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A Sangjit, Tea Ceremony, and Night Reception in This Meaningful Chinese Malaysian Wedding

October 16, 2026 | justine

Yvonne and Marco’s wedding moved through several distinct celebrations, each with its own look. The morning began at home amid red double-happiness symbols, family traditions, and door games before the couple changed for a colorful tea ceremony. By night, the reds and oranges had given way to white, navy, and emperor yellow, the couple’s feng shui colors, with orchids, sheer draping, low-lying fog, projections, and blue light filling the reception.

There was plenty happening between those two settings. Yvonne wore three different outfits across the day, the family remained closely involved in the celebrations, and the evening moved from dinner and speeches into performances and a lion dance. Junebug vendor Rotikahwin documented those shifts as they unfolded, from the quieter getting-ready moments to the full scale of the nighttime festivities.

What We Love About This Tea Ceremony:

  • Three distinct bridal looks
  • Playful door games with Marco and his friends
  • A gold double-happiness symbol surrounded by orange and white flowers
  • Feng shui colors of white, navy, and emperor yellow for the reception
  • A night celebration with projections, theatrical lighting, fog, and a lion dance

Featured Vendor:
ROTIKAHWIN

For the Tea Ceremony, Yvonne Leaned Into Color and Tradition

Yvonne had a clear design direction for the sangjit and tea ceremony. She changed into an intricately embroidered high-neck dress covered in colorful floral motifs, finished with detailed hair accessories and earrings. Marco wore black alongside her colorful look.

“For our sangjit and tea ceremony, I knew I wanted something bold, colourful and playful, while bringing together the richness of traditional Chinese colours with a touch of French-inspired elegance,” Yvonne says.

White draping framed the family ceremony, with a large gold double-happiness symbol positioned above the couple. Orange flowers punctuated arrangements of white blooms and greenery around the seating area.

Yvonne and Marco moved through the tea ceremony with their families, kneeling to serve tea and receiving red envelopes in return. Formalities quickly gave way to hugs and conversation, with several relatives eventually gathering around Yvonne in a group embrace.

The Wedding Day Started With Door Games and Family Traditions

Yvonne began the day  surrounded by her bridal party and family in a home filled with signs of what was ahead. Red double-happiness symbols appeared throughout the space, while red and orange florals framed the entrance.

Before Marco could make his way inside, he and his friends had the door games to contend with. The challenges quickly became one of the livelier parts of the morning, with Yvonne’s bridal party looking on as the group worked their way through them and red envelopes went flying across the room. The morning stayed close to family, with relatives appearing throughout the preparations and traditions.

A Clear Vision Made Vendor Selection Easier

Yvonne was decisive about the look of the wedding and equally selective about the people she trusted to execute it. She discovered most of her vendors online, paying close attention to portfolios and choosing teams whose existing work already aligned with what she had in mind.

“Their style and attention to detail already aligned closely with the vision and vibe I had in mind, so I was quite firm about the vendors I wanted from the beginning,” she says.

Working with a planner also meant Yvonne and Marco could stay focused on the bigger picture while the details, coordination, and execution were handled for them. They shared their ideas and color direction, then worked together on the styling, florals, and atmosphere for the different parts of the day.

Feng Shui Colors Gave the Night Reception a Completely New Look

The reception introduced another color palette altogether. White, navy blue, and emperor yellow, chosen from Yvonne and Marco’s feng shui colors, became the basis for the evening design. White orchids and baby’s breath filled the floral installations, joined by yellow chrysanthemums. Sheer fabric descended around the reception space, while the couple’s monogram appeared across the room and in the projections behind their table.

The navy remained more subtle, just as Yvonne had planned. Both mothers wore navy evening gowns, while soft blue lighting introduced the color across the room after dark. As the evening progressed, the lighting shifted between warm amber and deep blue, with beams crossing overhead and projections changing the appearance of the space.

   

A Fog-Filled Entrance Kicked Off the Evening

Yvonne changed for the reception, this time into a fitted white gown with intricate detailing and a long train, while Marco wore a black tuxedo.

For their entrance, low-lying fog covered the aisle as the couple walked beneath the fabric installations and lighting overhead. Later in the evening, the room was washed in blue as Yvonne’s train stretched behind her through the reception space.

Dinner gave way to speeches, cake cutting, and live entertainment. A colorful lion dance brought the performance into the middle of the room, with guests gathering around to watch. 

The Connection Was Immediate, Just in Different Ways

Yvonne and Marco met through work while collaborating on a mutual friend’s project. Both were in the same field, and Yvonne quickly noticed how naturally they complemented one another. “For him, it was love at first sight,” she says. “For me, it was meeting someone who simply felt right.”

