In the moon’s own predictable harmony,
Because finally, despite a child’s scars
Or an adult’s deepest wounds,
They are openly free to be
Who they really are–and always secretly were,
In the very core of their being
Where true and lasting love can alone abide.

Image by Lucas Leeland

4. All About Love by bell hooks

“The moment we choose to love, we begin to move against domination, against oppression. The moment we choose to love, we begin to move towards freedom, to act in ways that liberate ourselves and others. That action is the testimony of love as the practice of freedom… When we choose to love, we choose to move against fear, against alienation and separation. The choice to love is a choice to connect, to find ourselves in the other.”

5. Blessing for a Marriage by James Billet Freeman

May your marriage bring you
all the exquisite excitements a marriage should bring,
and may life grant you also patience,
tolerance, and understanding.
May you always need one another –
not so much to fill your emptiness
as to help you to know your fullness.
A mountain needs a valley to be complete;
the valley does not make the mountain less,
but more; and the valley is more a valley
because it has a mountain towering over it.
So let it be with you and you.
May you need one another, but not out of weakness.
May you want one another, but not out of lack.
May you entice one another, but not compel one another.
May you embrace one another, but not encircle one another.
May you succeed in all important ways with one another,
and not fail in the little graces.
May you look for things to praise,
often say, “I love you!”
and take no notice of small faults.
If you have quarrels that push you apart,
may both of you hope to have good sense enough
to take the first step back.
May you enter into the mystery
which is the awareness of one another’s presence –
no more physical than spiritual,
warm and near when you are side by side,
and warm and near when you are in separate rooms
or even distant cities.
May you have happiness,
and may you find it making one another happy.
May you have love,
and may you find it loving one another.

There are a lot of moving parts involved in planning your dream wedding. That’s why it’s important to have a trusted team of vendors by your side every step of the way. Once you’ve got those on your side, check out our guide on everything you need to know about hosting a same sex wedding.  

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Wedding Ceremony Script Ideas For Your Celebration

May 29, 2024 | kailey

Image by We Are Twine. Officiant Brisbane City Celebrants. 

Your wedding ceremony is arguably the most important part of a wedding. It’s a heartfelt ceremony where you’re officially recognized as a legally married couple. While there is a traditional outline and script many will want to follow, we understand that’s not the case for all. In fact, couples are encouraged to add their own flavor with hand-written vows and decor. But don’t underestimate the power your script has on personalizing your ceremony, too.

Drafting your script might seem a bit daunting, but don’t sweat it. With the help of Junebug vendors and officiants Jamie and Cara, Tuscan Pledges, Camelia-Lambru-Officiant, and Forever Together, we’re bringing you some tips and wedding ceremony script ideas that’ll help couples create a ceremony that’s authentically them. 

Wedding Ceremony Script Outline 

A ceremony script is a written outline that details the sequence of events during this portion of your wedding. The script should authentically reflect your unique personalities and beliefs. But before you can write a ceremony script, it’s important to know what’s traditionally included. A typical ceremony script may include the following components:

  • Processional of notable guests, the wedding party, and the couple
  • Officiants opening remarks welcoming guests and acknowledge the significance of why everyone is gathered 
  • Exchanging vows and expressing their love and promises for the future
  • Exchanging rings as a symbol of commitment 
  • Unity ceremony
  • Readings like a poem, religious reading, or just a thoughtful story about the couple 
  • Blessing or prayer for those having a religious wedding ceremony
  • The first kiss and pronouncement declaring the couple officially married
  • Closing remarks from the officiant congratulating the couple and directing guests on what comes next 
  • Recessional of the couple, the wedding party, and notable family members 

This ceremony script outline is a starting point for crafting your unique ceremony. It’s a guide that’s customizable to fit your specific preferences. You can include elements that resonate with you and skip those that don’t. Overall, just make it your own. 

Recommended Reading: Wedding Ceremony Timeline and Tips for Personalizing the Script

Image by David Bastianoni. See more of this real wedding here.

Wedding Ceremony Script Tips 

Junebug vendors Jamie and Cara from Brisbane City Celebrants are specialists in creating happy, enjoyable, seamless wedding ceremonies tailored to each individual couple. Here are their top tips to help you craft a memorable ceremony script.

1. Incorporate Pre-Wedding Announcements to Set Expectations

Your wedding ceremony doesn’t necessarily need to start with the processional. Remember, it’s your wedding, your rules. Your officiant can welcome guests with pre-wedding announcements to set expectations like these. 

