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How To Thoughtfully Give Money As A Wedding Gift

June 13, 2023 | kailey
How To Give Money As A Wedding Gift

Image by Alexa Frankovitch. See more of this styled shoot here.

Wedding guests often struggle to find the perfect gift. Gifts that’ll not only be appreciated but also hold significance for the newlyweds. That’s why, nowadays, many people are choosing to give money as a wedding gift. It gives the couple the freedom to use it as they please, ensuring they can use it on something they really want, whether that’s an epic honeymoon or fancy new kitchen appliances. However, simply handing over an envelope of cash may seem impersonal—until now. 

To help make your monetary contribution both thoughtful and memorable, we’ve rounded up some creative and meaningful ways to give money as a wedding gift. 

How To Give Money As A Wedding Gift

1. Send It Virtually 

Wedding websites are a new wedding trend that we don’t see going away anytime soon and for a good reason. They are fully customizable and house all the wedding information, including event details, RSVPs, and even registry lists. Many couples will reserve a section on their wedding website for guests to send money virtually, adding a touch of modern convenience to the gift-giving experience. You can also send money via Venmo, Paypal, or even Zelle. 

2. Donate to the Couple’s Chosen Charity

Couples looking to give back during the wedding planning process might ask guests to donate money to a charity rather than gifting physical gifts. It’s a great way to give back, but it also takes the pressure off you, allowing you to donate whatever you’re comfortable with.

3. Give A Gift Card 

You want to give a thoughtful gift without just throwing money their way, but you also don’t want to settle on one physical gift. If this is the position you find yourself in, then a gift card is the way to go. This allows you to put extra thought into where you purchase the gift card from while still giving the couple the flexibility to choose what they purchase. If you notice that many of their registered items come from a specific store, consider choosing a gift card there so they can buy whatever doesn’t get picked up once the wedding is over.

Image by Emily Klarer. See more of this real wedding here.

4. Contribute To Their Honeymoon 

One of the most heartfelt and practical ways to show your love for a newlywed couple is by contributing to their honeymoon. You can play a part in creating an unforgettable post-wedding getaway by giving cash or covering some of their honeymoon expenses. Consider offering to pay for their hotel charges or covering specific experiences they wish to have during their honeymoon, like an adventurous excursion, a romantic dinner, or a spa day. 

While this gift would take a little extra planning, it’s the ultimate gift that keeps giving, creating cherished memories that’ll last a lifetime.

5. Help Save For Big Life Events 

Gifting money becomes even more meaningful when you align it with the couple’s specific life goals. If you know they’re actively saving for a house, consider contributing to their “buy a home fund.” If the couple is expecting a baby or actively trying to conceive, offer money to cover baby expenses. By tailoring your gift to the couple and acknowledging their big life goals, you transform your money gift into a truly meaningful gesture.

Image by Heirlume Photography. See more of this real wedding here.

How Much To Give As A Wedding Gift 

Now that we’ve explored some unique ways to give money as a wedding gift, it’s time to dive into the difficult question of how much to give. Determining the appropriate amount depends on your budget and the closeness of your relationship with the couple. For those you consider close friends and family members, a minimum of $100 is recommended. For acquaintances, cutting that number in half to a minimum of $50 is a thoughtful gesture. 

It’s important to remember that the value of your gift isn’t solely based on the amount you give. Your loved ones will appreciate your kind gesture regardless of the amount you give. 

Your loved ones just announced their engagement, and now you’re getting an early start on hunting down the perfect gift. While the wedding day is still on the horizon, you might want to start by showing your love a little sooner. And if that’s the case, check out our favorite engagement gift ideas that’ll make you the ultimate gift giver, setting the stage for the equally thoughtful, upcoming wedding day gift.

Image by Emily Delamater. See more of this styled shoot here.

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Intimate and Romantic Iceland Destination Wedding

June 12, 2023 | justine

 Jennifer and Jacob made the exciting decision to have an Iceland destination wedding, hoping to bring their loved ones from all over the United States together. The couple had a clear vision in mind: to create a warm and romantic atmosphere, but they needed help figuring out how to bring it to life. Luckily, they had the support of an experienced and trusted team of vendors, and with their guidance, everything fell into place beautifully.