There was a similar balance to the wedding they planned. The playful door games, family traditions, colorful tea ceremony, and polished evening reception were distinct from one another, but none seemed out of place beside the next. Different colors, traditions, and moods could all exist within the same celebration, and somehow, together, they simply made sense.

The Wedding Team:

Photography – Rotikahwin
Venue – Shangrila Tanjung Aru Resort

 

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This Dutch Wedding Inside the Marl Caves of Chateau Neercanne Is Completely Transporting

October 13, 2026 | justine

Lena and Koen had always pictured getting married in Italy. Then they visited Chateau Neercanne in the Netherlands and found a little street winding through the property, multiple spaces that could take guests through each part of the day, and, most unexpectedly, marl caves built into the hillside. They viewed exactly one venue and booked it.

Inside the caves, candlelight flickered against rough stone walls while videos from their lives played before the ceremony. Later, 50 guests sat down for a three-hour dinner, opened personal letters waiting at their places, and followed a saxophonist straight from dinner to the dance floor. It was the kind of destination atmosphere Lena and Koen had been looking for, without asking everyone they loved to leave the country. 

What We Love About This Chateau Neercanne Wedding

  • Home videos projected onto the cave walls before the ceremony
  • A ring warming that ended with their mothers handing them the rings
  • A pub quiz organized by friends while Lena and Koen took portraits
  • Handwritten letters waiting at the table for every guest
  • A regional music battle complete with flags carried by the newlyweds

Finding the Destination Wedding Atmosphere They Wanted Close to Home

A wedding abroad had been the original idea, but finding a venue at home that gave Lena and Koen the same atmosphere made the logistics much easier. The property didn’t read as particularly Dutch to them. Instead, its architecture and narrow street reminded them of somewhere in the South of France or Italy.

Then they saw the caves. “We ultimately fell in love with the caves that were connected to the venue,” they shared. “No venue could ever top that combination. So, we simply viewed one venue, fell in love and booked it.”

Staying in one place didn’t mean spending the entire day in the same setting. Different areas hosted each part of the wedding, so guests could move from one space to another without traveling between locations.

It also helped them save on decor. They loved the property as it was, so there was little need to add much more.

Knowing Which Wedding Expenses They Didn’t Want to Compromise On

Lena and Koen took on the planning without a planner, turning to Pinterest, Instagram, wedding blogs, and plenty of Google searches. They didn’t already have a network of wedding vendors to call, so building their team involved online meetings, portfolios, reviews, and a lot of instinct.

“No specific criteria, mostly just a gut feeling,” they explained. “Luckily, we couldn’t be happier with the team we picked.” Photography was one expense Lena had decided on long before the rest. Junebug vendor Stance Photography was actually the first vendor they searched for, even before finding their venue. Videography became another priority once they found a filmmaker whose work they loved, and they adjusted the budget to make room for both.

Their final budget ended up 25 percent higher than the number they originally had in mind. They made the adjustment early, though, and stuck to the revised amount for the rest of planning. Taking on the work themselves was intense enough that Lena describes it as essentially having another full-time job. Surprisingly, she misses it.

A  Cave Ceremony Illuminated by  Candlelight

Much of the decor throughout the day was DIY, including menus, a welcome flag, candles, and even the chairs they brought in instead of using the venue’s existing ones. Large floral installations were one of the exceptions.

Lena loves flowers and initially couldn’t imagine the wedding without plenty of them. But inside the caves, flowers and candles together began to seem like too much. Their florist agreed that additional flowers weren’t needed for the ceremony, so the couple scaled back.

Guests entered through a candlelit space where videos from Lena and Koen’s lives were projected directly onto the rough cave walls with piano music playing. The couple saved their own first look for the aisle, but had separate first looks with family beforehand. Koen saw his mom, while Lena shared hers with her mom, niece, and grandmother. They had been unsure whether her grandmother would be able to attend, which made having her there all the more special. She passed away just six weeks later.

A Meaningful Moment Before Saying I Do

During the ceremony, Lena and Koen included a ring warming. Their rings passed from person to person among family members and the bridesmaids, with each person holding them briefly before sending them along. Their mothers eventually handed the rings back to the couple.

Koen hadn’t been entirely convinced about including the ritual beforehand. It ended up being one of his favorite parts of the ceremony.

“Now getting to wear these rings every day knowing they all held them is extra special,” they shared, including Lena’s grandmother among the family members who had held the rings that day.

