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The role of a bridesmaid is not just an honor bestowed upon close friends and family. It’s also a commitment that involves time, effort, and, yes, money. In recent years, the costs associated with weddings have been slowly rising, and the expectations of bridesmaids have grown with them. As we make our way into 2024, being a bridesmaid is more than just showing up on the wedding day with a smile—it can be a significant financial burden. That’s why we’re breaking down the three major expenses bridesmaids can expect–the bridesmaid dress, pre-wedding events, and the wedding day itself.

How Much Does it Cost to Be a Bridesmaid in 2024?

The Bridesmaid Dress

One of the most important aspects of being a bridesmaid is the dress. According to The Knot, in 2022, the average cost of a bridesmaid dress was approximately $200. However, Zola reports that the average is about $150. It’s pretty obvious that the price of a bridesmaid dress isn’t always set in stone and truly can vary depending on the soon-to-be newlywed’s personal taste and the overall formality of the wedding.

In more casual or budget-conscious weddings, you may have the option to choose less expensive dresses or wear a dress of your choice in a specific color. On the other hand, in more formal or high-end weddings, bridesmaids may be required to purchase designer dresses that can cost upwards of $500.

Aside from the dress itself, there are other associated costs, such as alterations. Depending on the required alterations, this could add another $50 to $100 to the total cost.

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Pre-Wedding Events

The responsibilities of a bridesmaid extend beyond the wedding day. Bridesmaids are typically expected to contribute to and attend several pre-wedding events, including the bridal shower and the bachelorette party.

Unfortunately, pre-wedding events can vary in cost dramatically. For example, bridesmaids can typically expect to spend at least $100 on the bridal shower. This cost accounts for a gift and contributions to food and decorations. Of course, this is entirely dependent on who’s hosting the party. In many instances, it’s the maid of honor or a family member. However, some bridesmaids work together to make the newlywed’s dream come true.

Meanwhile, the bachelorette party can cost anywhere from $200 to $1000, which fluctuates depending on location, activities, and whether or not it includes travel and accommodations. To help you get a better idea of what to expect, The Knot found that in 2023, the average cost of a 1-2 day bachelorette party is $1,300 a person. Three to four day parties get up to $1,650.

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The Wedding Day

While the wedding day is a day to remember, it can also be expensive for bridesmaids. If they’re expected to handle the cost of their own hair and makeup, it can range anywhere from $50 to $150. In addition to beauty, bridesmaids may also be expected to contribute towards a gift. This could add another $50 to $100.

Lastly, there’s the cost of attending the wedding itself. If it’s a destination wedding or if the bridesmaid lives out of town, travel and accommodation costs can significantly increase the total cost. Depending on the location and duration of stay, these costs can add hundreds or even thousands of dollars to the total cost. 

Being a bridesmaid in 2024 is costly—potentially ranging from $600 to over $2000. While it’s certainly an honor to be asked to be a part of a friend’s or family member’s wedding, it’s important for bridesmaids to be aware of the potential costs involved. If reading this has you stressed out about being in a wedding party, don’t fret. We’ve rounded up seven ways to help bridesmaids save money.

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