Give and receive- Show your gratitude with notes and gifts that make their mark
From the time you announce your
engagement until your wedding is over,
you’ll be given more gifts, contributions,
and support than you may know what to
do with and etiquette will dictate that every
kind gesture be met with a thank you
note or gift in response. If etiquette and
shopping are not your strong-suits,
don’t worry, just follow these simple rules
and you’ll shine as a giver and as
a receiver.
Order two sets of thank you notes, one that has both of your names on it for gifts you receive as a couple, and one personal set for gifts that are given just to you.
Send out a hand-written thank you note within three weeks of receiving any gift or contribution, (unless you’re on your honeymoon). Be sure to include something about why you appreciate the item or how you might use it. For instance, “Thank you so much for the beautiful champagne flutes, we look forward to using them on special occasions.”
Buy a gift for your Best Man and for each of your groomsmen, to be given at your rehearsal dinner or before your wedding. Include any ushers and your ring-bearer if you’re having one, and consider getting something special for her father and yours. This is one of those times when the presentation matters so have the wrapping done for you if you don’t have time.
Don’t forget to find something sentimental for your bride. Write a poem or love note that your Best Man can deliver before your ceremony, buy her a bracelet to wear at your reception, or pick out luscious lingerie for her to wear on your wedding night. Just be sure whatever you choose, it’s ultra-romantic and memorable.
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