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The Best 10-Month Wedding Planning Timeline

October 10, 2018 | kailey

Image by Henry Tieu Photography. See more of this real wedding here.

Planning a wedding can seem like a daunting task. With the help of top-notch wedding vendors and this 10-month wedding planning timeline, your wedding planning process is sure to be smooth and stress-free. From the early planning stages to the week-of, this wedding planning timeline is sure to keep you on track and make sure you won’t miss a beat. The more organized you get now, the more time you’ll have to soak up every memorable moment.  

10 Months Before The Wedding Day 

The key in this one-month timeframe is to align your values with your expectations. The first month is for building the foundation for all your wedding plans—ultimately setting yourself up for success. We can’t emphasize enough how important it is to start by curating your wedding day budget that is realistic and comfortable for both you and your significant other. 

Your budget will become the foundation of your planning process. It’ll help narrow down wedding day details like venues to consider, how large your guest list can be, and help you prioritize what’s most important. Once you hammer out those all-important numbers, you can move on to more fun things, like creating your wedding mood board, touring venues, and planning decor. 

Here’s what to do 10 months before the wedding:


Eight To Nine Months Before The Wedding

You’ve spent the last month solidifying your budget, now the fun planning begins—creating a vision for your day, deciding who will stand beside you, and booking your vendors and venue. Top-notch vendors like wedding planners, photographers, and videographers book up quickly. You’ll want to research and book your desired vendors as soon as you’ve decided on them. 

This eight to nine-month window is also when you’ll begin to focus on guest-specific tasks like finalizing the wedding guest list you’ve been working on, creating a wedding website, and registering for gifts. It’s also a good time to start creating a mood board. This will help organize your ideas and communicate your vision with your wedding vendors. 

With a seal-tight budget and a team of professional wedding vendors on your side, you’ll be starting out your wedding planning process on the right track. 

Here’s what to do eight to nine months before the wedding:


Six To Seven Months Before

Now that you’ve sorted out the large wedding details and you’ve compiled your dream wedding team, it’s time to announce your wedding with Save The Dates. The next several months will be focused on diving deeper into the details—from wedding fashion to bringing your decor to life and even blocking hotel rooms for out-of-town guests. 

It’s time to find your dream wedding day outfit and, if you’ve decided to have a wedding party, start sorting out their wedding day fashion. If you’re looking for bridesmaid fashion ideas, check out these trends we’ve got our eyes on. It’s also crucial during this time to start meeting with wedding vendors and communicate your vision. This is where your finalized mood board will come in handy. 

Here’s what to do six to seven months before the wedding:


Four To Five Months Before

You’ve officially hit the half-way mark in the wedding planning process—congratulations! Now is the time when most of your details will start to fall into place, so be prepared for a whirlwind of decision-making. In this four to five-month timeframe, you’ll want to set everything up for the wedding rehearsal, including deciding who will be invited to the event so you can prepare invitations. You’ll also want to focus your attention on your wedding day look by setting up your first dress or suit fittings and, if you’re hiring hair and makeup artists, schedule your trial. 

Continue meeting with wedding vendors and get ready for cake testing. It’s also a good time to start thinking and planning wedding showers and the bachelorette or bachelor parties. Decide who you want to invite to each occasion and then start putting together inspiration. 

Here’s what to do four to five months before the wedding:

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Three Months Before

With just three months to go, it’s time to cross off some of those tiny details that are easily overlooked. Buying your wedding rings, finalizing your food and printing menus, and ordering guest favors. Trust us, you’ll be glad you got these little things out of the way early—allowing you to focus on bigger details and reduce wedding planning stress in the coming months. 

Since the majority of the big-ticket items have been taken care of, this is also the perfect time to plan out your wedding ceremony. Will you be including a unity ceremony? Will you be writing and reading your own vows? When you and your significant other make these decisions, meet with your officiant to plan the rest of the ceremony—discuss other ways you want to make your ceremony personal and ask them for advice if you’re feeling stuck. 

Here’s what to do three months before the wedding:


Two Months Before

With just two months left, use this month to meet with all of your vendors to ensure everyone is still on the same page and send your final payments. We recommend you meet with your photographer in person or on a video call to discuss day-of plans and ask any final questions you might have. 