  • Unplugged or Unleashed: Your Celebrant can let your guests know if you prefer a “technology-free” ceremony (unplugged) or if they are welcome to capture special moments (unleashed). They can also let them know whether they can immediately share photos of your wedding on social media or if they should wait until you’ve shared the professional photos first.
  • The Grand Exit: Planning a petal toss? Include it in the announcements to let guests know when they will be prompted that this will take place and the best way to throw the petals for a stunning send-off and beautiful photos!
  • Post-Ceremony Flow: Give your guests a heads-up on the next steps. Will there be a group photo/ some family photos? Will drinks and food be served? Do they need to move to another location for the reception?

2. Proofread and Edit Your Script to Reduce Nerves

  • Your Ceremony, Your Words: Whether your Celebrant is crafting your script or not, ensure you have the opportunity to proof and edit it beforehand. This ensures everything is to your liking, in the tone you had in mind (be it heartfelt and meaningful or a fun ceremony with a few giggles). You can also confirm the important bits like names being correct and crucial information (e.g., who the ring bearer is and who the official witnesses are). Having the peace of mind that your ceremony script is exactly what you envisioned can significantly reduce any wedding day nerves.
  • Eliminate Surprises: Proofreading not only allows you to address any potential mistakes, like incorrect names or information. It also helps avoid any awkward surprises during the ceremony.

3. Personalize Your Script

Make the ceremony uniquely yours by incorporating your love story together–from the first date to the proposal to your shared plans for the future. Collaborating with your officiant to add detailed anecdotes is one of the best ways to make your ceremony truly yours. Heartfelt Ceremonies states that the best ceremonies are the ones that are personalized! The more it feels like you, the better the experience will be.

“Having the officiant, whether it’s a friend or a professional, add a section dedicated to your “love story” is an easy way to do just that. Some love story highlights could include: a recap of your dating life, falling in love & how you knew this was “the one”, the proposal story, highlighting any funny moments together, and details on what you love about each other/what you’re grateful for in your relationship.”

Image by Laura Dean.

Junebug vendors Tuscan Pledges have experience creating personalized ceremonies for couples regardless of their gender, religious, secular, or nondenominational background. They too have shared their tips for creating a celebration that’s authentically yours. 

4. Don’t Have Friends or Family Officiant 

While it has become increasingly popular to have loved ones officiant your wedding, it’s not always a good idea. Friends and families should be invited to your wedding only as guests, to enjoy the ceremony and should not be given the responsibility to perform a service that only a professional has been trained to offer. Professional celebrants have been trained to create a personalized ceremony just the way you want it, balancing every moment, including the right element at the right time so that everything runs smoothly. They will help you decide where to place the poems, the music pieces, the vows, and will offer you all the advice their training has provided them with.

Professional celebrants are trained to speak in public, are not embarrassed to be before all those people; they may find the moment very moving, but will do that tactfully. They know how to address the couple and their guests and will coordinate with the musicians, to make sure words and music do not overlap and that there are no awkward silences in the ceremony. 

Wedding Ceremony Script Examples

1. Religious Wedding Ceremony Script Example

Processional:

[Wedding party enters, followed by the bride]

Opening Remarks:

Officiant: Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to join [Couple’s Name] in holy matrimony. Today marks a significant milestone in their journey together.

Exchange of Vows:

Officiant: [Couple’s Names], please share your vows with each other.

[Couple exchanges vows]

Declaration of Intent:

Do you [Name] take this [woman/man/person] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife], to live together in matrimony, to love [pronoun], comfort [pronoun], honor and keep [pronoun], in sickness and in health, to have and to hold, from this day forward, as long as you both shall live?

[“I do”] 

Exchange of Rings:

Officiant: [Name], as you place this ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me.

With this ring I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be no other than yourself. I promise to support you through times of trouble and rejoice with you in times of happiness. I promise to respect your integrity and have faith in your abiding love for me for as long as we both shall live.

These rings are a symbol of the unbroken circle of love and commitment. As you place these rings upon each other’s fingers, may they remind you of the promises you have made here today.

Readings:

[Selected readings, poems, or personal anecdotes are shared]

Unity Ceremony: 

[Optional unity ceremony, such as lighting a unity candle or blending of sand]

Prayer: 

Officiant: Let us take a moment to offer a blessing or prayer for [Couple’s Names] as they embark on this journey together.

Pronouncement of Marriage:

Officiant: By the power vested in me by the state of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife and wife/husband]. You may kiss the bride/groom!

[Couple shares a kiss]

Recessional:

[Wedding party exits]

Image by Sriwijaya Story.

2. Non-Religious Wedding Ceremony Script Example 

Processional:

[Wedding party enters, followed by the bride]

Opening Remarks:

Officiant: Welcome, everyone. Friends and loved ones, we gather here today to celebrate the love and commitment of [Couple’s Names]. Today, we witness the joining of their lives in marriage, a union built on respect, trust, and shared values. This is not the beginning of a new relationship but an acknowledgment of the next chapter in their lives together. And they have invited us to share in this special moment as they declare their love and dedication to one another.

