
Before there was a proposal, Sara and Austyn often spoke about creating a wedding that would feel unhurried, intentional, and focused on meaningful time with loved ones. That idea took form in the French countryside during their pastel dinner party celebration at Chateau Allure du Lac, where soft color, thoughtful details, and relaxed elegance defined the week. The two met on Hinge and quickly knew they felt at ease together. “We were really comfortable right away,” Sara shared. “Being together just felt so right, like coming home.” That sense of ease influenced everything, from choosing the Loire Valley to planning a celebration built around connection rather than tradition.
What We Love About This Chateau Allure du Lac Wedding
- The soft pastel palette inspired by Sara’s sapphire engagement ring
- Turning the wedding into a full-week experience for their closest people
- A relaxed garden-party atmosphere that still felt refined
- A heartfelt ceremony honoring Sara’s late father
- A five-course dinner that prioritized conversation and connection
- Personal touches like clay name tags and a crème brûlée crack instead of cake cutting





Turning a Wedding Day Into a Meaningful Wedding Week
From the beginning, Sara and Austyn wanted more than a single-day celebration. “We didn’t want to rush. We wanted to slowly enjoy the best moments together and throw out any traditions that didn’t feel right for us.” Renting Chateau Allure du Lac for the entire week allowed guests to settle in, explore, and truly experience the Loire Valley alongside them.
They chose the region after discovering its countryside charm, vineyards, and storybook chateaus while searching online. Planning from afar meant trusting their instincts, coordinating through translation tools, and even tracking shipped décor across countries. “The whole thing was a giant leap of faith,” Sara said. “By the end of shipping wedding items to France and searching for misplaced packages, I really missed having a planner, but it worked out.”






Using Color and Florals to Build a Cohesive Look
Sara envisioned the day as light, colorful, and outdoors, with pastels anchored by soft blue tones inspired by her engagement ring. Their florist helped translate that idea into a cohesive design. “She created an amazing mood board that brought everything together,” Sara shared.
What started as a simple bouquet quickly grew into a full floral vision, including a ceremony arch and layered table arrangements. “I don’t regret that choice for a second. Her work blew me away.” The florals softened the chateau’s grandeur while reinforcing the relaxed garden-party atmosphere they wanted.





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Choosing Between a First Look and an Aisle Reveal
Without a tight schedule, the morning felt calm and unrushed. Sara and Austyn even shared coffee outside before getting ready. “That was one of the biggest advantages of skipping hair and makeup,” Sara shared. “We had such a laid-back morning together.”
They chose not to do a first look, wanting the moment at the aisle to feel natural. The result was emotional, genuine, and exactly what they had hoped for.
Couples often find that protecting quiet, shared time helps the day feel more present and grounded.




Carrying Her Father’s Words Into the Ceremony
The ceremony was simple but deeply emotional. Sara’s father had planned to officiate before passing away six months earlier. The family later discovered his draft speech, and Sara’s sister Meg read his words before gently finishing it herself. The moment honored his presence in a way that felt personal and deeply moving.
Sara and Austyn wrote their own vows, heartfelt yet balanced. Austyn’s sister also shared an Irish wedding blessing. “The whole ceremony wasn’t long, but it was perfect,” Sara said.







Planning Without a Full Vendor Team and Making It Work
To make their week-long celebration possible at Chateau Allure du Lac, Sara and Austyn carefully chose where to invest. Setting, photography, and florals came first, while a planner, DJ, and professional hair and makeup were left out.
Sara spent a full year testing makeup herself. “I really wanted to feel like myself,” she said. The reception followed the same philosophy. Instead of a structured party, guests shared a long five-course dinner filled with conversation, followed by music from a friend-built playlist. “We didn’t want to be pulled away to a dance floor at a certain time. We just wanted to enjoy being with everyone.”







Where Meaning Lived in the Details
Many meaningful details came through small choices. Custom tablecloths and blue glassware were shipped to France to match their pastel palette. Handmade clay name tags doubled as keepsakes, adding a thoughtful touch to each setting.
Instead of cutting cake, the couple cracked into crème brûlée. “It just felt more like us,” Sara shared. More than any single detail, the spirit of the week defined the celebration. Guests were encouraged to explore, relax, and create their own experience, echoing the couple’s original inspiration from a quiet trip to Greece.
Looking back, Sara’s advice is simple. “Do what you really want to do. Take the risk. Wonderful things can happen.”








The Wedding Team:
Photography – Dana Arnold
Venue – Chateau Allure du Lac
Floral Design – Clementine Levy
Invitation Design – Minted
Rentals – Options Greathire