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Elegantly Modern Basilica Hudson Wedding

August 29, 2022 | justine

A historic reclaimed factory venue decked out with minimalist details and as many candles as possible—Keri and Ben’s Basilica Hudson wedding combined industrial style with ultra-romantic vibes. The pair took their big day as an opportunity to beautifully bend traditions so they could show off their personalities in fun and creative ways.

Using ghost chairs, petals to line the aisle, and draped fabric to soften the warehouse aesthetic, the couple exchanged vows at the ceremony space of the Basilica Hudson, surrounded by their loved ones. For the reception at the main hall, string lights, crystal chandeliers, and disco balls hung above the dance floor, while a lounge, complete with a neon sign, served as the focal point. The tables were kept simple yet dramatic, with an abundance of white taper candles on glass holders. 

And in a fun and epic turn of events, everyone’s spirits were kept high with a parade of pizza, sparklers, and large face cutouts of the couple! We’re absolutely feeling the energy and love from these two. Want to see more? Scroll through these incredible images captured by Nicole Nero

The Couple:

Keri and Ben

The Wedding:

Basilica Hudson, New York, United States

Personalizing Their Ceremony By Having Their Best Friends Officiate And Getting Relationship Advice

One of our best friends officiated our ceremony, which was super important to us. We let her write a portion of the ceremony, and I wrote the rest with help from our wedding planner.  A few married couples we admire were asked to send us a few sentences on what marriage means to them and any marriage advice. I took those responses and turned them into a reading that was super meaningful to us.

Why A Basilica Hudson Wedding

We wanted a blank canvas and not feel like we were going through a wedding factory. Having a large guest count and only a few states where we wanted to get married, the list of venues was narrowed down quickly just by those parameters. Plus, our venue didn’t have a curfew.

Having A Bit Of Fun With Their Seating Chart By Using Backstage Pass Lanyards

We are most proud of the small details we put into our wedding that made our day as seamless as possible and showed our personalities. For example, I am really into going to rock concerts, so we made “backstage passes” on a lanyard that guests picked up at a “Will Call” table instead of traditional place cards. Some guests wore theirs all night. I loved these small opportunities to be fun and creative when we might have otherwise just gone through the motions of what we’ve seen at other weddings.

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Advice From The Newlyweds: Let Go Of Expectations

We learned so much in planning our wedding, and we try to share that knowledge with anyone who asks. But the best thing we learned and stuck to throughout the process is to throw everything you know about weddings out the window. Plan a party that you and your partner want. Wedding planning can be so emotionally draining and is hard work. If you let other people’s opinions dedicate your decision-making, you’ll end up frustrated planning for something you don’t necessarily want.

The Wedding Team:

Photography – Nicole Nero
Event Planning – Venture North Events
Ceremony + Reception Venue – Basilica Hudson
Catering – Hudson Valley BBQ
Videography – Glass Planet Videography
Makeup Artist + Hair Styling – Julie Occhino Luxury Beauty
Wedding Dress – Pronovias
Bridal Accessories + Rings – Rebecca Walls Jewelry
Groom’s Apparel – Imparali
Rentals – Columbia Tent Rentals

 

Congratulations to Keri and Ben’s elegantly modern Basilica Hudson wedding. And big thanks to photographer Nicole Nero for beautifully capturing all the stunning details that other wedding planning couples can use as inspiration.

Warehouse venues like this one are great for couples who want a blank canvas they can bring to life with their unique style. Whether you prefer a space with an edgy vibe or a historic location with stunning architectural details, check out our guide to finding the perfect venue that can be transformed to reflect your and your partner’s personality completely. 

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12 Romantic Love Poems to Read at Your Wedding Ceremony

August 28, 2022 | Junebug Weddings

Image by Rylee & Co. Keep scrolling for romantic love poems for your wedding ceremony

While we do love unexpected wedding ceremony readings, we have to admit that our hearts still skip a beat when we hear romantic love poems read during a ceremony. Where words fail, poetry says it all. These 12 romantic love poems would be perfect for any wedding ceremony. From modern poets to the classic greats, these poets found a way to express what everyone wants to say on the most special day of their lives.

12 Romantic Love Poems For Your Wedding Ceremony

Our Souls Are Mirrors by Rupi Kaur

god must have kneaded you and i
from the same dough
rolled us out as one on the baking sheet
must have suddenly realized
how unfair it was
to put that much magic in one person
and sadly split that dough in two
how else is it that
when i look in the mirror
i am looking at you
when you breathe
my own lungs fill with air
that we just met but we
have known each other our whole lives
if we were not made as one to begin with

To Love is Not to Possess by James Kavanaugh

To love is not to possess,
To own or imprison,
Nor to lose one’s self in another.
Love is to join and separate,
To walk alone and together,
To find a laughing freedom
That lonely isolation does not permit.
It is finally to be able
To be who we really are
No longer clinging in childish dependency
Nor docilely living separate lives in silence,
It is to be perfectly one’s self
And perfectly joined in permanent commitment
To another–and to one’s inner self.
Love only endures when it moves like waves,
Receding and returning gently or passionately,
Or moving lovingly like the tide
In the moon’s own predictable harmony,
Because finally, despite a child’s scars
Or an adult’s deepest wounds,
They are openly free to be
Who they really are–and always secretly were,
In the very core of their being
Where true and lasting love can alone abide.