We also recommend meeting with your DJ and other musicians to create and finalize the playlist. This is your chance to provide them with songs you do and don’t want to be played at the reception. After that, it’s time to celebrate. You’ve earned every bit of relaxation and fun your wedding day has in store, so live it up at those bachelorette and bachelor parties. Let the stress of wedding planning melt away for the night (or the entire weekend). Next month is crunch time.

Here’s what to do two months before the wedding:


One Month Before 

It’s officially crunch time. You’re only one month away from the day you’ve spent months preparing for. It’s the month that all of those details still on your to-do list will be checked off. Most importantly—get your marriage license. Laws vary from state to state and country to country on how far out you need to get your license, so make sure you know the ins and outs of making your union legal.

In addition to getting your license, you’ll want to schedule your final fittings and buy all the accessories you need, decide if you want to change into reception outfits (and buy them if you do), create your day-of timeline, and create your seating chart. You should also have received lots of RSVPs by now. Update your guest spreadsheet, call anyone you haven’t heard from, and prepare a final list for the caterer.

Here’s what to do one month before the wedding:

Image by Nikk Nguyen Photo. See more of this real wedding here.

One Week Before 

You’ve made it to the home stretch and your big day is right around the corner. As you’re prepping for your wedding day, there are just a few last-minute things to cross off your list. This week, spend your time checking in with vendors, the wedding party, and any other family or friends who need to be in the loop to ensure everyone is on the same page. You’ll need to get the final guest count to the caterers, as well as plan for any day-of payments. We recommend filling out checks and tips and putting them in marked envelopes that can be easily handed off to your coordinator. 

Finally, it’s time to indulge in some last-minute relaxation, packing for the honeymoon, and getting everything together so you’re feeling your absolute best on your wedding day.  

Here’s what to do one week before the wedding:

  • Touch base with vendors one last time 
  • Finalize day-of wedding itinerary and send to all parties 
  • Send the updated guest list to the caterers 
  • Ensure you have checks ready for day-of payments


The Wedding Day

It’s officially your big day—you’ve made it. Your only responsibility on the day of your wedding is to be fully present and soak up every soon-to-be memory. With all details set, trust your wedding planner and wedding team to take care of everything. 


After The Wedding 

You’re officially married, now what? There are just a few loose ends to tie up before you settle into newlywed life. Don’t worry, there aren’t many things left to do. The most important is circling back with all your vendors to ensure all the balances were paid before or on the day of the wedding. If you do have any outstanding balances, be sure to pay them. While you’re doing this, you can also help your vendors by adding reviews to their websites or vendor pages—like the ones we host here at Junebug Weddings.

Then you can move on to more important things, like opening gifts you received on the wedding day and sending “Thank You” notes to your wedding guests. To make that process easier (and to ensure nobody is forgotten), we recommend using your guest list spreadsheet to note all the gifts you received. That way, all the information—name, gift, address—is in one place for when you start writing notes. 

Whether you’re planning an over-the-top traditional wedding or dreaming of an adventurous elopement, this 10-month wedding planning timeline is a great resource to keep you organized—giving you time to focus on personalized details that will make your wedding unique

 

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Homegrown Rock Quarry Farm Wedding in Chapel Hill

October 10, 2018 | Junebug Weddings

Caroline and Alex’s Rock Quarry Farm wedding was as charming as could be! Their outdoor/indoor celebration focused on family, friends, and handmade details that added a personal touch and carefree, boho feel. The bride looked stunning in a bell-sleeve BHLDN gown, beachy boho braids, and sun-kissed makeup, while her groom was totally stylish in a classic black J. Crew suit and floral print tie. The sweet simplicity of a ceremony in a garden and a reception filled with wildflowers and minimal decor was a breath of fresh air that we simply can’t get over! Not only did Caroline and Alex hit the jackpot with photographer Ashlan DaShawn, but the bride even got to hire her dream videographer, Inkspot Crow, to capture the day!

The Couple:

Caroline and Alex

The Wedding:

Rock Quarry Farm, Chapel Hill, North Carolina

When we posted our proposal to Instagram the day we got engaged, it went viral (InsideEdition picked it up and it now has over 1 million views on YouTube!) A woman commented on our post saying she was a wedding photographer and to check her out. I loved her profile, but she was just a random woman somewhere far away. Turns out, and she didn’t know this when she commented on our post, but she lived just 30 minutes from us… she was local! We hit it off immediately, talking first in the Instagram comments before meeting for engagement photos and later for the big day.

