Ashley and Ramiro’s love story started with a simple night out after work—and eventually led to a whirlwind proposal on the Amalfi coast. “We had vouchers from the pandemic that were about to expire,” Ashley shared. “I had to convince Ram to go on this trip. We got sick as soon as we landed, then he got food poisoning just as we were starting to feel better.” But somewhere between jet lag and recovery, they managed to make happy memories. “Ram took me to a jewelry store and I unknowingly picked out my own engagement ring. We walked to the pier and he proposed. All while I thought we were just having a regular conversation.”

After that trip, they knew they wanted to see the rest of the world together, and planning a wedding that reflected their shared joy and bold personalities felt like the natural next step. Their DIY Denver wedding wasn’t just an event, it was an explosion of color, creativity, and pure celebration. Set at Blanc, a modern-industrial venue tucked just outside downtown Denver, the day brought together two years’ worth of planning, crafting, and dreaming.

What We Love About This DIY Denver Wedding:

• The couple’s unforgettable aisle entrance to Gangsta’s Paradise followed by Young and Beautiful
• Custom temporary tattoos featuring their faces
• Rainbow-colored florals and glittering wardrobe changes
• A surprise mariachi performance organized by their moms
• DIY elements galore, from the “Best Day Ever” piñata backdrop to personalized guest bookmarks

Saying Yes to Bold Fashion (and Custom Everything)

Fashion was a huge part of Ashley and Ramiro’s wedding vision, and they each worked with local designers and makers to create looks that were completely their own. Ashley described her style as “rainbows, unicorns,and glitter,” and her wedding day outfits fully delivered on that vibe.

She found both of her show-stopping looks at A&BÉ Bridal Shop in Denver. For the ceremony, she wore the Gia gown by Made with Love Bridal, styled with rainbow-colored platform sandals, a rainbow sequined cathedral-length veil, and a custom orchid choker made by her florist, Blumenhaus. For the reception, she switched into a sparkly ivory-and-nude Willowby gown by Watters, still full of shine, but made for dancing.

Ramiro’s look was equally intentional and personal. He wore a custom black and green suit from James Givens Custom Clothiers, complete with a full floral lapel also created by Blumenhaus. The couple kept their looks completely under wraps from each other for a full year leading up to the big day, making their first look even more meaningful. “It was a roller coaster of emotions to see everything executed so perfectly. Doing a first look in our custom outfits made it all the more special.” To keep the energy high and inclusive, they also invited guests to wear their most colorful outfits, and no one held back.

Starting DIY Denver Wedding Journey With What Made Them Happy

For Ashley and Ramiro, the most important goal was simple: “We mainly wanted everyone to have a good time. Good vibes only,” Ashley shared. That outlook guided every decision—from choosing a colorful palette (“the more color, the better!”) to making their dinner the highlight of the evening.

“We’ve been to so many weddings where you leave hungry and unimpressed by their chicken cordon bleu,” Ashley said. “So we made food a priority.” That mindset paid off, with guests raving about the meal and the relaxed, joyful atmosphere throughout the night.

They also took time to step away and soak it all in. “We snuck off to celebrate our ‘joint’ matrimony with a post-ceremony drink and snacks while we soaked in the moment and enjoyed the culmination of 2 years of planning.”

How One Chance Visit Led to the Perfect Venue

Venue hunting almost made the couple give up. With Ramiro’s family in Texas and Ashley based in Denver, location was a challenge. “We looked at a few venues in both states but nothing really checked both of our boxes at the same time,” Ashley explained. “We were about to give up and just elope when I went to a client’s wedding at our venue and fell in love with it.”

That venue was Blanc—an urban, industrial spot nestled in Denver’s arts district. It offered the perfect mix of modern architecture and a spacious courtyard, serving as a blank canvas for all their bright, bold ideas.

“Since the groom’s family was coming in from Texas, we organized a welcome dinner to get them acclimated to Denver’s altitude. Some of the family even drove up with a huge brisket to slow cook for everyone.”

Breaking Traditions Made Their DIY Denver Wedding More Meaningful

Ashley and Ramiro skipped a wedding party, walked down the aisle together, and even threw in a choreographed handshake before their first kiss as husband and wife.

Their ceremony—officiated by Ramiro’s dad—included a sweet sand ritual and began with one of the most epic entrances we’ve seen: Coolio’s “Gangsta’s Paradise” playing instrumentally as guests looked around in delight.

Embracing the Power of DIY (and a Cricut)

Nearly every visual detail was created by the couple, their family, or close friends. From the invitations and centerpieces to handmade guest gifts, Ashley and Ramiro put their Cricut skills to work.

Their photo booth backdrop was made by Ashley’s mom–giant piñata letters that spelled out “Best Day Ever.” Ramiro created a personalized seating chart using rainbow bookmarks. Even their three dogs were included in a custom portrait, which showed up on everything from macarons to tattoos to signage.

“I wanted lots of color, glitter, bright and boldness everywhere,” Ashley said. And they delivered.

Why Letting Go of Control Was the Best Decision

Ashley and Ramiro thought they had everything mapped out, until the music changed. “We had a mariachi band! It was a complete surprise.” “Our moms worked with our planner to make it happen, and they serenaded us during dinner.” It was a heartfelt moment that added an extra layer of meaning to the night, blending their families and cultures in the most joyful way.

And just when guests thought things couldn’t get sweeter, out came the milk and cookies bar, another playful twist on tradition. “The wedding was completely us in every way,” said Ashley. “We had temporary tattoos of our faces, piñatas for the photo booth, milk and cookies for dessert. We even snuck off to celebrate our ‘joint’ matrimony.”

Despite all the planning and personal touches, the couple’s top priority was simply to be present. “Our biggest goal was to spend the night fully enjoying each moment with everyone, rather than feeling like we were busy hosting.” Thanks to a solid team, including a DJ who kept the dance floor packed, a planner who kept things on track, and a photographer who captured it all, they got exactly that. “We were able to be so present with our loved ones, and that meant everything.”

Advice from the Couple: Do It Your Way

It doesn’t get much more heartfelt–or vibrant–than Ashley and Ramiro’s DIY Denver wedding. Their advice to other couples? “Make this day yours, 100%. Play your favorite music, eat the food y’all love, and spend time with those y’all love the most.”

And one last tip? “Hire a vendor team you like and trust, and let them do their thing. Especially if you’re planning a nontraditional wedding–you want people who support your vision.”