The Earth Turned to Bring Us Closer by Eugenio Montejo

The earth turned to bring us closer,
it spun on itself and within us,
and finally joined us together in this dream
as written in the Symposium.
Nights passed by, snowfalls and solstices;
time passed in minutes and millennia.
An ox cart that was on its way to Nineveh
arrived in Nebraska.
A rooster was singing some distance from the world,
in one of the thousand pre-lives of our fathers.
The earth was spinning with its music carrying us on board;
it didn’t stop turning a single moment
as if so much love, so much that’s miraculous
was only an Adagio written long ago
in the Symposium’s score.

I’ll Be There For You by Louise Cuddon

I’ll be there my darling, through thick and through thin
When your mind’s in a mess and your head’s in a spin
When your plane’s been delayed, and you’ve missed the last train.
When life is just threatening to drive you insane
When your thrilling whodunit has lost its last page
When somebody tells you, you’re looking your age
When your coffee’s too cool, and your wine is too warm
When the forecast said “Fine”, but you’re out in a storm
When your quick break hotel, turns into a slum
And your holiday photos show only your thumb
When you park for five minutes in a resident’s bay
And return to discover you’ve been towed away
When the jeans that you bought in hope or in haste
Just stick on your hips and don’t reach round your waist
When the food you most like brings you out in red rashes
When as soon as you boot up the bloody thing crashes
So my darling, my sweetheart, my dear…
When you break a rule, when you act the fool
When you’ve got the flu, when you’re in a stew
When you’re last in the queue, don’t feel blue’cause
I’m telling you, I’ll be there.

Variations On The Word Love by Margaret Atwood

This is a word we use to plug
holes with. It’s the right size for those warm
blanks in speech, for those red heart-
shaped vacancies on the page that look nothing
like real hearts. Add lace
and you can sell
it. We insert it also in the one empty
space on the printed form
that comes with no instructions. There are whole
magazines with not much in them
but the word love, you can
rub it all over your body and you
can cook with it too. How do we know
it isn’t what goes on at the cool
debaucheries of slugs under damp
pieces of cardboard? As for the weed-
seedlings nosing their tough snouts up
among the lettuces, they shout it.
Love! Love! sing the soldiers, raising
their glittering knives in salute.

Then there’s the two
of us. This word
is far too short for us, it has only
four letters, too sparse
to fill those deep bare
vacuums between the stars
that press on us with their deafness.
It’s not love we don’t wish
to fall into, but that fear.
This word is not enough but it will
have to do. It’s a single
vowel in this metallic
silence, a mouth that says
O again and again in wonder
and pain, a breath, a finger
grip on a cliffside. You can
hold on or let go.

Roads Go Ever Ever On by J.R.R Tolkien

Roads go ever ever on,
Over rock and under tree,
By caves where never sun has shone,
By streams that never find the sea;
Over snow by winter sown,
And through the merry flowers of June,
Over grass and over stone,
And under mountains in the moon.
Roads go ever ever on
Under cloud and under star,
Yet feet that wandering have gone
Turn at last to home afar.
Eyes that fire and sword have seen
And horror in the halls of stone
Look at last on meadows green
And trees and hills they long have known.

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Touched By an Angel by Maya Angelou

We, unaccustomed to courage
exiles from delight
live coiled in shells of loneliness
until love leaves its high holy temple
and comes into our sight
to liberate us into life.

Love arrives
and in its train come ecstasies
old memories of pleasure
ancient histories of pain.
Yet if we are bold,
love strikes away the chains of fear
from our souls.

We are weaned from our timidity
In the flush of love’s light
we dare be brave
And suddenly we see
that love costs all we are
and will ever be.
Yet it is only love
which sets us free.

Love Song by Henry Dumas

Beloved,
I have to adore the earth:

The wind must have heard
your voice once.
It echoes and sings like you.

The soil must have tasted
you once.
It is laden with your scent.

The trees honor you
in gold
and blush when you pass.

I know why the north country
is frozen.
It has been trying to preserve
your memory.

I know why the desert
burns with fever.
It was wept too long without you.

On hands and knees,
the ocean begs up the beach,
and falls at your feet.

I have to adore
the mirror of the earth.
You have taught her well
how to be beautiful.

Image by Loop Studios

The Passionate Shephard to His Love by Christopher Marlowe

Come live with me and be my love,
And we will all the pleasures prove,
That Valleys, groves, hills, and fields,
Woods, or steepy mountain yields.

And we will sit upon the Rocks,
Seeing the Shepherds feed their flocks,
By shallow Rivers to whose falls
Melodious birds sing Madrigals.