[Personal annecdotes are shared]

Exchange of Vows:

Officiant: [Couple’s Names], please share your vows with each other.

[Couple exchanges vows]

Declaration of Intent:

Officiant: [Couple’s Names], do you come here freely and without reservation to give yourselves to each other in marriage? 

[Couple: “We do”]

Do you [Name], take this [woman/man/person] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife], to live together in matrimony, to love [pronoun], comfort [pronoun], honor and keep [pronoun], in sickness and in health, to have and to hold, from this day forward, as long as you both shall live?

[“I do”] 

Exchange of Rings:

Officiant: These rings are a symbol of the unbroken circle of love and commitment. As you place these rings upon each other’s fingers, may they remind you of the promises you have made here today.

Officiant: [Name], as you place this ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me.

With this ring I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be no other than yourself. I promise to support you through times of trouble and rejoice with you in times of happiness. I promise to stand by your side no matter what life throws our way for as long as we both shall live.

[Couple exchanges rings]

Pronouncement of Marriage:

Officiant: By the power vested in me by the state of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife and wife/husband]. You may kiss the bride/groom!

[Couple shares a kiss]

Recessional:

[Wedding party exits]

Image by Oscar Lucas.

3. Personalized Wedding Script Ideas from Camelia-Lambru-Officiant

Processional:

[Wedding party enters, followed by the bride]

Opening Remarks:

[Couple’s names] it’s a pleasure to share this very special occasion with you. Friends and Family of [Couple’s names] welcome and thank you for being here on this important day.

You have come here from far away to offer your love and support to their union, and to allow [Couple’s names] to start their married life together surrounded by the people who are most important to them.

This is an opportunity for us to share not only in the joy of [Couple’s names]’s love but also to reaffirm and appreciate the love and the friendship we experience in our own lives. May we all celebrate by being fully present during our short time together.

[Couple’s names] have chosen this setting in which to be married because it provides a wonderful and romantic backdrop for the public affirmation of their love.

Since ancient time, people have performed ceremonies to mark a transition, a change of status, and a wedding is a rite of passage, a  transition from one life status (single) to another (married).

The processional can be seen as separation — moving away from one point of life into another. The vows are transitional — standing upon the threshold. And the declaration of marriage is incorporation — taking the new status into the everyday life.

You are promising, in front of all these people you love, that you want to be with each other for the rest of your lives, and that you will do everything in your power to honor the promises you are making here today.

For their part, the people who love you will also do everything in their power to try to help you and support you. We’re here to dream with you, to support you, to be proud of you, and to remind you that love isn’t happily ever after, love is the experience of writing your story. It’s not one moment — not even this moment. It’s every moment.

Marriage has been described as the best and most important relationship that can exist between two human beings; the construction of their love and trust into a single growing energy of spiritual life.

Let us all give our blessing and love to  [Couple’s names] during this ceremony as they pledge their love to one another.

Exchange of Vows:

 [Couple’s names] please join hands and look at one another, remember this moment in time and may the promise you make this day.. live always in your hearts. I remind you that marriage is a precious gift, a lifelong dedication to love and a daily challenge to love one another more fully and freely. 

[Couple’s names], by coming here today, you have reached a crossroads in your lives.

You’re turning away from your yesterdays and looking ahead to your tomorrows.

Your past is a distant memory.

Your future a waiting adventure.

It is a new dawn, a new commitment, a new life.

Exchange of Rings:

Your marriage begins with the vows and promises you speak to one another today.

Do you, [Partner #1] take [Partner #2], in the presence of God your family and friends as witnesses, to be your wife, your partner in life and travel the rest of life’s road with her?

(I DO)

Do you promise to accept her just as she is, sharing with her and supporting her through the experiences of your lives,  and will you love, honor and cherish her in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, for better for worse, be faithful to her as long as you both shall live?

(I WILL) 

Do you [Partner #2] take [Partner #1], in the presence of God, your family and friends as witnesses , to be your husband,  your partner in life and travel the rest of life’s road with him?

Do you promise to accept him just as he is, sharing with him and supporting him through the experiences of your lives,  and will you love, honor and cherish him in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, for better for worse, be faithful to him as long as you both shall live?

(I DO)

Exchange of Vows:

(Now that you have declared your intentions, I invite you to share your vows with one another)

Exchange of Rings:

May I have the rings, please? 

Rings are a symbol of the never-ending circle that symbolize the eternal quality of God, unending strength, and unending love!   