Featured Vendor:
Stance Photography

Keeping Guests Busy While They Stepped Away for Portraits

Skipping a pre-ceremony first look created one small logistical problem: Lena and Koen still needed time for couple portraits later in the day. They didn’t want their guests standing around waiting for them to return.

Their solution was to recruit three friends to host a pub quiz about them. Lena and Koen missed the whole thing, something they joke still gives them “massive FOMO.” According to everyone who was actually there, guests got highly competitive. The mixed teams also put people together who might not otherwise have spent much time talking before the reception.

By dinner, another surprise was waiting. Lena and Koen had written an individual letter for every guest and placed them at their seats.

Making Time for a Long Dinner They Love

Long dinners with friends are something Lena and Koen already love, so they gave dinner a full three hours in the wedding timeline.

They had worried that three hours might be pushing it. Instead, guests settled around long tables for food, speeches, wine, and conversation. Despite having 50 people there, the dinner retained the atmosphere of one of the long meals the couple enjoys with friends.

One guest later told them his cheeks hurt from laughing so much. There was also a plan for the newlyweds to make their reception entrance in a 1956 Mercedes 190SL. Immediately after the ceremony, its transmission broke down.

Their coordinator quickly reorganized the entrance so Lena and Koen could walk in instead. The Mercedes was eventually pushed into place for photographs, meaning they got the pictures even if they never got the drive. “In the end, it is a good story,” they said.

 

Guiding Everyone Straight From Dinner to the Dance Floor

After three hours at the table, Lena and Koen had a saxophonist appear as a surprise and lead everyone from dinner into the party area. There wasn’t much opportunity for an after-dinner lull.

The DJ also had something prepared specifically for their families and friends. Lena and Koen come from different parts of the Netherlands, each with its own particular music style. They asked the DJ to mix songs from both regions into a music battle between the two sides of the room.

Lena and Koen joined in, walking around the dance floor carrying flags representing their respective regions.

A photo booth stayed open during the party, giving guests something else to do and leaving the couple with digital photographs of nearly everyone, including plenty taken after their photographer had finished for the night.

How the Couple Turned A Stressful Process Into an Enjoyable One

For Lena and Koen, some of the best parts of planning came from treating wedding tasks like dates. “Enjoy the process! Yes, it will be stressful. And yes, it will be a lot,” they said. “But it is also an amazing time, which I could have never imagined before getting engaged.”

Their practical suggestion is to make the errands part of it. Add champagne to the cake tasting. Have a nice lunch when visiting the venue. Find small reasons to make the appointments themselves something to look forward to.

One of their favorite planning dates involved choosing a perfume for each other to wear at the wedding. They plan to bring those scents back out for their anniversaries.

And when the celebration was over, they didn’t try to squeeze in another elaborate event. The next morning, some of their guests joined them for brunch. Everyone was nursing a hangover, talking through what had happened the day before, and getting the chance to say a proper goodbye.

The Wedding Team:

Photography – Stance Photography
Venue – Chateau Neercanne
Floral Design – Rae Blooms
Cake – Delicataart
DJ + Live Music – DJ Lars
Videography – Liefste dag
Makeup + Hair Styling – Ellen Sijm
Rings – Nadien Kieft
Photobooth – Happy Booth

 

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Wildflowers, Whimsy, and Queer Joy at This Cecil Green Park House Garden Wedding

Kenzie and Blair originally pictured getting married somewhere tucked away into a forest or on a picturesque mountain. Then they had to account for more than half of their guests flying in. Cecil Green Park House gave them the greenery and outdoor setting they wanted without making the trip complicated for everyone coming to Vancouver. It was the first venue they found, the only one they toured, and the search ended there.

The film-school sweethearts, who started dating just as the world shut down in March 2020 and moved in together the very next day, planned a colorful summer garden party that borrowed from their favorite seasons: spring for Blair and fall for Kenzie. There were wildflowers and pastels mixed with richer shades, a symbolic ceremony led by their moms, and their guests found everything from a dirty soda bar to a quiet room stocked with games and sensory items. It was relaxed, playful, and unmistakably Kenzie and Blair.

What We Love About This Cecil Green Park House Wedding:

  • Kenzie and Blair’s moms led their symbolic wedding ceremony
  • A dirty soda bar gave sober guests their own fun drink menu
  • A quiet room offered games and sensory items for guests who needed a break
  • Bridesmaids chose their own dresses with one rule: include a floral pattern
  • Kenzie did Blair’s wedding makeup, just as she regularly does at home
  • Guests left messages through postcards, an audio guestbook, and a shared digital camera app

Finding the Venue First, Then Building a Queer-Friendly Vendor Team

Once Kenzie and Blair found the venue, the rest of the vendor search moved quickly. An event coordinator friend recommended Sweetheart Events, which led them to their planner Kay. Her bio mentioned reality TV, and they were basically sold before the first conversation.

