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How to choose your Best Man:
Choosing a stand-up guy to stand up for you does require some forethought. You’ll want someone
that you really like and trust, who’s reliable, who knows what’s important to you, and has enough time
to help you out all along the way. Your best friend or your oldest brother are the obvious first choices.
If you think one of them is the perfect fit than look no further, just make sure he’s well aware of what
you’re asking him to do.
What you’re asking him to do:
Before your wedding day
On your wedding day and during your reception
- Field your phone calls
- Keep your rings at the ready
- Stand next to you at the altar
- Sign your marriage license
- Give a toast
- Dance with your bride and your mom
- Remind you to not drink too much
- Give you a ride to your hotel or to the airport if needed
After your wedding
- Deliver gifts to your house and take back rental tuxes if necessary
How to choose your groomsmen:
It may be tempting (and maybe prudent) to choose all the guys who lived with you on campus, or
everyone on your soccer team to stand up for you. Just remember the same rules apply to choosing
your groomsmen as to choosing your Best Man. Pick guys you like to be around, who are known for
being reliable, and who are likely to have time to jump in when you need them. Family members and
old friends are honored to act as groomsmen, while young nephews and cousins make great ushers,
greeters, and ring bearers.
What you're asking them to do:
- Attend fittings and pay for their wedding attire
- Attend your ceremony rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, bachelor party if appropriate,
and other wedding related events
- Be on call to help your Best Man if he needs it
To cover any other little jobs and last minute details, you’ll want to enlist the support of knowledgeable,
talented friends and family members, and ask for the advice of the experienced professionals you’ve
chosen for your big day. Chances are you can find all the information and practical assistance you’ll
ever need by calling on the experts and enthusiasts around you.
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