Rings serve as a reminder of your wedding vows to each other, and your commitment to live in unity, love and happiness. These rings have no beginning and no end. They will represent the love and trust that [Couple’s names] promise to each other this day.

[Partner #1]: (repeat after me) [Partner #2], With this ring, I marry you and bind my life to yours. It is a symbol of my eternal love, My everlasting friendship, With all that I am…With all that I have…I will honor you as my wife forevermore [Partner #2]: (repeat after me) [Partner #1], With this ring, I marry you and bind my life to yours. It is a symbol of my eternal love, My everlasting friendship, With all that I am… With all that I have… I will honor you as my husband forevermore

[Couple’s names] you have just sealed your relationship by the giving and receiving of rings and this is a pledge between two people who agree that they will commit themselves to one another throughout their lives. 

Pronouncement of Marriage:

[Couple’s names], In my presence and in the presence of your family and friends, you have exchanged vows and made promises. You have opened your hearts to one another, declared your love and friendship, and have united yourself with the exchanging of rings. You have kissed a thousand times, maybe more.

But today the feeling is new.

It is my pleasure to now pronounce you husband and wife.

You may now kiss the bride!

Recessional:

[Wedding party exits]

4. Ceremony Script for Those Planning a Spanish-Speaking Ceremony from Better, Together

Junebug vendor and officiant Better, Together has provided a ceremony scrip idea for those planning a Spanish, bilingual celebration.

Processional:

[Wedding party enters, followed by the bride]

La Bienvenida:

Queridos amigos, nos hemos reunido hoy aquí / para celebrar la unión en matrimonio / de Novio y Novia. Estamos aquí para dar testimonio / de este compromiso que hacen hoy, asi como para darles / nuestro apoyo en su nueva aventura  conjunta / como esposo y esposa.

El Acuerdo:

Y Novia, quieres unir tu vida con Novio como su esposa?  Quieres vivir junto con él en matrimonio, serle fiel, amarle, honrarle, reconfortarle y cuidarle / durante todas las temporadas de sus vidas juntos? Si es así, por favor, decir , “Sí, lo quiero.”

Promesas De Los Testigos:

¿Queridos amigos y familia, prometen apoyar a Novio y Novia / como ellos comienzan este viaje juntos, ayudándoles y apoyándoles en los tiempos buenos y los malos, y siempre reconociendo que pertenecen el uno al otro?

Las Lecturas:

Cuando por fin / se encuentran dos almas, Que durante tanto tiempo / se han buscado una a otra entre el gentío, Que se comprenden y corresponden, En una palabra, que son semejantes, surge entonces para siempre / una unión vehemente y pura / como ellas mismas, una unión que comienza en la tierra / y perdura para siempre. Cuando advierten que son parejas.

Esa unión es amor auténtico, como en verdad muy pocos pueden concebir, amor que es una religion / cuya vida emana
Del fervor y de la pasión / y para el que los sacrificios
Más grandes / son los gozos más dulces.

Estamos aqui para confirmar su pasión / y le propusimos firmemente en el camino / de sacrificio y alegría /  para el resto de sus vidas.

Las Promesas:

En este momento, Novio y Novia hacer promesas / a los demás. Como ya lo hemos oído sus palabras, recordemos los compromisos que debemos hacer / para dar apoyo y atención / a las personas quien amamos.

Y Novia, por favor, repita después de mi: 

Yo, Novia, te elegí a ti, Novio, como mi esposo. Te voy a respetar, cuidar, y amar, en tiempos buenos y difíciles, como tu amiga, compañera, y esposa, ofreciendo todo lo mejor de mi, para tener una vida plena juntos.

Ya habiendo hecho promesas de amar y cuidar, uno por el otro, Novio y Novia quieren ofrecer / un anillo como símbolo de su amor.

Y Novia, por favor repita despues de mi:
Novio, te doy este anillo / como un símbolo de mi amor / para hoy, mañana y siempre.

La Declaración: 

En este día, han hecho promesas el uno al otro y han aceptado unirse en matrimonio. Por lo tanto, es con gran alegria / que os declaro / marido y mujer!

Novio, puede besar a la novia.

Damas y Caballeros, es mi honor a presentarles, por primera vez, Señor y Señora [couple’s last name].

key to a heartfelt and personalized ceremony script is a trusted officiant. When you hire a wedding professional who invests time in getting to know you, they can incorporate your unique story and values into the script. Not sure where to find a reliable and passionate officiation? Start your search in our vendor directory, packed with Junebug-approved officiants from all across the globe. 

Image by Elle Reaux.

