{"id":13121,"date":"2008-09-17T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2008-09-17T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/192.163.193.130\/~junebugw\/blog\/what-junebug-loves\/?p=13121"},"modified":"2013-08-20T17:42:02","modified_gmt":"2013-08-20T17:42:02","slug":"including-children-in-your-wedding-ceremony","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/including-children-in-your-wedding-ceremony\/","title":{"rendered":"Including Children in your Wedding Ceremony"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body><p><\/p><p mce_keep=\"true\">Travel Update- Wednesday, September 17th- I&rsquo;m back in Lusaka at my Dad&rsquo;s house today. Gonna soak up some serious R &amp; R, and get an idea of their everyday life here. I can&rsquo;t wait to see my dad in action at work. He&rsquo;s been traveling to Africa my whole life, and this is the very first time I&rsquo;ll get to see a first hand look at what he&rsquo;s been up to over here for all those years!<\/p> <p mce_keep=\"true\">Today&rsquo;s blog post is from one of my Junebug partners in crime, Blair. As the resident Junebug genius, Blair has an absolute wealth of knowlege about weddings, ettiquette, and all things sweet and special. Today she&rsquo;s talking about kids in weddings, and what you should keep in mind when including the little ones you love in your big day. Enjoy! <\/p> <p mce_keep=\"true\"><i><img title=\"La Vie Photography\" alt=\"La Vie Photography\" src=\"\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_1a.jpg\" border=\"0\" mce_src=\"http:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_1a.jpg\"> <\/i><\/p> <p mce_keep=\"true\">&nbsp;<i>Including kids in your wedding is&nbsp;the&nbsp;guaranteed way&nbsp;to add extra sweetness to your day.&nbsp;What could be cuter than a&nbsp;little girl all dressed up in tulle and ribbons scattering flower petals from her basket,&nbsp;or a little boy&nbsp;suited up&nbsp;in his tuxedo taking on the important job of the bearing the rings to the&nbsp;bride and groom? If you have children in your life that are between the ages of four and eight those are perfect jobs for them and with enough practice and encouragement they can carry out their roles with pride and passion. Should you have older children that you would like to include, they make great junior bridesmaids, groomsmen and ushers.&nbsp; <\/i><br><\/p> <p mce_keep=\"true\"><img title=\"children in wedding ceremonies\" alt=\"children in wedding ceremonies\" src=\"\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_1.jpg\" border=\"0\" mce_src=\"http:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_1.jpg\"><\/p> <p mce_keep=\"true\">Images top to bottom by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ghkim.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/www.ghkim.com\/\">GH Kim Photography<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/jgarnerphoto.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/jgarnerphoto.com\/\">J. Garner Photography<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/jkhphoto.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/jkhphoto.com\/\">John and Joseph Photography<\/a><i> <\/i><br><br><i>Little children, especially toddlers, are unpredictable and adorably spontaneous. If you plan on including them, be sure to stay flexible and keep your sense of humor. Sometimes they&rsquo;ll be with you and sometimes&nbsp;they&rsquo;ll be&nbsp;in their own world, playing with their toys while you say your vows, or hiding from the camera when the photographer&nbsp;wants to take your group&nbsp;photos. To help kids stay comfortable follow these easy tips:<\/i><\/p> <ul> <li> <div mce_keep=\"true\"><i>Get the kids to practice their roles at your rehearsal and several times before your ceremony.<\/i><\/div><\/li> <li> <div mce_keep=\"true\"><i>Have your flower girl and ring bearer walk&nbsp;down the aisle together. Having a buddy can help calm jumpy nerves.<\/i><\/div><\/li> <li> <div mce_keep=\"true\"><i>Seat parents in&nbsp;the aisle seat where their kids can see them.<\/i><\/div><\/li> <li> <div mce_keep=\"true\"><i>Be sure&nbsp;children have an extra change of clothes in case they can&rsquo;t wait to get out of their fancy duds.<\/i><\/div><\/li> <li> <div mce_keep=\"true\"><i>Arrange for child-care during the reception for toddlers and elementary school children. Create a play area with snacks, toys, and appropriate videos. Consider setting up a changing and nursing room for moms and little babies.<\/i><\/div><\/li> <li> <div mce_keep=\"true\"><i>If you&rsquo;re blending families, be sure that all the kids are included. Have them with you during the ceremony and be sure that the officiant calls them out as an important part of your union.<\/i><\/div><\/li><\/ul> <p><img title=\"cute flower girls and ring bearers in weddings\" alt=\"cute flower girls and ring bearers in weddings\" src=\"\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_2a.jpg\" border=\"0\" mce_src=\"http:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_2a.jpg\"><br>Images top to bottom by <a href=\"http:\/\/photojj.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/photojj.com\/\">Jenny Jimenez Photography<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/jgarnerphoto.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/jgarnerphoto.com\/\">J. Garner Photography<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/positivelightphotography.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/positivelightphotography.com\/\">Positive Light Photography<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/jgarnerphoto.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/jgarnerphoto.com\/\">J. Garner Photography<\/a> <\/p> <p><i>Without a doubt, no matter how you choose to include kids in your wedding they&rsquo;re sure to bring big smiles to your guests and look too precious for words in your pictures, making any minor accomodations made for them well worth it.<\/i><\/p> <p><img title=\"adorable flower girl and ring bearer from a real wedding\" alt=\"adorable flower girl and ring bearer from a real wedding\" src=\"\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_3.jpg\" border=\"0\" mce_src=\"http:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_3.jpg\"><br>Image by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ghkim.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/www.ghkim.com\/\">GH Kim Photography<\/a><\/p> <p><i>Speaking of well worth it! If you have a pet that is&nbsp;as adorable&nbsp;as&nbsp;the one pictured below, by all means&nbsp;deck them out in wedding attire and have your photographer include a photo of them in your wedding album. Kids and puppies, it really doesn&rsquo;t get any cuter than that! <\/i><br><img title=\"tiny dog wedding ring bearer\" alt=\"tiny dog wedding ring bearer\" src=\"\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_4.jpg\" border=\"0\" mce_src=\"http:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/img\/whatjunebugloves\/september2008\/Kids_4.jpg\"><\/p> <p>Image by <a href=\"http:\/\/jkhphoto.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" mce_href=\"http:\/\/jkhphoto.com\/\">John and Joseph Photography<\/a> <\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Travel Update- Wednesday, September 17th- I&rsquo;m back in Lusaka at my Dad&rsquo;s house today. Gonna soak up some serious R &amp; R, and get an idea of their everyday life here. I can&rsquo;t wait to see my dad in action at work. He&rsquo;s been traveling to Africa my whole life, and this is the very first time I&rsquo;ll get to see a first hand look at what he&rsquo;s been up to over here for all [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"kia_subtitle":"","footnotes":"","_wpscppro_dont_share_socialmedia":false,"_wpscppro_custom_social_share_image":0,"_facebook_share_type":"","_twitter_share_type":"","_linkedin_share_type":"","_pinterest_share_type":"","_linkedin_share_type_page":"","_instagram_share_type":"","_medium_share_type":"","_threads_share_type":"","_google_business_share_type":"","_selected_social_profile":[],"_wpsp_enable_custom_social_template":false,"_wpsp_social_scheduling":{"enabled":false,"datetime":null,"platforms":[],"status":"template_only","dateOption":"today","timeOption":"now","customDays":"","customHours":"","customDate":"","customTime":"","schedulingType":"absolute"},"_wpsp_active_default_template":true},"categories":[1004],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-wedding-ideas"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13121","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13121"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13121\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13121"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13121"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13121"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}