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Image by Olguin Photography<\/a>. We’re breaking down everything you need to know about wedding plus one etiquette.<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n

The <\/span>wedding guest list<\/span><\/a>—it’s one of the trickiest parts of <\/span>wedding planning<\/span><\/a>. After carefully selecting your wedding guests, the next challenge is determining whether they’re allowed to bring a plus-one, which can be a delicate situation. While there are no hard and fast rules on who makes the cut (after all, it’s your special day), there are creative strategies to simplify the process of planning plus ones and ensure it aligns with your <\/span>vision<\/span><\/a> and <\/span>budget<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Image by Les Bandits<\/a>. See more of this real wedding here<\/a>.<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n

What Is A Wedding Plus One?<\/span><\/h2>\n

The <\/span>term<\/span><\/a> “plus one” refers to a guest being given permission to bring somebody with them to a formal event, usually a wedding. When allocating your wedding plus ones, it’s important to note that not every guest has to have one. Traditionally, a plus one is often a date or romantic interest. However, it can also include a family member escorting an older guest who may need assistance or a close friend accompanying a single person. It’s a topic that sparks frequent discussions about wedding invitation etiquette. Should couples allow guests to bring plus-ones, and if so, which ones?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Image by Kellie Jane Creative<\/a>.<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n

Who Should Get A Plus One?<\/span><\/h2>\n

If your <\/span>wedding budget<\/span><\/a> allows it, the simplest approach to handling plus-ones is to extend the invitation for all your guests to bring a date. However, if you have limitations on <\/span>venue<\/span><\/a> capacity or budget constraints that prevent accommodating additional guests, traditional wedding etiquette suggests that the following guests should be granted a plus-one:<\/span><\/p>\n

Immediate Family<\/span><\/h3>\n

It’s important to consider extending a wedding plus one invitation to your nearest and dearest. Whether it’s your goofy younger brother who needs a dance partner or your doting aunt who deserves a charming companion, giving your immediate family the option to bring a plus-one can add an extra touch of warmth and joy to your celebration. After all, what’s better than seeing your loved ones share in your special day with someone who means the world to them? <\/span><\/p>\n

Wedding Party<\/span><\/h3>\n

These are the people who have stood by your side, helping you plan, prep, and stay sane throughout the entire process. They’ve been your confidants, your cheerleaders, and your partners-in-crime. That’s why it’s only fair to extend a plus one invitation to these VIPs. Offering one is a thoughtful gesture that shows your appreciation for their unwavering support.<\/span><\/p>\n

Couples Who Are Married, Engaged, Live Together, Or In A Serious Long-Term Relationship<\/span><\/h3>\n

While it can be tempting to <\/span>break traditional wedding rules<\/span><\/a>, it’s always considerate to invite both parties in a married couple, even if you’re closer to one person than the other or haven’t met someone’s spouse. After all, would you want to attend a wedding without your own spouse? <\/span><\/p>\n

Similarly, for couples who are engaged, live together, or have been dating for over a year, it’s customary to offer them a plus one. In today’s world, many couples live together before marriage or choose not to marry at all. And acknowledging their commitment helps them feel included. While you can use your judgment for couples who’ve been dating for over a year, it’s best to err on the side of caution and provide a plus one unless it’s clear that it’s not a serious relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

An Important Guest Who Doesn’t Know The Other Attendees<\/span><\/h3>\n

Imagine if one of your dearest childhood friends, who lives far away, is attending your wedding. While they may know you, your parents, and your partner, chances are none of you will have much time to spend with them during the event. To ensure they feel comfortable and can have a good time, consider offering important guests like them a plus-one. This thoughtful gesture will allow them to bring a companion and enjoy the celebration, even if you and your other guests may not have much time to personally connect with them.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Image by Lindsey Paradiso Photography.<\/a><\/em><\/p><\/div>\n

Wedding Plus One Etiquette As A Guest<\/span><\/h2>\n

As a wedding guest, it’s important to understand and follow wedding plus one etiquette. While it’s exciting to receive a plus one invitation, it’s essential to be mindful of certain wedding etiquette guidelines. Here are some key points to keep in mind:<\/span><\/p>\n