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Whimsical and Bold Caruso Destination Wedding

May 14, 2024 | justine

Francesca and Arunan have families from around the world, so they decided on a destination wedding to bring everyone together. They love trying new things, so picking a city they’d never been to for their big day sounded like the ultimate thrill. They wanted their big day to feel like a huge celebration where everyone could enjoy themselves. That’s why they planned everything outdoors so that guests could relish in the fresh air and breathtaking views. When their Caruso destination wedding finally happened, it was like stepping into a colorful dream. With beautiful flowers, stunning fashion, and a lively atmosphere, it was a party nobody would ever forget.

Their ceremony unfolded on a cliffside garden, offering an awe-inspiring panorama of the sea and the town below. Vibrant blooms adorned every corner, delicately framing the space, aisle, and altar where the couple exchanged their heartfelt vows. Following this beautiful moment, guests were welcomed to a garden reception where a stunning tablescape awaited them. Lush arrangements adorned the long table, inviting guests to enjoy the visual feast. Above, chandeliers cast a gentle glow, infusing the atmosphere with a whimsical and enchanting vibe.

If your dream wedding involves elegance, coastal views, and a touch of uniqueness, this Caruso destination wedding is perfect for you. The captivating images captured by David Bastianoni beautifully showcase every swoon-worthy detail of this breathtaking event.

The Couple:

Francesca and Arunan

The Wedding:

Belmond Caruso, Amalfi Coast, Italy

Embracing Differences by Blending Cultural and Religious Elements in Their Ceremony

We come from very different cultural and religious backgrounds, so we wanted to ensure we honored all sides of our families. We gave traditional vows, but a Thali necklace was presented to honor the groom’s side. Then, to celebrate part of the bride’s side, a glass was smashed at the end of the ceremony. We also performed a sand ceremony symbolizing the meddling of our backgrounds and families.

Their Caruso Destination Wedding Was an International Gathering of Loved Ones

We aimed for a lively and colorful celebration, steering clear of neutrals and pastels for a modern yet elegant feel. Our priority was ensuring guests felt relaxed and free to enjoy themselves, with all our loved ones gathered from around the world except Antarctica. The day never lacked excitement; it was genuinely a joyful and beautiful occasion. We embraced a non-traditional approach to design, from the invitations to the dinner table and aisle, which perfectly matched our vision. Guest experience was paramount, reflecting in every detail. With nearly 14 years together, we wanted our wedding to feel like a big party, prioritizing outdoor settings for fresh air and stunning scenery.

Falling in Love with Belmond Caruso for Their Venue

Living near Washington, DC, we struggled to find a wedding venue that matched our personalities. We both come from international families, so a destination wedding was the perfect fit. Being adventurous souls, the idea of tying the knot in a city we had yet to explore excited us. The Belmond Caruso instantly captured our hearts, even through online photos. Its beauty is awe-inspiring, and experiencing it in person exceeded all expectations.

Custom Sandals and Traditional Treats: Sharing Their Love Through Handcrafted Gifts

We adored the idea of handmade Italian leather sandals crafted right at Bottega Eva Caruso. Not only are they timeless and durable, but they also hold a special significance, being native to Ravello. Offering our guests the opportunity to customize their own sandals, tailored to their unique preferences and foot measurements, added a personal touch to the experience. Additionally, we wanted to share a taste of Sri Lanka with our loved ones, so we gifted traditional Sri Lankan love cake delicately packaged in hand-dyed palm leaf cake boxes. These heartfelt gestures, including the sandals and cake, reflected our appreciation for both Italian and Sri Lankan traditions, making our wedding celebration even more meaningful.

How Their Vendor Team Made Magic Happen at Their Caruso Destination Wedding

Our wedding planners were the real MVPs, orchestrating every detail of our elaborate three-day affair with unmatched dedication and skill. The hotel felt like it was straight out of a fairytale, and the service provided to us and our guests was truly exceptional. The flowers were beyond breathtaking; I doubt I’ll ever lay eyes on anything quite as spectacular again. David Bastianoni and his team worked wonders with our photos, capturing moments of pure magic that still leave me in awe. Huge props to the team at Beauty Livery for making us feel like absolute royalty with their sweet demeanor and incredible talent. We’re incredibly grateful to have had such a fantastic team of vendors and artists bringing our vision to life.

The Wedding Team:

Photography – David Bastianoni
Event Planning – VB Events
Venue + Catering + Cake – Belmond Caruso
Floral Design – Flowers Living
Officiant – Giuliano Benelli
DJ – DJ Fabio Vuomo
Live Music – Evo Strings String Quartet + Marco Ruggiero Sax
Invitation Design – Swell Press
Makeup Artist + Hair Styling – Beauty Livery
Rings – Cartier + Sophie Bille Brahe
Favors – Bottega Eva Caruso

 

Congratulations to Francesca and Arunan on their whimsical and bold Caruso destination wedding. A special thank you to David Bastianoni for capturing all the breathtaking moments that the couple will treasure for a lifetime.