Ashlan and her husband AJ were the perfect pair to photograph our wedding. They totally understood the fun, bohemian vibe of the event and fit in seamlessly. They were not pushy or demanding and made us feel so comfortable and relaxed. After my mom met them for the first time, she said “Wow, you knocked it out of the park with these two!” and I could not agree more.

Throughout the entire wedding planning process, I kept saying “I just want everyone to be happy.” It’s easy to – as the bride – make the wedding all about yourself, but I really wanted to make sure that my mom and his mom, especially, were just as involved and happy in each decision that was made. My #1 priority for the 10 months of wedding planning was to NOT be a bridezilla! I would ask my sisters periodically, “How am I doing? I’m not acting like a diva, am I?!” I wanted to be grateful and gracious throughout.

Without a doubt, the most memorable part of the day was walking down the aisle. Everything and everyone else faded away as I locked eyes with Alex. We both could not stop crying! We had a guitarist playing an acoustic version of the very first song Alex ever performed on guitar for me when we met 8 years ago. The first time Alex played the song for me, way back then, I said: “I want to walk down the aisle to that song one day.” Hearing that music, seeing him at the other end of the aisle, and having my dad by my side… it was perfect!

One of the most meaningful and personal parts of our wedding was during the ceremony when our officiant stopped delivering his message and told us to turn around and face the crowd. He told us to look at everyone gathered there to celebrate us. He said, “Find a couple that has been through hard times. Look at them, and choose to follow their example of strength. Find a couple that has always lived with joy. Look at them, and choose to follow their example of happiness.” He went through a few more, asking us to lock eyes with the couples in our audience who we look up to, knowing there were so many people there we honored and admired. It was an incredibly special touch I had never seen done in another ceremony.

There is so much information out there – in bridal magazines, on wedding planning websites, etc. – telling you what you’re “supposed to” do for your wedding. It’s all meant to be helpful, and to a certain extent it is, but my advice would be to delete the phrase “supposed to” from your wedding planning vocabulary! There is no “should” when it comes to planning your day! You do you! It’s easy to get caught up in the timelines, the traditions, the desires of others, but there’s no one size fits all formula you “should” follow when planning.

We wanted the vibe of the wedding to be homegrown, but not tacky or kitschy, so we were very mindful of that when doing DIY projects. My sister and I did the seating chart ourselves by painting “Find Your Seat” on plywood then stringing twine across in rows, with handwritten table assignment cards hung up with mini clothespins. It was the perfect balance of homemade yet not tacky or cheap. My sister also hand-illustrated the program and welcome letter for all the guests. It was an incredibly personal touch and so beautiful!

The Wedding Team:

Photography – Ashlan DaShawn
Venue – Rock Quarry Farm
Floral Design, Cake, and Event Planning – Camille of Rock Quarry Farm
Catering – Chapel Hill Restaurant Group
Live Music – Brooks Dixon Band
Videography – Inkspot Crow
Stationery – Minted
Hair and Makeup Artist – The Bardot
Wedding Dress – BHLDN
Bridesmaids’ Apparel – Show Me Your Mumu
Groom’s Apparel – J. Crew
Groomsmen’s Apparel – DAZI
Rings – Solomon Brothers

 

Our biggest congratulations and thanks to Caroline and Alex for sharing their Rock Quarry Farm wedding with Junebug! Love the homegrown feel of this wedding? The homegrown details in this Howell Family Farms wedding will give you life!

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2018 Fall Groom Trends We’re Totally Crushing On

October 9, 2018 | Junebug Weddings

We’ve got a crush and we can’t keep it a secret anymore – we’re totally loving these 2018 fall groom trends! From cozy textures like velvet and wool to gorgeous autumn hues like burgundy and rust, there’s a lot to love about fall groom fashion this year. Whether you’re dressing yourself or picking an outfit for the stylish guy in your life, these trends are perfect for your upcoming fall wedding!

