What happens when a cosmic reconnection leads to a destination wedding in the lush tropics? For Amanda and Jasper, their modern Tulum wedding was more than just a celebration. It all came together after years of growing, finding their way back to each other, and building something real.
Their story started in Washington, DC, back in 2016, during what Amanda jokingly called “expiration dating.” Jasper had just defended his PhD and was about to leave the city. “We made the most of the time we had,” she said, “but it ended with a heartfelt goodbye.”
Then in April 2020, during the early pandemic days, Jasper reached out, out of the blue. What he didn’t know was that Amanda had just planted “Jasper” tomato seeds on the farm she was managing. Coincidence or destiny, we’ll let you decide. What followed was a thoughtful reconnection and, eventually, a shared life together that led them to say “I do” in a place close to their hearts.
What We Love About This Modern Tulum Wedding:
- The effortlessly candid photography by Junebug vendor Julieta Rabadan, capturing real, unposed moments
- Sculptural florals, natural textures, and modern decor that felt right at home in the jungle
- A mirrored ceremony aisle framed by palms, pink anthuriums, and a golden circular altar
- A curated bar with crafted cocktails and elevated mocktails
- A reception that moved seamlessly from sunlit dinner to disco-lit dance floor
Featured Vendor:
Julieta Rabadan
How a Meaningful Destination Elevated Their Celebration
Tulum wasn’t just a pretty backdrop—it was meaningful. The couple had traveled there before and wanted their day to feel like a natural extension of their life together. Their modern Tulum wedding design combined laid-back luxury with earthy tones and natural textures, creating a vibe that was relaxed but refined.
Rather than spotlighting staged moments, their photographer focused on capturing real memories as they unfolded. “They didn’t want a posed shoot,” Julieta shared. “Everything you see is truly what happened.”
Ditching Tradition for Something More Special
Jasper and Amanda’s ceremony was the perfect blend of modern design and jungle magic. Tucked deep in Tulum’s greenery, the setup felt private, cinematic, and totally dreamy. A sleek black aisle with curvy gold details reflected the towering palms above, leading to a circular altar surrounded by tropical blooms in soft pinks and mossy greens.
Clear ghost chairs flanked the mirrored walkway, giving the whole space a clean, contemporary vibe while still letting the natural surroundings shine. The flowers were sculptural and wild in the best way, like they were growing right out of the ground. From the reflective aisle to the minimalist altar, every detail felt thoughtful, elevated, and completely “them.”
Modern Tulum Wedding Fashion That Blended Elegance With Ease
Amanda’s wedding looks were the perfect match for the vibe of the day—elegant, a little unexpected, and full of thoughtful detail. For the ceremony, she wore a minimalist ivory gown with clean lines and a square neckline, paired with a sheer embroidered cape that brought a soft, romantic feel. The cape’s delicate floral and bird motifs caught the light as she walked down the mirrored aisle, adding just the right amount of magic.
For the reception, she switched into a one-shoulder mini dress with pearl-like embellishments—fun, stylish, and made for dancing. Jasper kept it timeless in a black suit and tie, with a blush boutonnière that tied everything together and added a subtle pop of color.
Thoughtful Touches That Made the Day Theirs
From the moment guests stepped into the reception, it was clear Jasper and Amanda’s modern Tulum wedding was anything but typical. The night unfolded across a mix of beautifully styled spaces. Each one layered with color, texture, and intentional design.
Dinner felt like a dream: long linen-covered tables set under bright bougainvillea, with pastel-toned florals and glowing taper candles softening the clean white architecture. Rattan chairs and stacked tableware gave the setup that effortless, beachy elegance, while the color palette—peach, soft pinks, lavender, and pops of anthurium—reflected the couple’s playful, unfussy style.
Not far off, the checkered dance floor sat beneath a canopy of trees and oversized silver disco balls. Velvet lounge corners offered a cozy spot to chat, while bistro lights twinkled overhead as the sky darkened. By nightfall, the whole space had transformed into a jungle disco, equal parts garden party and all-out celebration.
A standout detail? The bar. Jasper is sober, and the couple made sure everyone had something to toast with by offering a menu of fun, vibrant mocktails alongside classic cocktails. It was a small touch that made a big difference, ensuring every guest felt included and cared for.
As the night went on, the lights shifted red, disco reflections danced across the floor, and the energy was pure joy. It was an experience full of intention, beauty, and heart.
What Really Matters When You Look Back
Planning a destination celebration like a modern Tulum wedding? Teaming up with local vendors who really know the area can make all the difference—especially when it comes to rolling with the weather or bringing in design details that just work with the setting. And don’t be afraid to make it personal. Whether it’s writing your own ceremony script or crafting a drinks menu with something for everyone (like Jasper and Amanda’s beautiful mix of cocktails and mocktails), it’s those thoughtful touches that guests remember.
At the end of the day, it’s not about checking every box. It’s about how your wedding feels. So let go of the pressure and trust what feels right for you. Maybe that means a simple dress and a dreamy cape, a mirrored aisle in the middle of the jungle, or disco balls above a velvet lounge. Whatever it looks like, the most beautiful celebrations are the ones that feel real, joyful, and completely your own.
The Wedding Team:
Photography – Julieta Rabadan
Event Planning – Angelina Cardenas
Venue – KIMA Tulum
Florals + Design + Styling – Maria Limon
Catering – Piedra de Fuego
Cake – Lali Pastels
DJ – AV Riviera Events
Rentals – Archive Rentals
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