Hosting a destination wedding offers an opportunity for an intimate celebration surrounded by loved ones, creating unforgettable memories. Here’s the insider tip: to ensure an extraordinary experience, collaborate with experienced vendors who can elevate your day to the next level. Ready to kick start this journey? Explore our curated selection of top-tier wedding professionals from around the world!

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This Park Chateau Wedding Was a Garden Come to Life

May 12, 2024 | justine

Danielle and Nicholas dreamed of a wedding that was unique, intentional, and elegant. Their journey began with the bridal shower–hinting at the magic of their upcoming celebration–as they poured their hearts into the theme. It all came seamlessly together at their Park Chateau wedding, adorned with soft earthy hues and gentle pastels, surrounded by lush flowers and greenery. It was as if a vibrant garden had sprung to life, making their special day a breathtaking reality.

The expansive property, boasting a gorgeous mansion and manicured gardens, provided the perfect setting for the couple’s ceremony at the stone courtyard. Against the backdrop of the stunning garden landscape, surrounded by their loved ones, the couple exchanged heartfelt vows. Meanwhile, greenery installations and textured arrangements seamlessly brought the outdoors in, softening the opulent aesthetic of their ballroom reception.

If you dream of a wedding adorned with vibrant greenery and blooming flowers, you won’t miss these stunning photos captured by Junebug vendor 4K Wedding Videographer. This celebration is overflowing with inspiration, making it a must-see for anyone planning their dream garden wedding.

The Couple:

Danielle and Nicholas

The Wedding:

Park Chateau, East Brunswick, New Jersey, United States

How DIY Touches and a Special Officiant Made Their Park Chateau Wedding Personal to the Couple

We were so nervous that everything would be executed as we envisioned it because we had truly DIYed every aspect of our wedding and coordinated that vision with our vendors. Our favorite part was marrying one another. Nick and I have been together almost nine years after meeting in college. We had envisioned walking down that aisle and seeing one another for the first time for so long. The rabbi who married us has known me my whole life. He did my baby naming, was there for our family in joyous and challenging times, and truly took the time to get to know Nick. Under the chuppah, we kept squeezing each other’s hands, smiling and whispering, “I love you.” It felt so real and personal. We felt like our guests could see how much we loved each other and how excited we were.

Handcrafted Details That Brought Their Wedding Vision to Life

We are definitely most proud of the details. We planned andmade mood boards and PowerPoints for months and months while planning this day. We built every single piece of decor and signage ourselves in our home and even some in our tiny NYC apt before we moved. All our friends and family thought we were in over our heads. Nick and I love to dream, create, and come up with unique ideas, and we have done precisely that for our day. You can see it in the details of all our decor!

Navigating Wedding Planning on a Budget

Nick and I were definitely on a budget when it came to the wedding. I had just finished my medical residency and started working as an Emergency Room Attending Physician, which meant a lot of loans from schooling. We’d also just bought a new home to start a family. We did a great job prioritizing what mattered most and making our money stretch. We made our invitations, spending hours distressing paper, watercolor painting each one, and adding ribbon and wax seals before sending them out. We became experts at DIY projects, from building structures to repurposing items from the bridal shower. Nick’s engineering skills came in handy. Instead of hiring a designer or wedding planner, we did it all, drawing up countless design ideas until everything was perfect. We knew photography was essential, so we didn’t skimp there. Our florist was great at helping us make wise choices with our budget, focusing on critical areas for impact. My cousin’s band, Cause and the Effects, played at our wedding, giving us a family discount. They were terrific, providing live music with their versatile repertoire throughout the event.

How the Bride Kept Her Park Chateau Wedding Look a Secret Until the Aisle

Choosing a dress was a real challenge for me. Having done some bridal modeling before, I had tried on various dresses, but I wanted to find the perfect one for my wedding day. I decided on two, knowing I couldn’t settle on just one style. I also wanted to keep my look a surprise for Nick until I walked down the aisle, which made photos before the ceremony tricky. So, I devised a unique idea: wearing one dress for pictures and changing just before the aisle walk. Only my mom knew about this surprise, keeping everyone else guessing. Nick’s style is simple, traditional, and classic, so I aimed for that during the ceremony with a twist. I was fortunate to meet one of Rita Vinieris’ designers after COVID-19, who made me a custom design, adding a modern, pointed, strapless neckline to a stunning satin dress with a beautiful back adorned with buttons. For my second dress, worn mainly at the reception, I chose a fitted lace gown with intricate applique made by Marina Farbinni, personalized to perfection. For a party look, inspired by my mom’s chic gauntlets from her wedding, I opted for a sleek short dress with a high neck, paired with Loeffler Randall white heels featuring bows, and surprised her by wearing her lace gauntlets. It was such a fun and memorable ensemble.