And I will make thee beds of Roses
And a thousand fragrant posies,
A cap of flowers, and a kirtle
Embroidered all with leaves of Myrtle;

A gown made of the finest wool
Which from our pretty Lambs we pull;
Fair lined slippers for the cold,
With buckles of the purest gold;

A belt of straw and Ivy buds,
With Coral clasps and Amber studs:
And if these pleasures may thee move,
Come live with me, and be my love.

The Shepherds’ Swains shall dance and sing
For thy delight each May-morning:
If these delights thy mind may move,
Then live with me, and be my love.

Unending Love by Rabindranath Tagore

I seem to have loved you in numberless forms, numberless times…
In life after life, in age after age, forever.
My spellbound heart has made and remade the necklace of songs,
That you take as a gift, wear round your neck in your many forms,
In life after life, in age after age, forever.

Whenever I hear old chronicles of love, its age-old pain,
Its ancient tale of being apart or together.
As I stare on and on into the past, in the end you emerge,
Clad in the light of a pole-star piercing the darkness of time:
You become an image of what is remembered forever.

You and I have floated here on the stream that brings from the fount.
At the heart of time, love of one for another.
We have played along side millions of lovers, shared in the same
Shy sweetness of meeting, the same distressful tears of farewell-
Old love but in shapes that renew and renew forever.

Today it is heaped at your feet, it has found its end in you
The love of all man’s days both past and forever:
Universal joy, universal sorrow, universal life.
The memories of all loves merging with this one love of ours –
And the songs of every poet past and forever.

Image by Jordan Voth

I Carry Your Heart With Me by e.e. cummings

i carry your heart with me (i carry it in
my heart) i am never without it (anywhere
i go you go, my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing, my darling)
i fear
no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet) i want
no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart

i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)

Soneto 17 by Pablo Neruda

No te amo como si fueras de sal, topacio
o flecha de claveles que propagan el fuego:
te amo como se aman ciertas cosas oscuras,
secretamente, entre la sombra y el alma.

Te amo como la planta que no florece y lleva
dentro de si, escondida, la luz de aquellas flores,
y gracias a tu amor vive oscuro en mi cuerpo
el apretado aroma que ascendió de la tierra.

Te amo sin saber cómo, ni cuándo, ni de dónde,
te amo directamente sin problemas ni orgullo:
asi te amo porque no se amar de otra manera,

sino asi de este modo en que no soy ni eres,
tan cerca que tu mano sobre mi pecho es mia,
tan cerca que se cierran tus ojos con mi sueño.

Sonnet 17 by Pablo Neruda (translated by Stephen Tapscott)

I do not love you as if you were salt-rose, or topaz,
or the arrow of carnations the fire shoots off.
I love you as certain dark things are to be loved,
in secret, between the shadow and the soul.

I love you as the plant that never blooms
but carries in itself the light of hidden flowers;
thanks to your love a certain solid fragrance,
risen from the earth, lives darkly in my body.

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way

than this: where does not exist, nor you,
so close that your hand on my chest is my hand,
so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.

After Love Poems

We adore these love poems to read at wedding ceremonies. Whether they are used it in lieu of more traditional pieces of the ceremony, read by a close friend or relative, or even read from one of you to the other, these love poems have a way of touching our hearts more closely than we know—especially the moment before “I do.”

While you’re working on your wedding ceremony, here are a few more sentimental unity ceremony ideas we’ve collected. Of course, once those are complete, you’ll need the perfect recessional song to walk back down the aisle.

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Affordable Bridesmaid Dresses Under $100

August 27, 2022 | Junebug Weddings

Being asked to be a bridesmaid is such an honor, but let’s face it, it can also be super expensive. We know you want to look good standing next to your best friends on their big day without breaking the bank. That’s why we’ve rounded up some of our favorite affordable bridesmaid dresses under $100 for you to shop guilt-free. Don’t worry, just because they are affordable doesn’t mean that they skimp on style!

Affordable Bridesmaid Dresses

Memorable Romance Velvet Maxi Wrap Dress

Amazing Evening Black Tiered Maxi Dress

AW Enyo Dress

Azazie Evalleen

Birdy Grey Kira Velvet Dress

Oh The Drama Balloon Sleeve V-Neck Maxi Dress

Azazie Deandra

Birdy Grey Lisa Midi Dress

Feeling Flawless Velvet V-Neck Maxi Dress

Birdy Grey Monica Dress

Azazie Lecia

AW Andie Dress

Birdy Grey Alex Convertible Dress

Birdy Grey Jesse Dress

Moments Of Bliss Black Backless Mermaid Maxi Dress

Birdy Grey August Convertible Dress

AW Merbok Dress

Azazie Christiana

Feel the Romance Off-the-Shoulder Maxi Dress

Heavenly Hues Maxi Dress

I’m All Yours Ruffled Maxi Dress

Looking your best while standing next to your best friend on their special day shouldn’t break the bank. These affordable bridesmaid dresses are just the start. If you’re looking for even more options, check out our round-up of the best places to buy bridesmaid dresses online!

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