WEDDING BLOG

Casey and Michael come from opposite coasts—she’s from Southern California, and he’s from Florida. But fate brought them together in San Francisco, where they bonded over art, nature, food, and a shared dark sense of humor. Their love story unfolded through hikes, road trips, rock climbing, and making music together. After nearly six years together, they got engaged during a quiet, rainy hike in Kauai.

The couple’s first trip together was a road trip along the California coastline over Thanksgiving weekend. Renting a camper van, they packed it full of holiday treats (pies included) and drove down Highway 1, stopping for scenic naps and campsite cooking. Their journey led them to Big Sur, where they camped along the river, surrounded by towering redwoods. That trip made Big Sur special to them, so when it came time to choose a wedding location, they knew there was no better place. “If our families were going to travel for the wedding, we wanted them to experience what we thought was the most beautiful place in California.”

The evening before their Big Sur wedding, Casey and Michael hosted a rehearsal dinner that blended Filipino heritage with heartfelt connection. “Our wedding party wore traditional Barong Tagalogs and Filipiniana dresses made from pineapple fiber, which felt like a beautiful way to honor my roots,” Casey said. “That night was about so much more than just practicing for the big day. We had long conversations with family members we had never met, friends connecting with our pastor—it felt like everyone was coming together in the most beautiful way.” The welcome party followed, complete with appetizers, drinks, and a collodion tintype photographer capturing timeless portraits of the guests.

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From the start, the couple leaned into the natural surroundings. The theme came together around Michael’s favorite flower, the California Golden Poppy, inspiring a vibrant color palette of poppy orange, oceanic teal-blue, and rich brown from the redwoods.

The groomsmen wore teal-blue suits, while the bridesmaids donned flowing dresses in shades of golden poppy. The man of honor’s white suit was embroidered with golden poppies and a California quail, the state bird, tying in even more local inspiration.

The wedding day itself started with an unexpected twist. Casey, waiting for her turn in hair and makeup, decided to grab breakfast for her bridesmaids. As she waited for the food, she was offered a cup of tea. Somehow, the tea slipped, spilling onto her chest. “I panicked and dunked myself into a water fountain outside the roadhouse,” she recalled. “The next thing I knew, Mike and his groomsmen were nearby, trying to avoid seeing me before the ceremony, and I was calling out for him.”

As fate would have it, an EMT happened to be at the roadhouse and quickly jumped in to help. Within minutes, Casey and Mike were in an ambulance on their way to the emergency room—a 40-minute drive away. She suffered second-degree burns across her chest and upper body, injuries that would leave permanent scars. But despite the pain, she opted for minimal medication so she could fully experience her big day. “As crazy as it was, that morning grounded us. It reminded us that nothing mattered more than being there for each other.”

With her wounds treated, Casey returned just in time for a magical ceremony beneath the redwoods, the Big Sur River flowing nearby. Guests were seated in a semi-circle for an intimate setting, with minimal decorations to let the landscape shine. The couple exchanged vows in a deeply personal ceremony, incorporating Filipino wedding traditions.

“We included a cord and veil ceremony, a meaningful Filipino tradition. Our parents placed a cord and veil on us, symbolizing unity and protection. We also chose a reading, ‘To Love is Not to Possess’ by James Kavanaugh, beautifully read by the groom’s close friend, Seth. Pastor Sovory, a longtime family friend, delivered a homily that reflected on the sacredness of the land, surrounded by ancient trees and the flowing river—it truly set the tone for our ceremony. All our family and friends played such a big role in making it happen. It was incredibly grounding.”

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Afterward, they changed into more comfortable clothes. Casey switched into an ivory high-neck dress that wasn’t originally planned but was perfect for covering her bandages. Luis, her man of honor, had cleverly fashioned a tulle shawl during the ceremony to conceal the burns until she could change. “That little moment of practicality really saved the day!” Once changed, they joined their friends and family at the roadhouse for cocktail hour, where they signed the marriage license. “It felt like a more relaxed and intimate time with our mothers, who co-signed the license, before we dove into the rest of the celebration.”