Transforming a Ballroom Into a Secret Garden Wonderland

One standout feature was the crossing arches adorning the main tables, where flowers cascaded and climbed over, creating a garden-like ambiance down the center. We aimed for height with our florals to add unique flair, opting for a design that stood out from traditional weddings. Our band’s stage was transformed into a living garden, complete with boxes we built, adorned with rattan hanging lights wrapped in vines and flowers. Incorporating our new last name, “Wright,” into our decor became a playful theme: “Welcome, you’re WRIGHT where you belong,” greeted guests, while “WRIGHT this way” guided them to their seats, and “Drinks coming WRIGHT up” beckoned them to the bar. Even our first dance was a labor of love, choreographed to John Legend’s “Conversations in the Dark” after nights of practicing on our checkered dining room floor. We wanted our bridesmaids’ bouquets to evoke the feeling of freshly picked flowers, so we collaborated with our florist to create stunning arrangements in wicker bags. Every detail was chosen with purpose, reflecting our love and intention behind every element of our special day.

The Wedding Team:

Photography  – Jaymo James
Videography – 4K Wedding Videographer
Venue – Park Chateau
Floral Design – TR Floral Design
Live Music – The Cause and the Effects
Invitation Design – The Bride
Makeup Artist – By Alyssaa
Hair Styling – Kristen Okaly
Wedding Dress – Kleinfeld + Wedding Salon of Manhasset
Bridal Accessories – Loeffler Randall
Groom’s Apparel – Suit Supply
Rings – Ring Concierge

 

Congratulations to Danielle and Nicholas on their Park Chateau wedding! A huge thank you goes out to Junebug vendor 4K Wedding Videographer for skillfully capturing all the remarkable details and unforgettable moments that made this celebration truly memorable. To explore more weddings like this one, visit their profile in our directory featuring talented videographers from across the globe.

Whether you’ve already selected your ideal garden location or are considering incorporating outdoor elements indoors, explore our floral guide for planning your own flower-filled celebration. Armed with these ideas, a top-notch florist, and a skilled team of vendors, you can create the garden-themed event you’ve always envisioned!

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Wedding Ceremony Timeline and Tips for Personalizing the Script

April 3, 2024 | kailey

Image by Manuel Aldana. See more of this real wedding here.

A wedding ceremony is more than just exchanging vows. With so many moving pieces, it’s crucial to iron out the details well before walking down the aisle. That’s why many host a rehearsal dinner the day before to make certain that everyone is on the same page. Having a clear wedding ceremony timeline also helps to ensure that everyone knows their role—from the officiant and DJ to key family members, the wedding party, and, of course, the couple. 

A clear timeline to refer back to is essential. But there tends to be a lot of confusion when it comes to actually creating a timeline. What comes first? How many readings should you incorporate? When does the unity ceremony take place? These are all valid questions. That’s why we’ve put together a traditional wedding ceremony timeline for you to reference. But keep in mind every wedding is unique, including the timeline and script. 

This guide can help you decide what to keep and what to skip. We’ve also included some tips on how to personalize the script, ensuring it authentically reflects your love story and vision for the day.

Wedding Ceremony Timeline

1. Guests Get Seated 

At any ceremony, the first step is always guiding guests to their seats. You can hire ushers or dedicate vendors–like your wedding planner–to take on this role. You can also rely on signage to direct your guests to the correct places. Traditionally, important family members like grandparents, parents, and siblings are included in the processional, so reserve the first row for them.

2. Processional Begins 

Just before the procession begins, your officiant will take their place. When the music starts, it’s the first partner’s cue to walk down the aisle, followed by important family members like grandparents, parents, and possibly siblings. Then comes the wedding party. Bridesmaids and groomsmen can choose to walk down separately or pair up—it’s your call. Once everyone is in position, the music will change, guests will rise, and the next partner will make her grand entrance down the aisle.

Recommended Reading: Unique Wedding Processional Songs for Walking Down the Aisle in Style

3. Opening Remarks From the Officiant 

Once everyone is settled, the officiant will say a few words to welcome and thank everyone on behalf of the couple. This part of the ceremony is typically short and heartfelt. In religious ceremonies, the officiant may also include a prayer.  

Image by Memorelle. See more of this real wedding here.

4. Readings

This part of the ceremony carries special meaning, which is why couples often have a trusted officiant or a close family member conduct the readings. Whoever you choose to deliver these heartfelt words, it’s essential this section is tailored to reflect your relationship.