Kay helped assemble the rest of the team. Kenzie and Blair specifically looked for vendors who were queer-friendly, openly supportive allies, and genuinely kind people they would feel comfortable having around on such an important day. They ended up booking their first choice for nearly every vendor.

Doing Each Other’s Makeup Before Their “Final Look”

Kenzie is a makeup fanatic, and doing Blair’s makeup has become one of their regular rituals. They decided their wedding morning shouldn’t be any different, so Kenzie did Blair’s makeup before doing her own.

They already knew what each other’s dresses looked like. Their hair wasn’t a secret either, since they’d signed their legal marriage papers earlier that morning while Kenzie was getting hers done.

Instead of staging a traditional first look, they waited until they were both completely ready and did a “final look.” After spending much of the morning getting ready together, it was their first chance to stand back and see the whole picture: “Okay, we’re actually getting married.”

Asking Their Moms to Lead the Ceremony

Because the paperwork had already been handled that morning with an officiant, Kenzie and Blair could structure the ceremony however they liked. Their moms stood at the front with them and gave a speech about their relationship and the life they’d built together before symbolically ordaining them in front of their guests.

For a couple whose relationship began with Blair thinking Kenzie was a total valley girl and Kenzie thinking Blair was kind of a nerd, having their moms be the ones to retell the story years later was a fitting way to send them into married life.

When Kenzie and Blair’s Wedding Dress Plans Completely Switched

The bridesmaids received a color palette and exactly one instruction: “include a floral pattern.” Beyond that, they could go for it. Each person chose something that suited her own style instead of wearing a matching look. The mix of prints and colors worked easily alongside the wildflowers without asking everyone to dress alike.

Kenzie and Blair’s own wedding fashion took a less predictable route. Blair had always imagined wearing a simple, classic gown, while Kenzie pictured herself in something with color. By the wedding, they’d completely switched.

Kenzie spotted her dress on Pinterest, tracked down the designer, and discovered there was only one Vancouver retailer. She emailed the store about that exact dress, and they ordered it that day. A month later, she tried on three others before finally putting on the Pinterest find. The search was over.

Blair tried the classic dresses she’d always imagined for herself, but nothing seemed quite right. Then Pinterest served up a colorful dress from the same designer Kenzie had originally considered. 

Making Space for Sober and Neurodivergent Guests

Kenzie and Blair readily admit they are “definitely not DIY people.” Their personal touches focused less on handmade décor and more on how their guests could participate in the day.

They turned engagement photos into postcards where friends and family could leave notes, set up a custom photo booth and audio guestbook, and used a QR-code digital camera app so guests could add photos from their own perspective.

The dirty soda bar came from knowing that many of their friends and relatives are sober. Kenzie and Blair supplied their caterers with recipes, while their planner created custom stickers for the cups. “Suddenly we had our own little dirty soda shop!”

They also set aside a dedicated quiet room for their neurodivergent friends and loved ones. Games and calming sensory elements gave anyone who needed it somewhere to decompress and recharge before heading back to the party.

Their Advice: Start Earlier and Bring Tupperware

There is one part of the timeline Kenzie and Blair would change. They deliberately planned a slow morning, but in hindsight, they would have started hair and makeup earlier and taken those extra hours on the other side of the schedule. “Our biggest advice: do the early hair and makeup. Just get up at 6 a.m. The wedding day adrenaline will keep you going!”

Their second recommendation is even more practical: pack a cooler and bring a Tupperware container. Between nerves, photos, excitement, and talking to guests, they barely got to eat the food they’d spent months choosing. “Pack it up and enjoy it later when you can actually sit down, breathe, and realize you’re starving.”

The Wedding Team:

Photography – Capri Kimberly
Second Shooter – Dylaina Photography
Event Planning – Kay Salem
Venue – Cecil Green Park House
Floral Design – Blossom & Vine
Catering – Sage Catering
Officiant – Sweetheart Events
DJ – DJ Sherry Freeze
Videography – Greyhouse Visual
Makeup + Hair Styling – Beauty En Route
Wedding Dresses – Eva Lendel + Teuta Matoshi
Bridal Accessories – Hillberg & Berk
Bridesmaids’ Apparel – Azazie
Rings – Michael Hill
Rentals – Bespoke Decor
Photobooth – Lumen Booth

 

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