Rust and Burgundy Colored Suits

Jewel tones are notoriously autumnal, but burgundy and rust-colored suits are taking the lead this season for fall grooms. We love that these colors transition seamlessly to any wedding style: edgy, romantic, modern, bohemian, rustic, or elegant!

photo by Gianni Di Natale, groom’s apparel by Groom’s Grotto

photo by Dawn Charles, groom’s apparel by Topman

SHOP THIS LOOK

J.Crew Ludlow Classic-Fit Suit Jacket in Italian Corduroy

J.Crew Ludlow Classic-Fit Suit Pant in Italian Corduroy

Express Extra Slim Burgundy Cotton Sateen Stretch Suit Jacket

Express Extra Slim Burgundy Cotton Sateen Stretch Suit Pant

Express Slim Burgundy Cotton Sateen Suit Jacket

Express Slim Burgundy Cotton Sateen Suit Pant

Express Slim Burgundy Satin Peak Lapel Cotton Sateen Tuxedo Jacket

Express Extra Slim Burgundy Cotton Sateen Stretch Suit Jacket

Express Extra Slim Burgundy Cotton Sateen Stretch Suit Pant

Express Slim Burgundy Luxury 100% Wool Suit Jacket

Express Slim Burgundy Luxury 100% Wool Suit Pant

Warm Textures

Wanting to be warm in the cooler temperatures isn’t just practical – it’s totally on trend! Incorporating textures like wool and velvet into your fall wedding attire adds both visual interest and physical warmth. It’s a win-win!

photo by Chelsea Reece, groom’s apparel by Blue Marlin & Co.

photo by Taylor Hughes Photography, groom’s apparel by Next

photo by Fox & Kin, groom’s apparel by Tailor & Co.

photo by John David Weddings

SHOP THIS LOOK

J.Crew Ludlow Slim-Fit Suit in Italian Stretch Window Pane Wool

J.Crew Ludlow Slim-Fit Suit in Chalk Stripe Wool

J.Crew Ludlow Slim-Fit Suit in Brown Bold Windowpane Wool Blend

J.Crew Ludlow Slim-Fit Suit in Windowpane Scottish Wool

J.Crew Ludlow Slim-Fit Blazer in Bouclé Wool Blend

J.Crew Ludlow Slim-Fit Suit in Charcoal Bold Windowpane Wool Blend

ASOS DESIGN Super Skinny Blazer in Navy Velvet

ASOS DESIGN Super Skinny Blazer in Burgundy Velvet

ASOS DESIGN Skinny Blazer in Black Velvet

Dark Floral Patterns

Floral patterned ties are trending for grooms all year ’round, but we especially love to see darker shades in your ties when the fall season arrives! Choose a tie with a darker background like navy, black, or burgundy and look for ties with earthy or jewel-toned flowers rather than pastels or vibrant hues for autumn.

photo by Cassandra Michelle Photography, groom’s apparel by Dazi

photo by Jordan Voth Photography, groom’s apparel by Jos.A. Bank and Thursday Boot Company

SHOP THIS LOOK

Express Narrow Floral Silk Tie

Express Slim Floral Silk Tie

Express Floral Narrow Silk Tie

Express Narrow Floral Pattern Silk Tie

Express Narrow Floral Printed Silk Tie

Express Narrow Floral Patterned Silk Tie

Express Narrow Floral Tie

A Little Bit of Rock & Roll

Black on black is back in style this season with rock ‘n roll fall groom looks! Add visual interest with textures like embroidery, leather, and silk, and don’t be afraid to wear a pair of dress boots to say “I do!” for a little extra edge.

photo by Lauren Scotti, groom’s apparel by Hugo Boss and Tie Bar

SHOP THIS LOOK

Express Extra Slim Floral Dress Shirt

Express Extra Slim 1MX Shirt

Express Slim Small Floral Dress Shirt

 

The Tie Bar Silk Paisley Tie

The Rail Edward Chelsea Boot

Steve Madden Backster Plain Toe Chukka Boot

Folksy Accessories

Boho styles aren’t just for brides! Free-spirited grooms can show off their own bohemian style with felt hats, suspenders, and knit accessories.

photo by From the Daisies, groom’s apparel by Express

SHOP THIS LOOK

Scala Classico Crushable Felt Outback Hat

Brixton Messer II Felted Wool Fedora

H&M Patterned Beige Suspenders

H&M Fine-Knit Bow Tie

H&M Navy Suspenders

Hook + Albert Herringbone Knit Wool Tie

P.S. Check out these 2018 groom style trends and 2017 fall wedding trends for men for even more fall groom style ideas!

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