The readings you select will be influenced by whether your wedding is religious or not. For religious ceremonies, readings can come from sacred texts like the Bible or Torah. However, in non-religious ceremonies, readings can be poems or personal anecdotes. It’s all about choosing sweet words that resonate with you both.

Recommended Reading: LGBTQ+ Ceremony Scripts and Readings

5. Exchanging of Vows 

You and your guests are going to want to have tissues handy for this emotional part of the wedding ceremony. The exchanging of vows is an intimate moment where you both express your commitment to each other. You have the option to recite traditional vows provided by your officiant or fully personalize the ceremony by writing your own vows. 

We’ve also seen many couples opt to read their vows privately before the ceremony, often during the first look. This can be a great option for those who aren’t comfortable wearing their heart on their sleeve for all their loved ones to see. There’s no right or wrong way to do it. It’s truly all about what feels most authentic to you as a couple.

Recommended Reading: Get Inspired By These 30 Touching Wedding Vows Examples

6. Include a Unity Ceremony in Your Wedding Ceremony Timeline 

A unity ceremony is an optional wedding tradition that symbolizes two lives coming together as one. Oftentimes, it’s a ritual with religious or cultural significance, though this isn’t always the case. Whether you go the traditional route or in a unique direction, this is still an extremely special way for a couple to personalize their wedding. It adds a sweet and sentimental touch that beautifully represents your love. 

Image by Henry and Mac. See more of this real wedding here.

7. Ring Exchange 

After exchanging all the heartfelt words, it’s time to exchange wedding rings. Your officiant will guide you as you each slip the ring onto each other’s fingers, one at a time. These rings symbolize your love and commitment that you’ll proudly wear long beyond your wedding day. 

If you want to ditch physical jewelry altogether,, get matching wedding ring tattoos—a one-of-a-kind wedding detail that challenges tradition.  

8. Pronouncement and First Kiss 

“I now pronounce you…” are the magical words everyone’s been waiting for. This is the moment when you’re officially recognized as a married couple. It’s time for your first kiss as newlyweds and time to soak up the excitement from your guests before making your grand exit from the ceremony space. 

Image by Skyler & Vhan Photography. See more of this real wedding here.

9. Recessional

The recessional marks the grand finale after your officiant declares you married. This kickstarts the walk back down the aisle. First, the newlyweds lead the way, followed by their wedding party. To add an extra touch of magic to the moment, consider having guests toss petals or confetti to create a stunning photo opportunity.

Recommended Reading: The 70 Best Wedding Recessional Songs

Tips for Personalizing the Script

After breaking down the traditional ceremony timeline and its components, it’s time to consider how you can elevate your script. Since there’s no one-size-fits-all ceremony, we’re leaving you with some tips to ensure your script is tailored to you and your unique love story.

1. Have a Family Member or Friend Officiant 

No one knows you better than your loved ones. So, having someone close to you officiate your wedding can add an incredibly personal touch to your ceremony. This individual knows you both inside and out, allowing them to convey your love beautifully.

Image by Andrea & Federica. See more of this real wedding here.

2. Get Loved Ones Included During Processional

There are no rules when it comes to your wedding. So, if you want to include more special people in your processional, do it. You can have your dog play ring bearer, your grandma be the flower girl, etc.

3. Write Your Own Vows 

Writing your own vows is a powerful way to add meaning to your ceremony script. It’s your opportunity to pour your heart out, vocalizing why you’ve fallen for this person. You can also share personal stories that brought you to this moment at the altar. It’s your chance to scream your love from the mountaintops for all to hear. 

4. Trade Traditional Readings for Personal Anecdotes

Sharing letters expressing why you love each other and memorable stories gives your officiant insight into your relationship. By incorporating these anecdotes into the readings, they can add an extra layer of personalization to your ceremony script. 

5. Use Music to Enhance Your Ceremony  

Music sets the tone for your wedding day, including your ceremony. Your choice of processional and recessional songs can personalize the moment. So, when making your music selections, carefully consider your playlist. Make sure only to pick songs that resonate with you and your partner. 

6. Get Guests Involved

Get your guests involved during the ceremony by including something like a ring-warming ceremony where the rings are passed around to all of the guests to bless before they’re exchanged by the couple. 

No wedding is alike, making it difficult to navigate the planning process at times. While our wedding ceremony timeline guide is a helpful starting point, it’s worth considering hiring a wedding planner and officiant to fine-tune these details for you. They’ll play a key role in crafting a timeline and script that truly reflects your love story and vision for the day.

Image by Evan Rich Photography. See more of this real wedding here.

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