The reception continued the couple’s California-inspired vision, with tables decorated in wildflower arrangements and earthy textures that echoed the surroundings. Guests dined on locally sourced dishes, with a menu designed to highlight fresh, seasonal ingredients. “We wanted our wedding to feel like an extension of Big Sur—natural, vibrant, and welcoming.” 

Personal touches and DIY elements made their big day feel even more intimate and reflective of the couple’s journey together. Casey and her mother took on the florals, crafting all the bouquets, boutonnieres, and arrangements by hand. She also designed the printed signage, ensuring every detail felt true to their vision. Meanwhile, Steve, the groom’s dad, handcrafted custom wooden table signs, each named after a meaningful place in California. Their head table, for example, was named after their shared address in San Francisco—a nod to the life they’ve built together.

One of the highlights of the night? The music. A string quartet made up of students from the San Francisco Conservatory of Music played during the ceremony, while DJ Adam Millman kept the dance floor packed all night.

“There were so many unforgettable moments that made our celebration truly special. One of the highlights was our first dance as a married couple, along with the father-daughter and mother-son dances under the stars, surrounded by our closest family and friends.”

“We loved seeing everyone letting loose on the dance floor, it was so much fun to watch!” The bride’s parents shared a slow dance to the same song that played at their wedding years ago, a touching full-circle moment that filled the night with love and joy.

Thoughtful details extended beyond the décor. Michael assembled the guest gift bags, which included Filipino desserts as a tribute to Casey’s heritage, and personally crafted the confetti cones that hung on guests’ chairs during the ceremony. As the newlyweds walked down the aisle, a shower of confetti filled the air.

Even the cake table carried sentimental weight. Framed wedding photos of their parents and grandparents surrounded the display, adding a sense of history and connection. But one of Michael’s favorite details? The cake topper—a pair of tiny alpacas dressed as a bride and groom—playful, personal, and a perfect reflection of the couple’s fun-loving spirit.

For Casey and Michael, the biggest priorities in their budget were location and food. “We wanted our guests to feel comfortable and well-fed throughout the day. From the ceremony to the reception and even by the firepit later in the evening, we made sure there was always something to snack on.” They allocated the bulk of their budget to catering and the venue, ensuring they had all the necessary rentals to make the space inviting without overshadowing its natural beauty.

Attire was another key consideration. The couple covered the cost of their wedding party’s outfits for both the rehearsal dinner and wedding day to ensure no one felt burdened. “We were particular about our own clothing choices, but we also wanted our loved ones to feel taken care of.”

One area where they saved? Florals. Instead of splurging, the bride and her mom, Christine, took a hands-on approach, designing and arranging all the bouquets, boutonnieres, and floral décor themselves. With help from family, the arrangements were safely transported and set up by their coordinator on the big day.

Their careful budgeting was made possible thanks to Casey’s mom, who generously covered most of the costs. “She was so excited to be part of the process, and we were incredibly grateful for her support. It gave us the flexibility to be thoughtful about how we spent, making sure every decision added to the experience and comfort of our guests.”

Looking back, they have two key pieces of advice for future couples—one practical and one personal. “Tactically, make sure you understand exactly what’s included with your venue before booking, especially when it comes to rentals like tables and chairs. Get a detailed list of what’s provided and a full quote from the rental company, including delivery and setup fees. We were shocked to find that delivery costs were nearly as high as the rentals themselves, so having this information upfront is crucial.”

Beyond logistics, their biggest takeaway was learning to embrace the unexpected. “We had an ER visit on our wedding day, and yet it was still one of the best days of our lives. Things won’t always go as planned, but if you focus on each other and what truly matters, those unplanned moments can bring you even closer. If spending time together makes you feel calmer, don’t feel pressured to follow traditions—do what feels right for you. For us, sticking together through it all made the day even more special.”