While browsing their photographer’s portfolio, the pair accidentally stumbled across their dream ceremony venue. The cliffside location with panoramic coastal views stole their hearts, and they couldn’t resist exchanging their vows. To complete the romantic vibe, they focused on ground florals. Their talented florist worked their magic for their restaurant reception, transforming the space with lush floral arrangements, black and gold settings, taper candles, and enchanting greenery installations

Their Iceland destination wedding was a true masterpiece, with stunning portraits against misty waterfalls and otherworldly landscapes. Luckily, talented Junebug member Jane Iskra expertly captured all the precious moments. If you’re contemplating the idea of forgoing a big wedding and having a smaller celebration in your dream city or country, this is the inspiration you’ve been waiting for. 

The Couple:

Jennifer and Jacob

The Wedding: 

Matur og Drykkur, Reykjavík, Iceland

The Key Role Of Their Wedding Stylist In Their Iceland Destination Wedding

Because we had a destination wedding and a smaller wedding party, we wanted the overall feeling to be quite cozy. We had a general idea of what style we liked and how we wanted the wedding day to feel, but we needed help conceptualizing those ideas further. Our fantastic planner heard our cries for help and pointed us toward hiring a wedding stylist. Our ideas fully evolved when we hired Wonderlust Events. I remember feeling a weight lifted off my shoulders after our first meeting with her and later receiving the first mood board from her. We said, “Yep, she totally nailed it.”

A Serendipitous Choice: How They Discovered Their Dream Ceremony Venue and Reception Space

After finding our photographer, we were scrolling through her past work when I came across a photo that made me audibly gasp. We reached out to her to inquire about the exact location. We knew we had to see it in person before deciding on it as our ceremony venue. After conducting a site visit, we fell head over heels in love with it and couldn’t envision getting married anywhere else. As for our reception venue, it was a last-minute decision. Our original plan fell through, prompting us to seek assistance from our planner and stylist. They discovered the most incredible cozy restaurant that had everything we were looking for. Unfortunately, we never saw the space before our wedding day, but it was absolutely magical and perfect. It was as if it was meant to be.

Emotional Highlights: Private Vows And The Magical Transformation Of The Reception Space

So many parts of our day stick out as precious moments. The most memorable–and the one we both cherish equally–is when we read our vows privately after the ceremony. It was an incredible moment and one of the few times that day where it felt like it was just the two of us, apart from our photo and video team, who were there to capture the moment. A quick honorable mention goes out to when we saw the reception space for the first time. I had quite the unexpected happy cry about the florals and the tablescape.

Navigating Wedding Planning And Letting Go Of The Small Details

If I could go back in time, I would tell myself that one month into planning, you need to stop panicking about what glassware you need on the table. You don’t need to stress over the smaller things before caring for the bigger items. It’s hard not to get wrapped up in the never-ending to-do lists. But my advice is to take it day by day and have faith that everything will be sorted out in the end, glassware included.

Creating Meaningful Connections Among Their Loved Ones At Their Iceland Destination Wedding

Before our wedding, our families and many of our friends unfortunately never had the chance to meet. Due to living in different corners of the U.S. What we are most proud of is being able to bring all of our close loved ones together. Under one roof and witness them getting to know each other. Seeing important people in our lives laughing, dancing, drinking, and singing together meant the world to us. The day before the wedding, we arranged for everyone to meet at the Sky Lagoon to enjoy an afternoon together as an icebreaker before the rehearsal dinner later that evening. Many people approached us and expressed their appreciation for our effort to acquaint everyone with one another.

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Expressing Their Appreciation Through Thoughtful Favors

We gave out wedding favors as a small token of appreciation for our guests’ commitment to witnessing our marriage. Practical items that could be utilized and remind them of their memorable journey to Iceland. Traveling internationally for a wedding takes a special group of people, so we knew we wanted to provide favors. We crafted welcome wallets for each guest, which included a weekend itinerary and a personalized note from both of us. We distributed scented candles and Icelandic sea salt during the reception as souvenirs of their trip. 

Outstanding Vendors That Made Their Dream Iceland Destination Wedding A Reality

A few standout individuals deserve special mention. Our planner and stylist, in particular, patiently dealt with my frantic emails while finding a new reception venue. Switching venues late in the planning phase caused significant stress, but they handled it gracefully. Additionally, our versatile florist proved to be a true jack of all trades. She did craft breathtaking floral arrangements and played a pivotal role in sourcing the glassware and flatware for our tables.  And despite not being obligated, our photographers extended their presence beyond the scheduled time to ensure we had a photo with each of our guests. 

