Before you find yourself being asked to

wear a white tux with tails and a top-hat,

or to show up in a 1950’s Chevy and a

striped zoot-suit, you’ll want to have

something to say about how your

wedding plans will reflect your personal

style. Spend some time brainstorming

with your bride about what makes your

relationship unique then look for ways 

to translate those things into

distinctive wedding planning ideas. 

Discuss what people, places and things you gravitate toward most and go over your fondest
memories since your relationship began. Then, compare your thoughts and your priority lists
to see if there's a common theme that emerges. If not, just have fun imagining various
scenarios until you create a story for your wedding you’re excited to see unfold.

For instance, maybe you’re a country boy and she’s a city girl. Then why not follow the elegant
ceremony she’s envisioning, with a raise the roof, barbeque reception in a decorated barn?
Maybe you’re into jazz and she’s into hip hop? Then entertain your guests with soulful quartet
during your cocktail hour and a DJ that knows how to spin the latest sounds all night long. 
While it really isn’t necessary to nail down every aspect of your wedding before the planning
starts to unfold, choosing an overall theme and sense of style will provide you both relief and
inspiration along the way.