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The Wedding Team:

Photography – Jane Iskra
Event Planning – Amulet Weddings
Reception Venue + Catering – Matur og Drykkur
Floral Design – Thordis Zophia
Wedding Stylist – Wonderlust Events
Getting Ready Venue – Umi Hotel
Officiant – Bæring Jón Breiðfjörð Guðmundsson
DJ – Sigurgeir Skafti Flosason
Live Music – Unnur
Videography – Martin Kacvinsky
Invitation Design – Alexandra Timiță
Stationary – Lou Paper
Makeup Artist + Hair Styling – Ásthildur Gunnlaugsdóttir
Wedding Dress – Ines Di Santo + Galia Lahav
Bridal Accessories – Something Bleu
Bridesmaids’ Apparel – Revelry
Groom’s Apparel – Ted Baker
Groom’s Accessories – Taft
Groomsmen Attire – The Black Tux
Rings – Brown & Co. Jewelers + Solomon Brothers
Rentals – Thordis Zophia + 88 Events
Transportation – Björk Ormarsdóttir
Favors – Saltverk Icelandic + Foss Candles

 

Congratulations to Jennifer and Jacob on their Iceland destination wedding. We are incredibly grateful to have had the talented Junebug photographer, Jane Iskra, capture the intimate moments of their special day. To explore more of her remarkable work, be sure to visit her profile in our directory of the world’s best wedding photographers.

Destination weddings offer a unique opportunity for intimate gatherings with your closest loved ones, allowing for more meaningful bonding moments. It’s important to remember that the key to a successful destination wedding lies in working with experienced wedding vendors. Just like the ones involved in Jennifer and Jacob’s remarkable getaway celebration. Begin your journey by exploring our exclusive directory of the world’s best wedding vendors. From expert planners to creative florists and everything in between, our directory is your ultimate resource for turning your wedding dreams into a reality.

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Modern KIMA Tulum Wedding Complete With Subtle Nods To The Couple’s Favorite Things

June 10, 2023 | justine

Julia and Bryan always dreamed of having a destination wedding. And with a long engagement prior to the pandemic, they had plenty of time to plan every detail starting with their venue. When they came across a video of their chosen venue, they knew it was perfect for them. Naturally secluded by its tropical fortress, the vast property immediately captured their hearts. And with a venue like this, their KIMA Tulum wedding was anything but ordinary. They chose warm colors that matched the greenery and modern architecture, adding black and neutral tones. It created a unique atmosphere that reflected their personalities as a couple and individuals.

The ceremony took place in a secluded jungle cove, with a lush arch as the focal point. For the reception, KIMA transformed into an enchanting oasis with different spaces for everyone to escape and enjoy. The dance floor had a fun disco vibe, with ethereal baby’s breath clouds and disco balls. They created a mesmerizing jungle-inspired setting, with the standout feature being the greenery and rattan pendant lamps suspended above the tablescape.

They ensured every detail had a purpose, meaning, and a personal connection. From the unique pop 60s style table numbers showcasing their love for modern mid-century to the beautifully designed dining menus with watercolor elements and a hidden hummingbird (a nod to their quirky love for birds), their attention to detail was remarkable. You can see it all through the captivating images captured by Junebug members MemoryBox. Trust us. You won’t want to miss this unforgettable celebration in paradise.

The Couple:

Julia and Bryan

The Wedding:

KIMA Tulum. Mexico

Why A Kima Tulum Wedding

We always dreamed of a destination wedding, and with a long engagement before the pandemic, we had enough time to plan everything. Tulum was our destination for its incredible food, pleasant weather, friendly locals, beautiful nature, and unique architecture. When we stumbled upon a video featuring the very first wedding at KIMA, we knew it was the perfect venue for us. The vast and secluded property and its breathtaking beauty instantly captivated us. After visiting the venue in person, we were utterly convinced. Despite its modern style, KIMA allowed us to add our personal touch through furniture, flowers, and signage, making it the perfect setting for our special day.

Personalizing Their Ceremony By Reimagining Traditions

To create a unique and inclusive atmosphere, we chose an alternative processional. Our parents walked down the aisle together, showcasing their bond as couples, followed by the individual entrance of our bridal party. It was important to us that everyone felt acknowledged and celebrated. Adding to the enchantment, we had a talented guitarist and singer perform during the ceremony, infusing our chosen songs with their own artistic touch. Walking down the aisle to the heartfelt melodies of “Eres Tu” and “Disfruto” by Carla Morrison, beautifully crafted by a Mexican-American artist, added an extra layer of sentiment to the moment. We selected “Signed, Sealed, Delivered” as a timeless conclusion for our recessional. To make our vows genuinely personal, we exchanged heartfelt and customized promises to each other.

How Their KIMA Tulum Wedding Design Came To Be

We created a magical atmosphere blending modern, lush, fun, elegant, and whimsical elements at KIMA. The pool area became a cozy spot for drinks and relaxation, adorned with lovely candles. When night came, the candles reflected in the water, creating a magical scene. The dance floor exuded vibrant disco vibes with baby’s breath “clouds,” disco balls, and boho lanterns. The dining area immersed guests in a jungle-like experience with greenery, lanterns, and unique floral arrangements. Every detail held purpose and meaning, from the black accents complementing the venue’s iron doors to the custom-made pop 60s table numbers and watercolor menus featuring a hidden hummingbird, reflecting our quirky love for birds.

Elevating the Wedding Experience: A Harmonious Blend of Beauty, Entertainment, and Culinary Delights

Everything came together beautifully in terms of the look and the entertainment. We didn’t want our wedding to be just visually pleasing. We aimed to create an amazing guest experience with delicious food that immersed them in our journey. We had a lively flamenco band for the welcome party, a talented singer and guitarist for the ceremony, a saxophone player who joined the DJ for dancing, and a breathtaking circus performance, rivaling Cirque-du-Soleil, that amazed everyone. The food was sensational, offering a wide variety of mouthwatering options. It was a truly unforgettable experience.

Starting on a High Note With Thoughtful Welcome Bags

We prepared a stacked welcome bag for our guests with thoughtful items. The bag itself had a special touch—a Mexican hand-made tassel “ornament” that could be taken home and hung on a Christmas tree since our wedding was close to the holiday season. Inside, we included nostalgic snacks like corn nuts, Abba-Zabbas, and Oreos. We also had practical items such as locally-made mosquito repellent sticks, UV stickers, mini candles with Tulum-inspired scents from a local candle company, and a 3-in-1 flashlight, fan, and phone charger, perfect for the darker nights and warmer climate in Tulum. To help guests recover from any potential hangovers, we also provided a hangover recovery kit, including Liquid IV. We distributed woven rattan fans at the wedding, which guests used and appreciated throughout the night.

Dedicating Time To Master Their Dance Moves Paid Off

I believe our wedding dance was the highlight of the night. My best friend, who happens to be a professional ballroom dancer, choreographed it for us. We dedicated five months to perfecting the dance and attending in-person and virtual lessons with Sonya. I am incredibly proud of how it turned out. We went against the traditional route and danced to the lively tune of “Bomboleo” by the Gipsy Kings. It was a fast-paced bachata with funky footwork, and at times, I wasn’t sure if we would learn it in time. But we did it! Seeing Bryan dance brings me immeasurable joy that will last a lifetime.

Wedding Planning Advice From The Newlyweds

Treasure each moment as it passes by faster than you realize. Don’t allow others’ opinions, whether from family or friends, to hinder your creative vision. Remember to treat your vendors with kindness and appreciation, as they play a vital role in bringing everything together. And most importantly, have fun! This isn’t merely work but a dream you’re living, so savor every moment and enjoy the journey.

The Wedding Team:

Photography – MemoryBox Photography
Event Planning – LM Weddings
Ceremony + Reception Venue – KIMA Tulum
Design + Styling – Daniela Parra Design
Floral Design – Grisel Serrano Florals
Catering – Piedra de Fuego
Cake – Rosarina
DJ – Karla Mercedes Music
Live Music – Zamapaax + Sariela
Videography – Social Art Cinema
Invitation Design – Aralia MX
Makeup Artist + Hair Stylist – Prep Tulum
Bridal Dress – Sarah Seven
Bridal  Accessories – Loeffler RandallA.B. Ellie
Bridesmaids’ Apparel – Rat & Boa
Groom’s Suit – Sew Generously Bespoke
Groom’s Accessories – Magnanni + Suit Supply
Groomsmen’s Apparel – Indochino
Rings –  Andria Barboné + Mociun + Robbins Brothers
Rentals – Archive Rentals

 

Congratulations to Julia and Bryan on their modern KIMA Tulum wedding, with subtle nods to all of their favorite things. We extend our heartfelt gratitude to Junebug members MemoryBox for beautifully capturing every cherished moment and intricately crafted detail. To explore more of their exceptional work, please visit their profile in our directory of the world’s best wedding photographers.

Planning a destination wedding requires careful coordination of various elements. Like Caroline and Philip’s wedding, the key to success lies in assembling a dedicated team. From handpicking the right vendors to effectively expressing your vision, our comprehensive destination wedding planning guide covers everything you need to know to make your dream getaway wedding a reality.

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